mikedimeji:


Comments like this makes it looks as if cheating is a good thing, the fact that it's the order of the day doesn't make it a good thing on either side. There's no justifiable reason to cheat. Address whatever the problem is, if u can't cope with it quit as against cheating. What is bad is bad let's not start itemizing reasons for it

I clearly understand your point but the fact is this... A man or woman cheats for a very reason be it valid or invalid reason; until this reason is addressed.... How many are you going to break up with?

The shrinks (psychologist) are not a perfect being but they are trained to understand human behavior.... If you visit shrink with this topic ... The analysis will be a a shared blame to the two.


1) The lady did not come up and tell the guy what she wants in their relationship or what the dude does that she don't like or better still end the relationship when she don't feel secured.

2) OP did not really know where he failed to make things right ...... Alot of things can keep a lady out which can be worked on if the two have a good communication in this regard.


Bottom line is : Is never right to cheat but assuming the OP is married with kids and the wife cheats.... So he will end the marriage like that and marry another..... Imagine if the second wife go cheating again after a kid .... Will he end the marriage too? How many more will he marry....

No relationship is easy.... Work it out

Atlantian:
You dont stay a day without water. You can always slide a tablet into the first glass. I think living the rest of life without alcohol should be a major fear.

Mr man, you say alcohol And I have lived without alcohol all my life not a single drop inside my mouth and you say its essential for man to live with

kosplateau:
so it is an eye saw? u knows me?

now I see...lol

tosyne2much:
Nawa oooo


OP, what about people like us wey neva get under skirt before ? Do we also have to conduct an HIV test ?

Thank you jare oga tosin, was about to ask him too


#teamVirginMale
#teamNeverDoBefore
#teamMeNeverEnterBefore

deetomee:

No chipmunk. Nairaland is not for minors like you. I reverse the question back to you, cos you sound like one - frustrated chipmunk.

exchanging words with a blockhead isn't wat I bargained for tonight.

ogaprime:

Thank you jare oga tosin, was about to ask him too

#teamVirginMale #teamNeverDoBefore #teamMeNeverEnterBefore

OP, report here ASAP

sonofananimal:
and which name should we called them a tax collector or a cheerful givers?

I thought they are looking to be with the lowest of men

IYANGBALI:
but you are cheating on your future horseband kamoru

my bf is my husband cos we are engaged already

wunmi2odun:
You sure you're telling the truth?

believe it or leave it. shikina

akike:

I thought they are looking to be with the lowest of men

so by your word, that means the OP and tons of people who have experience a gold digger and a cheater are the lowest of men?

sonofananimal:
OK. I will love to but I don't use a real mail to open this account and even if I sent you a mail. I won't see your reply. And that's is the problem

Harbosede02:
exchanging words with a blockhead isn't wat I bargained for tonight.

Yeah i think you're more blockheaded obviously by vomiting that nonsense you thought was a comment and you got served from your perceived attention seeking comment. It's a pity. I believe you still have some growing up to do. Have a nice night. ciao!!!

adeh39:

that's it ohh. And base on security purpose I won't advice puting bb contact and numbers on this forum.

sonofananimal:
so by your word, that means the OP and tons of people who have experience a gold digger and a cheater are the lowest of men?

I am sorry but you are confused. You don't even know what you taking about our what I am taking about.

akike:


I am sorry but you are confused. You don't even know what you taking about our what I am taking about.

and what are you talking about cos I really don't understand that statement.

I blv u. Some people think it's a crime wen u don't cheat or dt u ain't smart. I don't and I won't. That's d only pride I got(#faithful)

Blessinzy:
why do some girls cheat? please i have never cheated on my bf. believe it or leave it

Dnt knw why youths of nowadys are too obsessed abt sex to the extent of doin it raw,quickie,oral...so annoying....Sex is jst over-rated,i neva had sex wif ma gurl till i graduated because to me sex is lyk a convenant.....Una good nite jhoor

Blessinzy:
why do some girls cheat? please i have never cheated on my bf. believe it or leave it

be my girl friend.

This is quite enlightning that I had to copy and paste on another forum on facebook.

princejayboss:


It simply means you are not a man that can handle your when you get married because you read a story from a hood rat and you want it affect your relationship.... Which means you can hit your wife at very point you read sad stories about women....


Grow up bro

Mr. Grown up, no man is an island of knowledge. We learn everyday from experience of both ours and others. I read his story and it gave me serious thoughts, if you are the type that ignore everything ppl say, then deal with it.

Snowangel4:


True talk..

But if my guy ever cheat on me,I will simply take a walk.

Cheats on you how?

A wife can only say that about her husband.
If he ain't married to you? Then I wonder why we should be discussing this in the first place.

#NoOffenceIntended, please

Tabh:

Oh now I get you.
Yes o,it is better not to contract it than to go through the challenges of living with it.
Many Nigerians are not ready for it and discrimination is still high.
As for convincing family members,you don't have to let others know,such issues are usually between the couples,that's the only way they can live happily and positively. It is not easy though.

Lol,if I say "love is dead",people always believe I'm cray. To those in love though,all the best to them.

Love ain't dead. At least that's what I believe. I believe so much in love I don't know why. The problem is, there are very few people who can take my heart. For that reason, I guard it with all diligence, and I tend not to give it out just anyhow.

I guess you have your reasons for believing it's dead.

I keep hearing girls should not be trusted n bla bla bla n how girls cheat.
Please do they cheat with spirit or men?

mikedimeji:


I actually didn't want to comment on this but at the highlighted portion of ur comment, u can't blame any guy who decides to break up with his gf on the basis of unfaithfulness, this is not marriage and everybody's grace differs, some guys can forgive a cheating partner and still continue with the relationship but the fact that some can't doesn't make them evil either, they can't just stand it, why should she cheat in the first place, we are all adult if there's anything she's not comfortable with she should echo it and if there seems to be no agreement she can break up as against cheating. Have u heard that a lady that has the mind to cheat on the BF can kill the guy.
It's just Becos we live in animal kingdom otherwise why should u cheat in the first place be it the lady or the guy, if u two can no longer cope with each other then let everyone bears their fathers name and move on.

God bless you bruv.

I actually quoted that guy with an epistle of mine in response to issues that he brought up, but I lost everything as I ended up restarting my phone without knowing. Seeing your post made up for it. Nice.

missmalachi:
I keep hearing girls should not be trusted n bla bla bla n how girls cheat.
Please do they cheat with spirit or men?

Both genders are serial cheats. Guys complaining of how girls cheat forget the fact that these girls don't cheats with spirit beings and vice versa.

Vikky014:



keep eating raw food. instead of u to learn hw to cook

How can one learn how to cook in this context?

freeslash:


This is exactly what happened to me. In my case i scrolled my ex and i see a shocking message " Thanks for the sex" hmmm because i was away for 75days she couldnt hold herself. Even when i told her to do HIV test she refused while i was doing mine every four months. Instead she preferred doing bacteria/toilet infection test. But thank God for the sense cause when ever she cheats i tends to know so on that faithful day seeing the message i kept quiet screwed her very well and then told her what i saw. And that brought to an end everything.

Correct guy! Nice one there.

I guess you and I have the same gift then. If I am in a relationship with someone and she cheats, I will know. I will feel the vibe in my body. Even if the person were to be a thousand mile from me, I would know still.

Sometimes I don't know if to regard that as a blessing or a curse.

apholaryn:
count d number of rods terrorizing your p*ssy,boldly the moral of the story will appear on your TV screen.

Kai! see finishing!

sexfabregas:

so we should give you a grammy or an oscar

Or an emmy. Lol

victorazy:

Eve cheated on Adam with the serpent

Epic!

repogirl:
because they can't put all their eggs in one basket especially if they aren't sure the basket is reliable enough and might not last long-term.

I see...

emmboy:
I was having a feeling that my girlfriend was cheating on me. I tried asking her on different occasions but she maintained she wasn't. I thought she might wanna open up to me but I thought wrong.

I've been telling her to go for an HIV test long before all these, of which she promises to go for it but she ends up giving me so many excuses why she couldn't, like being busy and all that.

So this particular night she came over to my place and we started talking, I asked her again if she was having an affair with someone else but she denied again. I needed to know because I didn't want to waste my time with anyone, I wanted to know so that I could know where to place her.

So I told her I'd gone for my own HIV test, and she needed to go for hers as well. She wanted to know the result of my test but I told her never to mind cos I won't and if she's lucky enough, hers might just be different from mine, knowing we've had it raw too many times.

I think she got struck by the cord, so she started pestering me and begging me in fear to show her my result, but I refused blatantly. I stylishly told her she's really done so much in my life by changing me to whom I am and preparing me for what I wasn't ever prepared for.

She thought I was HIV positive, I was putting her on her toes cos I didn't come out clear, then I asked her who she's been sleeping with apart from me. I begged her for the truth this time, that telling me the truth is the only thing that will make me show her my result. That was when she started crying, telling me how she got pushed by friends to dating this guy, not only that, she's been having unprotected sex with this same guy and at the same time with me.

I didn't see the writing on the wall at all so all these was so surprising to me. After telling me all that, I told her I'd not done any test, and I'm grateful I know the truth now and the truth has set me free.

I dumped her sorry ass cos no amount of pleas could change my heart. A couple of weeks after, I did my HIV test, with my heart buried in my lungs, but thank God I'm negative and I'm not gonna screw this second chance I've got.

So pls readers, no girl is worth the raw no matter how much you feel you trust her. And also, checking your HIV status is the only way to know you are positive cos before then I thought I was cos of so many symptoms I used to have but surprisingly, after knowing I am negative, all the symptoms stopped.
Thanks for taking your time to read. Have a nice day.

Bro last year, I was having funny symptoms and I thought I had hiv, I started losing weight, started getting sick, mouth ulcers and whenever I checked the internet one thing always pop up HIV SYMPTOMS, I nearly die. When I finally checked it was NEGATIVE and after that, the symptoms stopped too, Devil just trynna play tricks on na ma mind