Owliver:
so you are trying to tell me that a Nigerian girl told you she's been trying to get your attention? or maybe you wanted to say an American girl. fa hear

abeg leave the mumu I just dey watch am like naija film.

ashmanpolo:


Naa. I don't want

Did she confessed love to you,if not,i put it to you that your problem is pride.

Of a truth. Op likes the babe but cant stand the gut to date her cos maybe in the past, he has hyped himself to his pals dt he wouldn't stoop to date such babe.

Nevadless, u missed d point, u should have carried us along when u decided to hail the babe after the amebo ur guys did for u. Then we would have advised you not to include some Casanova lyrics.

However, now that u ve collected the gift, and u felt awful, kip d gift and wait till she play the next move. Best u can do to neutralize is to buy her similar gift bt na so d luv they start o.

Meanwhile, why u no fit date d babe kwanu? I am more interested in dt pass d gift sef.

Carry your regular babe along to her house(or hire one for the occassion). Let your babe return the gifts and warn her that she does not want to share 'her guy' and that she does not want her giving any further gifts to 'her guy' again.

The girl will keep off after that.

Blanket - 1000k
Watch - 3000k
Perfume - 1500k
Total = 5,500k
I thought I heard someone screaming that the gift is worth 30k? Anyway she tried, far better off than babes that'll give you lux 3 in 1 vest worth 1000k on your birthday.
I doubt if she has any ulterior motives,she's just gifting a friend but if your not comfortable with it just call her to come pick it up. For your mind you can "NEVER" date her but someone is out there wishing......................

menix:


Do u know what dressing like Americana means
Big booths, saggin pants nd boxers, putting on a big dog chain nd walking like someone with boils on his anus..

Pls have u seen a working class going to work that way...

To be honest, I didn't know what dressing like Americana means (I don't live in Lagos).

Now am finished
The bolded made me giggle like something else.

You should have rejected the gift at the point of presentation. And now that you have collected the gift you have no option than to keep it, give it out or do whatever you like with it. However, you now go to market buy her some gifts too and insert a small note telling her what you feel about her and the gift she gave you. I think this will make a whole lot of sense.

if this story no be fake...make i bend!!!

OP deserves to be given knocks on the head. You shouldn't have gone to approach her initially. It's always dangerous to approach girls that feel for you when you don't have any passion for them. I'm always wary to approach any girl that likes me when I can't date them, infact I will distance a little.
I pity the lady cuz she will feel heartbroken knowing your words when you approached her were fake.

lol
Is this what you re wishing for?
A Niger gal will tell u she has been trying to get your attention when u re not 2face.
You can lie for Africa.

Go to his house aп̥d politely Return †hε Gift/b] [b]haileRS

you dont have to return it to her...lemme give u my addy so you bring it to me...





then you also gimme her contact...i wii help you 'return' it...

otunsman:
Do you refund gifts back to a guy you don't love?Be sincere

i return most.yea

Send her a different and more expensive gift . With a note thanking her and explaining that you are already in a relationship and cannot really get involved .

@Carter06..thank you my brother.if it were a Tom Ford perf or any designer perfs around then you can even think about what next to do..
Original Swatch don't come in leather my brother..its usually in a transparent case with a lengthy manual..return those things ASAP..from what you described of what she thinks of you..those gifts aint your class..all in all it should cost 5k max..unless ofcourse you want we nairalanders to felicitate with you on the fact that a girls head over heels into you

Every1 inda house said it all!!! Choose the one which soothes u. God bless you as u do.

bestestgirl:
First lemme laugh you small

Second, those gifts are not worth 30k biko, so chillix and stop overthinking things, its just a token she bought you because she likes you.

You, on the other hand, should have rejected it outright since you know that you can NEVER date her. infact, why did you not just greet her normally and pass that day, you had to add all the sweet words and then exchange contacts (all the while knowing that you can NEVER date her)

Ok Now what to do:
1. pack all those things back into the gift bag.
2. Go to her house and knock on ther door
3. when she opens, hand the bag to her and say "Hi, I realise that I am to blame for this current confusion because I may have given you mixed signals, however I want to clarify things that I am not currently looking for a relationship, I would like us to remain friends but I don't want to date you. so if this exchange of gifts means what I think it means, I apologize for confusing you."
4. Turn around and go back to your house
5. NEVER flirt with any girl you know you will never date.


She may be hurt today but she will respect you for not playing with her heart.

Now I just fell in(to) love with bestestgirl,she gave you the best advice that will settle this your headache 100% with minimal acrimony. Well done bestestgirl.

[size=30pt]Is that not what u girls call us "baby"[/size]

PunkyVeer:


It looks like a baby's wrapping blanket. What is it? Whatever it is, that's a terrible colour for a man. Those are things you see given as gifts at a baby shower. What, are you 6 months old, she's giving you baby stuff?

Send me her phone number.....

Sunexy:

Uv married an ogbanje

U dnt need 2 sleep wit her sha...she has ur baby alredi

lwkmd

bestestgirl:
First lemme laugh you small

Second, those gifts are not worth 30k biko, so chillix and stop overthinking things, its just a token she bought you because she likes you.

You, on the other hand, should have rejected it outright since you know that you can NEVER date her. infact, why did you not just greet her normally and pass that day, you had to add all the sweet words and then exchange contacts (all the while knowing that you can NEVER date her)

Ok Now what to do:
1. pack all those things back into the gift bag.
2. Go to her house and knock on ther door
3. when she opens, hand the bag to her and say "Hi, I realise that I am to blame for this current confusion because I may have given you mixed signals, however I want to clarify things that I am not currently looking for a relationship, I would like us to remain friends but I don't want to date you. so if this exchange of gifts means what I think it means, I apologize for confusing you."
4. Turn around and go back to your house
5. NEVER flirt with any girl you know you will never date.


She may be hurt today but she will respect you for not playing with her heart.

This advice should really be for women.

You see as my man dey reason how to return gift.

Pick a random woman from the street and gift her a brand new Rolls Royce. And even if she can't stand the look of you - even from a thousand yards. Am not sure many wouldn't have any qualms of conscience appropriating it.

She'd simply just feel entitled, like an emperor of Rome, accepting his due homage.

5. NEVER flirt with any girl you know you will never date.


She may be hurt today but she will respect you for not playing with her heart.[/quote]had same xperience a few wks back,,i rili hurt her feelings,I felt rili bad nd she hated me for it, lemme reaffirm NEVER FLIRT WITH ANY GIRL YOU KNOW YOU WILL NEVER DATE

bestestgirl:
First lemme laugh you small

Second, those gifts are not worth 30k biko, so chillix and stop overthinking things, its just a token she bought you because she likes you.

You, on the other hand, should have rejected it outright since you know that you can NEVER date her. infact, why did you not just greet her normally and pass that day, you had to add all the sweet words and then exchange contacts (all the while knowing that you can NEVER date her)

Ok Now what to do:
1. pack all those things back into the gift bag.
2. Go to her house and knock on ther door
3. when she opens, hand the bag to her and say "Hi, I realise that I am to blame for this current confusion because I may have given you mixed signals, however I want to clarify things that I am not currently looking for a relationship, I would like us to remain friends but I don't want to date you. so if this exchange of gifts means what I think it means, I apologize for confusing you."
4. Turn around and go back to your house
5. NEVER flirt with any girl you know you will never date.


She may be hurt today but she will respect you for not playing with her heart.

I agree with every single word you said. He's probably one of those nobodies that thinks highly of themselves.

Never flirt with a woman when you have no interest or whatsoever in her, grow some balls and say no thanks and stick to it. Whatever happened to "I really appreciate your generosity but no, hi and keep it going"

Nigga please

Mariojane:
apart from the fact that you don.t date fair ladies what other reason do you have not to date her? are you in a relationship?

No I'm not.

If you can, package your own gift and send to her. Ensure it is not worth less than the one your received. Don't forget to attach a note, explaining why you are not cut out for any relationship. Be as polite as possible.

Aa nigerian girl Lies jooor I can never believe dis poo.

quiinnBee:
i return most.yea

Like money or chicken shawama.

Abeg chop and clean mouth jare!! That is the stock in trade of most babes who would collect all the goodies from you knowing in their hearts that they won't go out with you.

It is called a non refundable deposit or gift.

OP is the laptop inclusive?

otunsman:
Like money or chicken shawama.

lol there can be some exceptions