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Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by Cutehector(m): 8:52am On Oct 23, 2015
Op see make I no lie u, u see all ds yarn abt its not all abt d money right, na wash... Oboy make ur money... Bcus na money wey u go dey use call babe, look nice, subscribe for internet, etc..

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Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by CountDracula(m): 8:52am On Oct 23, 2015
dharay99:
yhu qe† any be††er si†e wey I fi† qe† be††inq †ips & forecas†.?
All deir stuppid tips wey no dey work

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Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by SmokingGunZ(m): 8:52am On Oct 23, 2015
Oliviaarims:

There are several places to meet up nd discuss where yhu don't have to pay or do anyfin really expensive. If she's genuinely interested in yhu,she wouldn't mind. What's most important is finding a common ground...having interesting things to talk bout or do together. That's surely a nice start.






#Philosopher Quëën#

Girls are really unpredictable. Shey tomorrow, the girl would label him a pauper

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Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by Nobody: 8:52am On Oct 23, 2015
SmokingGunZ:
angry. All these NL girls that are so materialistic.

I've been home for the holidays for over 9 weeks. All my little savings have been dissipated.

I'm scared of approaching a girl cos i usually dont have any tangible cash on me.

Ladies, why wont you take a guy serious if he doesnt spend on you?.
It's nerve racking.


Nt every girl is like that

It depends on the girl u attract

Criosly

But most times broke guys are usually jobless nd are d type dat can keep stalkin cos dey av no future just like ebudox
Cos if u are tinkin of ur future a girl who u will nd can never marry 20yrs to cum is who u shd b stalkin cos u cant stalk forever nd wen u more matured u look over d whole crap nd regret av been tru d feelins before


Wat doesnt kill u make u stronger


Op leave a girl for now even bible indirectly talked bou does women pulled down cos dey met wit strange women.

Sorry ass i av sum strange women as roomates wo cud b so wicked mean demons!

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Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by donholy28(m): 8:52am On Oct 23, 2015
cruzyteejay:


you misinterpreted what i said,i was trying to state that"it is intellectually 'low'(hmm oboi see English)for you to set girls as a priority on why you should make money
Learn to read and understand...I said everything shall be added onto you....including those girls

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Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by cruzyteejay(m): 8:53am On Oct 23, 2015
SmokingGunZ:


Lool..you're quite right.

So bottomline..i'll stay out of relationships....or even talking to girls i see on the street grin

second to best option,imagine the one i just asked out recently said that she just love me as a friend and i be like,you wan love me as husband before?............bottom line,just be friends at her own ignorance
Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by SmokingGunZ(m): 8:54am On Oct 23, 2015
Cutehector:
Op see make I no lie u, u see all ds yarn abt its not all abt d money right, na wash... Oboy make ur money... Bcus na money wey u go dey use call babe, look nice, subscribe for internet, etc..

You're right bro.
Basically, all i need is min of 3k to take her to nkwobi joint na grin
Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by Nobody: 8:55am On Oct 23, 2015
Not all of them.
Except the ones who always want to magarize you!

But first of all, focus on making yourself a better person,have a house of your own,have a job, but heed my advice, even if you are being paid 20million USD as your salary, DONT EVER SHOW IT. Always be on the listening side, not much on the speaking side. Be jovial too... but have a focus. Don't allow punny to cover your eyes cos I know that's why many guys go after women.

Focus first, women WILL come when you are settled

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Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by SmokingGunZ(m): 8:56am On Oct 23, 2015
cruzyteejay:


second to best option,imagine the one i just asked out recently said that she just love me as a friend and i be like,you wan love me as husband before?............bottom line,just be friends at her own ignorance
That i love you as a friend dey pain me pass i swear. Na so one girl wan teacherzone me grin
Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by dharay99: 8:56am On Oct 23, 2015
CountDracula:


All deir stuppid tips wey no dey work

mehn I be qe† one confirm app b⁴,
Dem go give u 3predictions for every ma†ch & †rus† me,
Them dey †ry...only 4mi †o forma† d fone. cry

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Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by SmokingGunZ(m): 8:58am On Oct 23, 2015
gimakon:
Not all of them.
Except the ones who always want to magarize you!

But first of all, focus on making yourself a better person,have a house of your own,have a job, but heed my advice, even if you are being paid 20million USD as your salary, DONT EVER SHOW IT. Always be on the listening side, not on the speaking side. Be jovial too... but have a focus. Don't allow punny to cover your eyes cos I know that's why many guys go after women.

Focus first, women WILL come when you are settled

LOOL. I'm still a student shaa.
So whats your take?
Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by Nobody: 8:58am On Oct 23, 2015
halfrica:



Nt every girl is like that

It depends on the girl u attract

Criosly

But most times broke guys are usually jobless nd are d type dat can keep stalkin cos dey av no future just like ebudox
Cos if u are tinkin of ur future a girl who u will nd can never marry 20yrs to cum is who u shd b stalkin cos u cant stalk forever nd wen u more matured u look over d whole crap nd regret av been tru d feelins before


Wat doesnt kill u make u stronger


Op leave a girl for now even bible indirectly talked bou does women pulled down cos dey met wit strange women.

Sorry ass i av sum strange women as roomates wo cud b so wicked mean demons!
If stalking my halfrica ddn't kill me, it will make me a strong stalker..
Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by cruzyteejay(m): 8:58am On Oct 23, 2015
donholy28:
Learn to read and understand...I said everything shall be added onto you....including those girls

in summary of my sermon'GIRLS SHOULD NEVER BE IN THAT LIST' you do be talking about WIFE then and not GIRLS,hope you know the difference
Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by CountDracula(m): 8:59am On Oct 23, 2015
dharay99:


mehn I be qe† one confirm app b⁴,
Dem go give u 3predictions for every ma†ch & †rus† me,
Them dey †ry...only 4mi †o forma† d fone. cry

Loool... Na predictz.com common for my guys sha

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Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by Nobody: 8:59am On Oct 23, 2015
SmokingGunZ:


LOOL. I'm still a student shaa.
So whats your take?

What I said says it all. Just focus on your sef.

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Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by SmokingGunZ(m): 9:01am On Oct 23, 2015
halfrica:



Nt every girl is like that

It depends on the girl u attract

Criosly

But most times broke guys are usually jobless nd are d type dat can keep stalkin cos dey av no future just like ebudox
Cos if u are tinkin of ur future a girl who u will nd can never marry 20yrs to cum is who u shd b stalkin cos u cant stalk forever nd wen u more matured u look over d whole crap nd regret av been tru d feelins before


Wat doesnt kill u make u stronger


Op leave a girl for now even bible indirectly talked bou does women pulled down cos dey met wit strange women.

Sorry ass i av sum strange women as roomates wo cud b so wicked mean demons!

Thanks.. But i never said i was jobless o. I'm just broke. I'm yet to meet a girl that doesnt demand sth one way or another <sad

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Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by Nobody: 9:04am On Oct 23, 2015
SmokingGunZ:


Thanks.. But i never said i was jobless o. I'm just broke. I'm yet to meet a girl that doesnt demand sth one way or another <sad

Well if its that case i still say it depends on d kind of girl u approach

Just cos 80% of them loves demnading doesnt mean the remaining 20% doesnt exist

Just find for the remaining 20% nd u wud b happy they sure exist

let me tell u my story i spend for all my ex non of my ex wud tell me i never spent for dem in my own little way i did m ny sayin dis for u to feel oh she is dis or dat

M only lettin u kno dat if i exist mehn there are girls wit my mentality

Aldo me no fit giv boy money again o
U spend ur money i spend mine cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by SmokingGunZ(m): 9:05am On Oct 23, 2015
Decker:


You are the one having the wrong idea that all girls are materialistic and hence resulting in your fear of approaching any.

Look, everything shouldn't be about flaunting your wallet in their presence or showering gifts and showing off when you first meet a girl.

The first thing a girl sees when you approach her is your confidence. If you are confident enough to walk up to a girl and talk to her confidently, them you have slightly won her over. You can proceed from there.
If you are someone who is friendly and "interesting", you can ignite friendship and from there things will add up.

Trust me, it's not always about money. Their are other things girls need in their lives.
Like??

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Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by cruzyteejay(m): 9:06am On Oct 23, 2015
SmokingGunZ:

That i love you as a friend dey pain me pass i swear. Na so one girl wan teacherzone me grin
anyway,its part of their destiny,how i wish this thread is related to friendzone i would av given you the full gist,but it will derail the thread
Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by Nobody: 9:06am On Oct 23, 2015
SmokingGunZ:
angry. All these NL girls that are so materialistic.

I've been home for the holidays for over 9 weeks. All my little savings have been dissipated.

I'm scared of approaching a girl cos i usually dont have any tangible cash on me.

Ladies, why wont you take a guy serious if he doesnt spend on you?.
It's nerve racking.

It is because you are running after different girls. If you have just one, she will take you
seriously whether there's money or not
Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by SmokingGunZ(m): 9:07am On Oct 23, 2015
halfrica:


Well if its that case i still say it depends on d kind of girl u approach

Just cos 80% of them loves demnading doesnt mean the remaining 20% doesnt exist

Just find for the remaining 20% nd u wud b happy they sure exist

let me tell u my story i spend for all my ex non of my ex wud tell me i never spend for dem in my own little way i did m ny sayin dis for u to feel oh she is dis or dat

M only lettin u kno dat if i exist mehn there are girls wit my mentality

Aldo me no fit giv boy money again o
U spend ur money i spend mine cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

Lool. True. You just reminded me about one of my guy.

He's a player. Girls usually take him out to eateries and spoil him with gifts.

I been wondering why i never met someone like that grin

miss halfrica...you're one of the 20%?? shocked. Woow.. grin
Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by SmokingGunZ(m): 9:09am On Oct 23, 2015
cruzyteejay:
anyway,its part of their destiny,how i wish this thread is related to friendzone i would av given you the full gist,but it will derail the thread

You can.open a thread with the topic. Make sure you mention me smiley
Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by Nobody: 9:10am On Oct 23, 2015
SmokingGunZ:


Girls are really unpredictable. Shey tomorrow, the girl would label him a pauper
Are yhu a pauper? Listen, there's really no need complicating life. Twud be very foolish to go out ov ur means to please a gurl. Do only wah yhu can afford. A pauper has no business chasing women.

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Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by cruzyteejay(m): 9:11am On Oct 23, 2015
gimakon:
Not all of them.
Except the ones who always want to magarize you!

But first of all, focus on making yourself a better person,have a house of your own,have a job, but heed my advice, even if you are being paid 20million USD as your salary, DONT EVER SHOW IT. Always be on the listening side, not much on the speaking side. Be jovial too... but have a focus. Don't allow punny to cover your eyes cos I know that's why many guys go after women.

Focus first, women WILL come when you are settled

bros if op heed to your advise and still look at girls then he is nomore a BF,he would be a sugar daddy
bottom line "when he might av made money,have a car,a house and etc,he do might have outgrown dating level,he is only left with courting and marriage" else he do continue with my first paragraph(sugar daddy)

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Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by SmokingGunZ(m): 9:12am On Oct 23, 2015
lovinggirl101:

It is because you are running after different girls. If you have just one, she will take you
seriously whether there's money or not

LOOL. I dont just see any good looking girl passing and run like an e-diot to talk to her shaa

But thanks anyways. wink
Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by Nobody: 9:12am On Oct 23, 2015
SmokingGunZ:


Lool. True. You just reminded me about one of my guy.

He's a player. Girls usually take him out to eateries and spoil him with gifts.

I been wondering why i never met someone like that grin

miss halfrica...you're one of the 20%?? shocked. Woow.. grin


grin grin grin grin na me they even top the 20% list awwwww na wa am so bloody happy bou it

grin grin grin grin chai its just that d 20% girls are sparsely distributed in d world dats all grin grin grin grin


Dis is d era whr evil has dominated d good

Nd people as made d sinful look unsinful now so the problemo eez dat u forget girls nd work hard angry angry angry angry
Wats dere in girl to kiss they hungry u abi to go down low hain my frnd open small aaccount they save wend account done ripe invest so my kids wont login on nl to read bou ur kids typin dis again angry
Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by SmokingGunZ(m): 9:14am On Oct 23, 2015
Oliviaarims:

Are yhu a pauper? Listen, there's really no need complicating life. Twud be very foolish to go out ov ur means to please a gurl. Do only wah yhu can afford. A pauper has no business chasing women.

Lool... grin. I'm no pauper. As a girl, tell me. How dyu even expect a guy to approach you? smiley

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Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by Nobody: 9:16am On Oct 23, 2015
cruzyteejay:


bros if op heed to your advise and still look at girls then he is nomore a BF,he would be a sugar daddy
bottom line "when he might av made money,have a car,a house and etc,he do might have outgrown dating level,he is only left with courting and marriage" else he do continue with my first paragraph(sugar daddy)

Wrong. I know a guy who counted his first 2million at age of 21. He has a shop here in Lagos,and still goes to Unilag,studying Computer science. I help him with his assignment at times.
So are you saying he doesn't have a girl he f*ucks? At least for now?
People that talk like the way you just did get it wrong. Go and hustle, organise yourself,see the ladies flood into your life

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Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by cruzyteejay(m): 9:18am On Oct 23, 2015
halfrica:


Well if its that case i still say it depends on d kind of girl u approach

Just cos 80% of them loves demnading doesnt mean the remaining 20% doesnt exist

Just find for the remaining 20% nd u wud b happy they sure exist

yea,i agree with that just the the 20% in question don't reside in Nigeria or Africa,they are based in Asia as telemundo will always tell us
you said you are one of the 20%?
Ok then you just came back to check something and will travel soon to continue the ASIAN LOVE

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Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by SmokingGunZ(m): 9:18am On Oct 23, 2015
halfrica:



grin grin grin grin na me they even top the 20% list awwwww na wa am so bloody happy bou it

grin grin grin grin chai its just that d 20% girls are sparsely distributed in d world dats all grin grin grin grin


Dis is d era whr evil has dominated d good

Nd people as made d sinful look unsinful now so the problemo eez dat u forget girls nd work hard angry angry angry angry
Wats dere in girl to kiss they hungry u abi to go down low hain my frnd open small aaccount they save wend account done ripe invest so my kids wont login on nl to read bou ur kids typin dis again angry

If i say you're funny, thats an understatement grin. LOOL.

It's nice to have u on my thread tho wink
Re: I'm Scared Of Approaching A Girl Because I'm Broke by IamLEGEND1: 9:18am On Oct 23, 2015
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