Hmm... My girl friend is HIV/AIDS positive and we are into relationship not up to a month.

Though we have never had any coitus. She loves me soo much as do i.


It has not being confirmed in any of the laboratory that she is HIV/AIDS positive. But a reliable source close to her affirm to me that she is a victim. Yes! I would have Carried out a test for her but if she refuses the test, my relationship with her will be retarded. Because i will conclude that she is really HIV/AIDS positive.

Actually i don't want her to feel as being stigmatize if she realizes I know about her predicament and at same time not being close to her as before. Am a health worker, and I have also seen series of HIV/AIDS signs and symptoms on her.

Please nairalanders, I need your solemn advice. (advices..hehe) should I try and conduct a test for her or just quit the relationship?

And if am to quit the relationship, how do I convince her? Love y'all.

Test is cheap, life is precious.

So tell her to go tested.

And if the results comes back positive, then you counsel her a little, direct her on how to go about medications and then you move on.

There is no need to stick around. You cannot out of pity, infect your self from her.

That is not how love works.

Be wise bro..

Tell her u were diagnosed with a fat lump in ur brain..
Start to dey do like madman
Piss for body
Form epilepsy

So she go dump u.. Its better that way.

Cos if u do anyhow.. She fit Carry knife chuuk herself and chuuk u.. E don be be that o

_{Edit: this post gave me my 20,000th like.. Erhmm it feels good}

young man quit that relationship, my major reason for saying this is because, if she is indeed HIV positive and has not told you about it then she is deceiving you and you and I know that deceit in a relationship is something that should not be encouraged.
but above all, you should make show she runs a HIV test asap.

this one pass me.

punkyveer might be able to help

Tell her that you would like the 2 of you to go for a test. Do it as soon as possible. Depending on the outcome you will find a way of handling it.

Remember prevention is better than cure.

I would tell you run buh she's still a human being irrespective of the disease......
Lemme tell you wat i'll do.
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I'll fúcking run bro.
That disease scares tha crap out of me.

RUN WITH YOUR TOES

quiinnBee:
this one pass me.

punkyveer might be able to help

I didn't want to comment because he claims to be a "health worker" but doesn't even know the difference between copulation & reproduction. If he can't keep it 100, why bother? I feel it's a made-up story anyway, so...meh.

madridguy:
TRUE LOVE IS WHEN YOUR PARTNER GET HIV AND YOU STILL LOVE HER.

@ OP, YOU CLAIMED TO BE A HEALTH WORKER AND YOU STILL NEED AN ADVISE ON THIS ISSUE ? IN FELA VOICE : YOU BE SEWEGBE HEALTH WORKER

should he conduct a test for her or quit the relationship.thats the question.
read before you post

OP, how did you see the signs and symptoms of HIV/AIDS in her Funny you. See what fear has done to you. Tell her plainly unless you don't value your life. Tell her that you both should go get tested at the hospital for compatibilty, HIV/AIDS, genotype and all that so that you can be able to determine the future of that relationship.

If she succumbs, make SURE you both go together, otherwise she could falsify the test if she really is +ve

quiinnBee:
this one pass me.

punkyveer might be able to help

are you tryna say punkyveer is a chronic HIV AIDS patient?

If she is,
The mere fact she hasn't come clean means she doesn't value your life.
Wtf are you waiting for?

czarr:
are you tryna say punkyveer is a chronic HIV AIDS patient?

Yes, that's what she meant. I'm on my deathbed as we speak.

You be the OP dino Malaye nii ? Iron Lady of NL............... Advise on HIV girlfriend, let him continue with her and my advise is for flesh to flesh.

quiinnBee:

should he conduct a test for her or quit the relationship.thats the question.
read before you post

czarr:
are you tryna say punkyveer is a chronic HIV AIDS patient?

you're kidding right?

quiinnBee:

you're kidding right?

yeah
Naso we de use make trouble back then

PunkyVeer:


Yes, that's what she meant. I'm on my deathbed as we speak.

is this supposed to be sarcasm?

PunkyVeer:

Yes, that's what she meant. I'm on my deathbed as we speak.

hehehe

czarr:
is this supposed to be sarcasm?

Figure it out.

Nwanne pia tyre biko.

#thats all




Meanwhile, I'm the 22nd to comment.

The source that told you she is positive, how reliable is it? You also said that both of you have not reproduced. Does that mean you are already having sex? Obviously there's no way to persuade her to go get tested without hurting her feelings, but since you love her so much I'll advice you to tell her because since you don't want to leave her, that's the only option you've got.
And promise her to be by her side all the way.

kilokeys:
Be wise bro..

Tell her u were diagnosed with a fat lump in ur brain..
Start to dey do like madman
Piss for body
Form epilepsy

So she go dump u.. Its better that way.

Cos if u do anyhow.. She fit Carry knife chuuk herself and chuuk u.. E don be be that o

this ur advice is so strong but i seconded!op should try it,sure it will work!

Do not tell her you want to conduct a test for her. It will make her assume many things. Just tell her you would like the relationship to go to the next level and you want the both of you to go and run medical tests as a couple.(i.e together).

This one serious o. Op I no get any advice 4 u but i hop u find d best advice u need

kilokeys:
Be wise bro..

Tell her u were diagnosed with a fat lump in ur brain..
Start to dey do like madman
Piss for body
Form epilepsy

So she go dump u.. Its better that way.

Cos if u do anyhow.. She fit Carry knife chuuk herself and chuuk u.. E don be be that o

dis is hilarious

You say you're a health worker so you should have an idea.Just tell her you want the relationship to go to the next level and you need to both run tests for compatibility.

make I go check signs of HIV in humans .....Google abeg o

kilokeys:
Be wise bro..

Tell her u were diagnosed with a fat lump in ur brain..
Start to dey do like madman
Piss for body
Form epilepsy

So she go dump u.. Its better that way.

Cos if u do anyhow.. She fit Carry knife chuuk herself and chuuk u.. E don be be that o

hehehe..dats fucking funny