dabossman:



6. They'll find you in your room slashed to bits by a carving knife.
7. The words "I love you forever" are splashed across the wall in crimson red blood.

Dude, your own don done. RUN TO YOUR VILLAGE NOW!!!!

chai!!!!

Bros u don enter arm robber motor. Just politely return d gifts and Tell her hw u feel

This is a no issue...Buy her a gift back with equal worth of price...Also, trust me does gift are symbolic. They are things she observed u need to match to what she admires abt you. So do same but hey...make sure she see u 1 in 3weeks or a month...Forming busy...Never given her the pleasure of knowing you

See question.

GreenWhiteGreen:
You don fall for story. No Nigerian girl will say to a guy that she's trying to get his attention. Those pictures are what he intended to buy for her.

My brother I have nothing to lose oh. Free office Wi-Fi and well spiced up lunch for me, with all d time in the world; that little post of mine won't hurt.

ashmanpolo:


At first I rejected it then she kept persuading me. It was wrapped and I thought it was biscuit or something cheap. You know girls and boxers na. Never knew it was such expensive items.

I see a baby towel, a cheap swatch wrist watch and a cheap body spray. Everything in there is not up to 10k. Its not the money that matters though but the heart to give. So stop thinking they are that expensive. Returning them will really hurt her since u already collected them. My advice, look for somewhere and keep them, don't open or use. Then meet her for aa talk. Tell her u appreciate what she gave u but she didn't need to go that far. Maybe tell her u don't normally collect gifts from ladies.

its a gift
gifts are meant to be received ,not appreciated and rejected

naijaboiy:
Go to her house,knock on her door and POLITELY return the gift to her.

That's how you politely return a gift.

I Love This.

ashmanpolo:
This girl in my area was hanging out with my friends and then she started bitching on me. That she hates me. I like forming. "Everytime he's dressing like an Americana and he doesn't even greet people" That, what am I even feeling like sef?

"Why is he not with you guys today? I always see him here everyday, drinking Heineken and always Laughing out Loud with y'all" She told my friends as she feigned obsessed.

The next day my friends told me about all the swearing so I saw her some days later and greeted her first. The girl is quite pretty BUT not my Speck. I don't do 'yellow paw-paw'. I started the conversation this way:
"Halo swit, my name's Ashman. You' so beautiful"
The young girl started laughing. Every word I said was countered with laughter.
"Are you laughing at me?"
She stopped, whipped her face. Looked straight into my eyes and said:

"I'm laughing because you don't even know how long I've been trying to get your attention" whew!!! I was flattered. For once in my life I felt like the Emperor of Rome. BUT one thing was sure, I can't date this girl. No NEVER.
We exchanged contacts and it's barely two weeks, she walked up to me and handed a parcel to me. "I got this for you"

I got home and opened it this morning. I swear, I saw a brand new Swatch wrist watch; Original Malizia Perfume and a foreign Pee-Jay. That girl must have spent an estimate of 30k. Right now I feel perplexed. I really don't need such gifts from a girl I can NEVER date. I mean NEVER and I also wouldn't want to be indebted to her.

'I know this kinda girls. If they fall in love, e don be for you na. They will remain in your life like Mount Zion that can never be moved. Love go taya you na'

How do I politely return her gifts.
Thanks. Mature responses needed asap.

CC: Farano
Lalasticlala
Ishilove

you sef go pass your boundary... why you greet am?

anywaiz I dnt knw why a young man won't like oyinbo pepper..

you can send d gifts over with her address.. and d rest will be history

[quote author=quiinnBee post=38774790]carefully wrap it back and give it to her exactly the way she gave you and tell her you not interested.
it would hurt her feelings,but at least you're being honest







Dis my sister is right just return the gift honorably... She will for life respect you... Pls dnt try the chop and clean mouth method we never knw where nd when we might meet again...

ashmanpolo:
This girl in my area was hanging out with my friends and then she started bitching on me. That she hates me. I like forming. "Everytime he's dressing like an Americana and he doesn't even greet people" That, what am I even feeling like sef?

"Why is he not with you guys today? I always see him here everyday, drinking Heineken and always Laughing out Loud with y'all" She told my friends as she feigned obsessed.

The next day my friends told me about all the swearing so I saw her some days later and greeted her first. The girl is quite pretty BUT not my Speck. I don't do 'yellow paw-paw'. I started the conversation this way:
"Halo swit, my name's Ashman. You' so beautiful"
The young girl started laughing. Every word I said was countered with laughter.
"Are you laughing at me?"
She stopped, whipped her face. Looked straight into my eyes and said:

"I'm laughing because you don't even know how long I've been trying to get your attention" whew!!! I was flattered. For once in my life I felt like the Emperor of Rome. BUT one thing was sure, I can't date this girl. No NEVER.
We exchanged contacts and it's barely two weeks, she walked up to me and handed a parcel to me. "I got this for you"

I got home and opened it this morning. I swear, I saw a brand new Swatch wrist watch; Original Malizia Perfume and a foreign Pee-Jay. That girl must have spent an estimate of 30k. Right now I feel perplexed. I really don't need such gifts from a girl I can NEVER date. I mean NEVER and I also wouldn't want to be indebted to her.

'I know this kinda girls. If they fall in love, e don be for you na. They will remain in your life like Mount Zion that can never be moved. Love go taya you na'

How do I politely return her gifts.
Thanks. Mature responses needed asap.

CC: Farano
Lalasticlala
Ishilove

No mind all this yeye people with no Experience. Just tell the girl that you Just met her and you can't accept gift from her yet. Tell her once you know each other well it should be fine. Samba the girl Toto , you might be surprise she's got more to offer you

ashmanpolo:

The hell you mean by 'baby-grow' blanket? I saw it in the parcel mehn.

It's a towel Bro.

keep calm, don't be perplexed, everything she got you is roughly #1500. if u feel too guilty bout it, take her out 2 a nice place n tell ha what u don't want. its that simple

Hope you wouldn't mind me call you a humongous mumu-arian? Cause your actions clearly defines it! Why in the world would you walk up to her if you're not willing to tag along? Please, kindly return her gift if your heart doesn't accept her; leave her for the one who's better deserving of her, alright? She's going to bruise, most def. But it's better off, cause all bruise heal!

quiinnBee:
lol there can be some exceptions

Beautiful pix

Pidggin:
Maliza perfume=N700 Baby blanket=N1000 Mallam watch=N700 Wrapping paper=N30

Total=N2700

carefully wrap it back and give it to her exactly the way she gave you and tell her you not interested. Then she me her contact.

PunkyVeer:


I just hope she didn't go on a shoplifting spree just to score brownie points with you That's one eclectic gift pack.

Oyibo

eni4real:

Total=N2700

Lol I forgot to sum it up

quiinnBee:
carefully wrap it back and give it to her exactly the way she gave you and tell her you not interested.
it would hurt her feelings,but at least you're being honest

I no know say u get this kind sense .......
my wife

Simply tell her dat you don't need d gift,n dat ur sorry for collecting it at first,shoba.

bestestgirl:
First lemme laugh you small

Second, those gifts are not worth 30k biko, so chillix and stop overthinking things, its just a token she bought you because she likes you.

You, on the other hand, should have rejected it outright since you know that you can NEVER date her. infact, why did you not just greet her normally and pass that day, you had to add all the sweet words and then exchange contacts (all the while knowing that you can NEVER date her)

Ok Now what to do:
1. pack all those things back into the gift bag.
2. Go to her house and knock on ther door
3. when she opens, hand the bag to her and say "Hi, I realise that I am to blame for this current confusion because I may have given you mixed signals, however I want to clarify things that I am not currently looking for a relationship, I would like us to remain friends but I don't want to date you. so if this exchange of gifts means what I think it means, I apologize for confusing you."
4. Turn around and go back to your house
5. NEVER flirt with any girl you know you will never date.


She may be hurt today but she will respect you for not playing with her heart.

Never flirt with any girl you know u can't date..... Mmmmh well said.... That's for me though as that's hunting me now...

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petkoffDrake:
I no know say u get this kind sense ....... my wife

Lol

quiinnBee:
Lol

cos of that comment.... I feel like kissing u.... but....

naijaboiy:
Go to her house,knock on her door and POLITELY return the gift to her.

That's how you politely return a gift.

Am beefing you cos u got 441 likes.... how can?! lil souls did dis am sure!
To be candid, @op, pls dont humiliate d young gurl, she is wrongly in love, but u r in d best position to tutor her, guide her and help her in the journey of life, train her dat she has a long way to go in life and she should be careful falling in love with wrong guys dat will take advantage of her, in the process of this, if she is a good girl, what upsets or discourages u about her might turn to her strenght or ur OWN admiration for her... God Knows!
For the gift, she showed you her love, dont return the Gift but LOVE, not necessarily going in bed with her, but, u can keep it without using it for future reference, that is, if you dont really wish to use it. Returning it back to her, Hell NO!

Do not return the gifts,accept them but reject the forthcoming gifts from her.

PunkyVeer:


It looks like a baby's wrapping blanket. What is it? Whatever it is, that's a terrible colour for a man. Those are things you see given as gifts at a baby shower. What, are you 6 months old, she's giving you baby stuff?

...afterall, the guy wwill finally be her baby(boo)

Fist and foremost,all d faults is your.when u keep calling and text her everytime,or did u wnt to denie that?
This way out
1. Never return that gift and dont use it for now.
2.Reduce the rate at which u call her or text
3. Never sound romantic to her anymore.either on phone or anywia.that is if she keep callin u.
4.Try to avoid seen each other for main period of time..
#Advce
respect who luv u,it is not easy to with heart...beside u said u dnt like yellow paw paw..d fact is yellow paw paw sweet pass black paw paw

PunkyVeer:


It looks like a baby's wrapping blanket. What is it? Whatever it is, that's a terrible colour for a man. Those are things you see given as gifts at a baby shower. What, are you 6 months old, she's giving you baby stuff?

Bae,be nice now.lol at are you 6 months old? Lwkmd

OP is allowing his imaginations run wild.brand new swatch wristwatch ,shey na UK used she for buy?
Original Malizia.Malizia get fake? And mind you Malizia aint an expensive cologne.
Foreign peejay? Huh,all I see is a blue baby towel. what's foreign inside?
Now,it even doesn't mean a thing that the stuff aint expensive. What matters is that she has a giving spirit.
Later una go complain say naija girls no dey buy gifts for guy,see bae that is buying u gifts already now,u are forming you can't date her
Na the one wey go defraud u and turn you to ATM without spending a dime chop all ur money u go follow.
Your eye go soon clear.

do u need people advice to return the gift must u post it online you are still a kid. grow up what if she is on nairaland how would she feel right nowc