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Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by tosyne2much(m): 10:24pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
GreenWhiteGreen:hahahahaha ![]() |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by Jennifer89(f): 10:24pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
op,u must be a proud guy. |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by andyanders: 10:26pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
lookingbuoy: Then help her get a job and not to throw her out.Since she is a graduate and you have a good job, you can create a job and have her develop it and become self employed. THIS ALREADY MADE SOUP MIGHT TURN AROUND AND BECOME A SOUR The devil you know is better than the thousand angels out there. I hate when you brand someone as not doing enough to get a job.Remember the country you come from. With the money you are getting, why not carry the lady of NYSC and provide money for her to create a job and develop it? Op, it is like you are too egocentric. 1 Like |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by missyadorable(f): 10:26pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
lookingbuoy:this is why one man,one wife is scam.A man can never be satisfied wt one woman. |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by bellville: 10:27pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
You've already chosen the working class lady. It appears she meets all your desired qualities in a woman. Moreover, you're both in the same location. Go ahead and propose to her. Shop for books. Check my signature. |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by QueenHeart(f): 10:30pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
lookingbuoy:uncle pray abt it,its not her fault she is unemployd. Put urslf in her shoes....its ur happiness dat matters working class or not just put it into prayers |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by dandollar1: 10:33pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
UjSizzle:I wonder why you guys are surprised at his salary. An OND graduate working offshore with a company like total with 2 years experience could earn that in a month. Confirmed!!! My dear, you will be shocked at what these oil workers earn o. |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by kathykathy(f): 10:43pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
weigh dem on a scale,,d one dat weigh's more has more potential..period |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by Sweetlemon(f): 10:47pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
I can just imagine how people (esp guys) would have bashed the op is he was female. Imagine! I don't blame people who don't believe his salary figure. Most guys earning that much make sexual compartiblity and personality more important in their choice of a life partner than independence. Unless of course the gold diggers who are searching for more gold to add to what they already have. So many male gold diggers prowling about the whole place these days. Both the poor ones and the rich ones.... Oma se o! 1 Like |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by themanderon: 10:49pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
Harbosede02:I also find that deeply disturbing, @ op it seems your mind is more with the independent one so why not save us the stress and go with her? 1 Like |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by energylee(m): 10:50pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
Tufanja: God bless ur knowledge..... D guy dy count crops he neva harvest.... 1 Like |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by AfroKnight: 10:53pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
The broke girl is still in touch with you cos you gat money. Don't date her. If you two were unemployed she would have stopped keeping in touch long ago. 1 Like |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by 400billionman: 11:03pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
Harbosede02: He is talking like a spoilt kid, newly spoilt by big salary.. 1 Like |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by 400billionman: 11:09pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
Tufanja: Exactly, most girls dont like being led on or delayed. Ladies love and cling to fast acting men. |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by adebrightayo(f): 11:11pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
U'r very bad & desperate guy, nothing but gold digger, y cn't u empower her & see if she wn't be a billionaire tomorrow, from d@ ur million d@ put pride in ur heart, av u forgotten d@ u'r ones like her runing 4rm pillar to pole 4 employment, bcs of this thought of urs God can tak d@ work away from you & give it to her. |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by yusufbida(m): 11:14pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
lookingbuoy: Then get her a job and marry her diaby stop beating abt d bush. |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by nonjebose(m): 11:21pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
kathykathy:Buy your scales at affordable price |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by nonjebose(m): 11:27pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
Sweetlemon:Do yot take him seriously. Maybe the oyel lady seems more intelligent to him. But money has a way of making an average person look like a genius 1 Like |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by kodlins(f): 11:29pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
Do you really think she will remain jobless forever ![]() lookingbuoy: |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by shozillo(m): 11:32pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
lookingbuoy: My Big Brother,U r hereby Crowned d Best Liar of 2015.. U earn 1Million Every Month...please Ow many years of Experience do u have? (bearing in mind d drop of crude oil prices in d Intl Market) |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by davidadenrele: 11:44pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
Hello, I read your through your write-up and i must confess, i admire your courage of asking for advice, from nairalanders, i don't want to be too spiritual because there have been many suggestion and advices from other intelligent readers the issue of life partner is not something you have to throw up in a public domain as if you are screening ministerial nominess before the honourable Senate, choosen a right or wrong choices could either make you or mar you, not only make or may you,but could even distorted your destiny God forbid!!! May, i ask if you are a christian or a Muslim ![]() All the best. |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by sameolg616(m): 12:27am On Oct 17, 2015 |
lookingbuoy:keep them both(thats ow we roll nowadays".....the difference between both of them is "submission"...the independent one wld neva be submissive(as i was once told,wen a woman is used to eating shawarma...no way garri wit milk,sugar+gnut wld appeal to her)..moreso,she wld always query ur authority...the adage"what a man can do,a woman can do better" wld become the competitive slogan in the house.....while the one seeking a job wld be easy to control and build on(submissive)...u wld be able to define how u want tins with her...i suggest u set her up in business rather than seek a job for her...in marriage wat matters the most is friendship and understanding...not love...it wld cease to grow at some point.. now,here is the othe problem they both share in common..wen women are dating...they are the sweetest...wen u marry them...they start showing their real attitude...thats the main reason most guys dont wan marry(ask dangote,messi,c-ronaldo,pdiddy,mayweather....the list goes on) im talking from experience...i had 2gfs before...one is so fine,sexy and hot but likened to ur nysc as per work..though she has her own work now...i built the relationship on sex,good time and outing...i had bought myself "ROLLS ROYCE"..i almost got married to her(was pretending though),i stopped at introduction and we av 2kids together and still live together..i thought that was all i needed and planned to retire my playboy boots... then in 2009-2010,i met a "FERARRI"..jesu!so fast and so furious i cldnt resist test driving it to a point wer i wanted to own it(sincerely i gave marriage a chance)..she works as a cabin crew in an airline..surprisingly she was a virgin..she is compared to ur independent girl...sweet,loving but not submissive...i learnt somthing so new and powerful in d relationship wit her "FRIENDSHIP"..we did business together,i even learnt ow to pray,shared ideas.. by the time i started living with my rolls royce,things werent wat they seemed and i started complaining..even the sex fizzled out faster than i thot..then i realised i built the relationship on the wrong foundation.. my ferrari was everything else but the only problem was...she wanted me to chase the rolls royce away..no sharing..well i almost did but a new factor arose i never knew was so important...MY KIDS...no way i wld leave them wit the rolls royce alone..i wan be part of my childrens growth and my ferrari ran outta patience cuz she thought i had to many bagagges..after 4yrs,she finally opened up to her mum who discouraged her and she gave up even as i tried to propose..(july) i enjoyed having both the RR(for special occasions) and the ferrari(official car)...with no iron-clad contract to any..im just the test driver lewis hamilton(any time,i feel uncomfortable wit my contract,i bounce) read between the lines...for u to already have 2thoughts on ur mind then u av unconsciously formed a ferrari and a rolls royce concept in ur mind..wen the f50 is faulty,u wld sure run to the RR..(vice versa) as my prof defined marriage..to the african man,marriage is procreation...and thats all i value now! girls like our mums dont exist anymore(thats if u have a good mother o)..the women work harder now and love money more than men nowadays..from a current assessment:its the quest for material things that is ruining our generation" i live by this principle: im not a one-gal guy wen it comes to love,i dont lie and the women respect for it.. cant say my...... right now theres just too many fine gals to choose 1 from.... on the contrary,i always say:wen it comes to matters of the heart,there are no rules!good luck |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by J4Jenom(m): 12:39am On Oct 17, 2015 |
Slimzjoe: After the reggae play the bluezzzzz!! im just saying! hey, go fo d woman with the psychology degree...u really dont know what God has for her...she may bcom.mor successful than the oil b***h... |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by rinzylee(m): 12:43am On Oct 17, 2015 |
i perfectly understand you. i believe you had a great friendship with the two of them and you are still having. well let me say that marriage is a long journey and has a lot of waters and storms that would test the credibility of the union, hence i will ask this question....who can stay with you when the chips are down? when the cash stops flowing lets assume? who can stand the test of time with you? beauty is vain and charm is deceptive but character and virtue will sustain a man and his enterprise. go to God in prayer and ask for wisdom. but from today start observing every evry.......grace bro |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by sameolg616(m): 12:44am On Oct 17, 2015 |
davidadenrele:which of his pastors shd he meet...chris okotie or chris oyakilome(the ones that have divorce clause on their heads)..wonder wat u expect of human beings like u...even them dont have the solutions to our generations problems wonder |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by sameolg616(m): 12:48am On Oct 17, 2015 |
shozillo:chief accountant....is that the issue....whether he earns kobos in 12 digits,,that aint ur problem... guest u dont know people that earn a million in a month..even some yahoo boys do talkless oil and gas.. the dude just having probs deciding |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by peeparty(m): 12:51am On Oct 17, 2015 |
sugah: I kept scrolling down just to read this particular comment bro. you spoke my mind already.... @op whichever of them makes you have this inner joy ,when you think or speak with them..that should also be a good sign too. |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by sameolg616(m): 12:54am On Oct 17, 2015 |
lastly,isaiah 4:1 has predicted:on that day,fine boys would be scarce and seven women will take hold of one man and say, "We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!" this is that day predicted in the bible... good tin u already av 2,5 more to go..... |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by Nobody: 12:57am On Oct 17, 2015 |
Jamean:Thanks |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by yommen: 1:00am On Oct 17, 2015 |
lookingbuoy: Stop saying 'unemployed' bro. No body is born employed and unemployed. The employed one can lose the job while the jobless one gets it. You only want her because |
Re: Which Girl Do I Decide On? by sameolg616(m): 1:02am On Oct 17, 2015 |
trust me,u aint confused..u just need justification for ur future actions..... 2 Likes
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