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There is a reason it is called an EX.

Remove your eyes from everything concerning him.

You are just emotionally disturbing your self.

See,

It can easily be resolved! Invite him to your house and poison his drink, let him die slowly maybe on the way to his house so no one would suspect you.

When he dies, forget him. You are free.

Or you can stab him in the chest when he comes to your house. It's gonna be messy but it's worth it.

When he dies, cut him in pieces and burn each piece carefully until there are no traces.

Then, you are free.

Or,


















You can put your head in a sink of water, until you drown and you are dead.

Hmmm, getting over him completely won't be easy since you get to see him every day at work. Out of sight usually means out of mind for me.

IDK, maybe try to avoid them as much as possible. In the mean time, try looking for another job if possible, because he might also be enjoying torturing you with this other woman.

Do you live in the same area? How did you end up seeing them going to his place? I hope you aint doing drive-bys, stalking him because that won't help advance the moving on process. Just my rusty 2c. Good luck.

PunkyVeer:
Hmmm, getting over him completely won't be easy since you get to see him every day at work. Out of sight usually means out of mind for me.

IDK, maybe try to avoid them as much as possible. In the mean time, try looking for another job if possible, because he might also be enjoying torturing you with this other woman.

Do you live in the same area? How did you end up seeing them going to his place? I hope you aint doing drive-bys, stalking him because that won't help advance the moving on process. Just my rusty 2c. Good luck.

we live in the same area..I was surprised to see the girl with him cos she doesn't live around there, so its obvious she was going to his place.
The funniest thing is that I still gist and joke with this my ex at work,even sometimes flirt with him,Loll..we usually go home together when we were dating,he waits for me..But now he doesn't , he jst comes to my desk and says "Bye,I'm going home" and I'll say "ok".. Sometimes I feel we can still go home together even if we're not dating. I know he still likes me but I don't care. I want to just stop talking to him completely, even though it'll be hard,but I can try..
As per getting another job, I'm working on that.

uniquelycool:
we live in the same area..I was surprised to see the girl with him cos she doesn't live around there, so its obvious she was going to his place.
The funniest thing is that I still gist and joke with this my ex at work,even sometimes flirt with him,Loll..we usually go home together when we were dating,he waits for me..But now he doesn't , he jst comes to my desk and says "Bye,I'm going home" and I'll say "ok".. Sometimes I feel we can still go home together even if we're not dating. I know he still likes me but I don't care. I want to just stop talking to him completely, even though it'll be hard,but I can try..
As per getting another job, I'm working on that.

lol @ you know he still likes you but you don't care. I don't believe you're being honest with yourself there. I believe you just feel hurt & betrayed & just consoling yourself by saying you don't care or this thread wouldn't be existing. Anyway, I sincerely wish you all the best & speedy recovery. Oh & good luck with the job hunting, hun. Stay away from any attractive co-worker hereforth because just look at how it is making things awkward for you now. It'll get better. Chin up

he may not even be cheating on u as u think

OP stop decieveing yourself, you still feel for him. U did not even state why you two broke up.
You know you still want him back. So try to make things work. There's no way you can get over him, you work in the same place.

OP, lemme do some sherlock holmes here.. You said you broke up with him... Its a big LIE. He already broke up with you in his mind, he rebounded easily to another nyash, you probably have been choking him read good. Why would you stalk a guy u broke up with? Is it fair. I'm sure he's a nairalander and you want him to see this....... He's prolly reading it with her and laughing. Your thread should be " he left me for a married woman"
The first stage of recovery is to admit. Tell us why he left you, then I'll advice your sorry ass. Am sure you thought niggas will flock you as soon as ur apart. Sorry dear its the other way round. And you are now trying to flirt with him again(give him back his vomit)

Out of sight is truly out of mind..it works for me very well. But the reason why this isn't really working as I expect is because we work in the same company..Its not easy at all..When I try to get over everything,he'll come around to say hello or gist briefly..that's why I feel jealous unnecessarily(I really want to quit being jealous)..I'm just curious cos I don't know if he could be dating the married lady.
**I broke up with him cos I didn't like how things were going..I'm not comfortable with a guy that doesn't see anything bad in having plenty random female friends...so I broke up with him..if I want him back,it's very easy but that's not wat I need.
How can I avoid him completely..Should I stop talking to him ?? #Can'tWaitToLeaveThatCompany.

uniquelycool:
Out of sight is truly out of mind..it works for me very well. But the reason why this isn't really working as I expect is because we work in the same company..Its not easy at all..When I try to get over everything,he'll come around to say hello or gist briefly..that's why I feel jealous unnecessarily(I really want to quit being jealous)..I'm just curious cos I don't know if he could be dating the married lady.
**I broke up with him cos I didn't like how things were going..I'm not comfortable with a guy that doesn't see anything bad in having plenty random female friends...so I broke up with him..if I want him back,it's very easy but that's not wat I need.
How can I avoid him completely..Should I stop talking to him ?? #Can'tWaitToLeaveThatCompany.

uhn...you just broke up with him because of his random female friends
Haba you know try at all
Yea you gonna feel Jealous because deep down you still like/love him
Even our God his a Jealous God.. And you are his image lol ...so Jealous is allowed
It is non of your Business even if he is dating all the female workers in your place of work
He is your ex... Remember the word Ex
U sef give all those niggas DAT have been Toasting you like Bread a Chance maybe ur Jealousy will Reduce Gradually
Getting a new Job is your Best Option tho
*Smile

U don't Bleep the people you work with
Hope you learn a valuable lesson