SmokingGunZ:
. All these NL girls that are so materialistic.

I've been home for the holidays for over 9 weeks. All my little savings have been dissipated.

I'm scared of approaching a girl cos i usually dont have any tangible cash on me.

Ladies, why wont you take a guy serious if he doesnt spend on you?.
It's nerve racking.

Decker:


You are the one having the wrong idea that all girls are materialistic and hence resulting in your fear of approaching any.

Look, everything shouldn't be about flaunting your wallet in their presence or showering gifts and showing off when you first meet a girl.

The first thing a girl sees when you approach her is your confidence. If you are confident enough to walk up to a girl and talk to her confidently, them you have slightly won her over. You can proceed from there.
If you are someone who is friendly and "interesting", you can ignite friendship and from there things will add up.

Trust me, it's not always about money. Their are other things girls need in their lives.

kiddkash:
go beg ATM for money, works for me

donholy28:
Focus on making money and everything shall be added onto u..
including girls

kiddkash:
go beg ATM for money, works for me

cruzyteejay:




low IQ
no offense,that's just the truth about your comment

lasheez:
Guy you've not even played the reggae you started playing the blues.All you need is packaging and repackaging.There is always some girl for some boy out there.Besisides you are just a student and it is not expected for you to work.Why are you allowing your complex control you?Is it a must for you to impress every gal with money?Well if you still want your complex to control you then my advice to you is to wait until you start plucking money from the trees.

sinaj:
Dere r Lotta gurls out dere dat will appreciate u coz of wot u gat upstairs nd ow u behave too nd nt jux money!

sinaj:
R u also broke mentally




Dere r Lotta gurls out dere dat will appreciate u coz of wot u gat upstairs nd ow u behave too nd nt jux money!




U guyz shud correct dat mind set

kiddkash:
go beg ATM for money, works for me

SmokingGunZ:


Thanks man. But you dont really gettit. Would it just end with packaging?? Shey you would make her feel special na ... And money dey involved

Rapsodee:
Bro,Most girls are after money nowadays not love,in fact to them you spending money for them is the definition of a true love but baba naa u no go gree for them.Imagine you just asking them to come and see or visit,the next thing is "Anything for me?",like say I be father Christmas....but if you are smart enough with whyning them and little amount of money,you shall overcome.

donholy28:
no problems... leave money and focus ur high IQ on chasing girls

sinaj:
R u also broke mentally




Dere r Lotta gurls out dere dat will appreciate u coz of wot u gat upstairs nd ow u behave too nd nt jux money!




U guyz shud correct dat mind set

SmokingGunZ:


Nice point bro. So after exchanging numbers, you use your saliva to take her on a date?

cruzyteejay:
Like you just came back from Yankee..........if not you wouldn't have asked this,anyway to your question

Relationship is now business(in Nigeria),any girl you meet now will state the your unique aim is just to 'chim chum chii' which is Mostly the aim of some naija guys,so the ladies now have the mentality of 'HE IS COMING FOR MY BODY SO AMA GO FOR HIS MONEY'which is correct in some cases......in summary,relationship is now more like olosho business just that its not a public one,its called SHORT TERM "PRIVATISED OLOSHO" ranging from when the relationship started to the time they broke up,and i won't blame the ladies for this cus it won't be fair if you are only giving and don't take any,which is far far far from what love is

CountDracula:
Go and play nairabet and stop self-pitying if u need a babe seriously. By d tym u play 600 tyms u shud have hammered abit

CountDracula:
Go and play nairabet and stop self-pitying if u need a babe seriously. By d tym u play 600 tyms u shud have hammered abit

lasheez:
No one is saying you wouldn't spend a little some some.What my packaging here means is for you to make her like you first before thinking of spending thats all.