We all usually start a relationship with the sole aim of a happy ending, our knight in a shining amour, but more often than not, this is rarely the end result.

It’s no news that ladies get more attraction than men; they get the attention even without a lifting a single finger and that can be translated to mean that they have more opportunity at meeting the kind of men that they desire or want in their life to make them happy as they desired.

There several reasons for this, but I will mention just a few.

Always in Company of Wrong People:
There is a popular saying which goes thus: “show me your friend and I will tell you who you are”. It’s quite simple and self-explanatory. The reason is that relationship with anyone is very contagious and when start to mingle with people who have ineffective reasoning, yours become ineffective as well. They will always influence you negatively to the detriment of your destiny and future.

No reasonable or responsible man will want to come near such a lady and if any does, be sure he is after sex, which if after attaining his goal, he will drift with the wind and settle in any area of less turmoil.

Thinking You Are Still Young
This is one of the greatest killer of many young ladies who misplace their priorities in guise that they are still young; they need to explore more and thereby telling seriously qualified men off. Most times–especially those in their late teens to early twenties–they are blinded by the influx of guys approaching them such that they find it very difficult to make an informed decision.

On the long run, this daily event often send them to cloud nine and in such euphoria, they lost sense of chronology. By the time they realize it, time is almost running out.

Dump the Nice Guy, Flow with the Bad Boy
Tug of war will always ensue whenever this discussion is brought to the table and I can hear the good guys hating on the bad boys. This is not to say that bad boy (alpha male) are not responsible but they just know how to handle women better (to their own advantage). In most cases, ladies will dump a good guy who would almost kill himself because of her and then tarry along with a bad boy who just want her for sex, nothing but sex.
Eventually, they break up and the circle continues and time wasted with selfish guys is lost with the wind of excitement.

Underrate a Guy:
I was taught that nobody knows tomorrow by a wise man but some ladies feel they know tomorrow.
I knew of a lady who only started taking my friend serious after a slight financial improvement, wherein previously, he meant nothing to her. What reasonable guy would take you serious?
If all you think of man is his current situation, then you may have been losing out on your potential husband. I do not mean dating nonentity who have no zeal to succeed. If you see guy who is struggling and making moves, it would be senseless to ditch him completely.

Seeking Bad Advice from Friends:
Ladies, like any other creature, have their clique, one if not properly managed, could spell doom. Keeping friends who only thinking of partying all weekend, or sleeping with latest guy in town and bragging about it is synonymous to dining with the devil. Or seeking advice from friends on whom to date or not date. It’s childish because many of them could possibly give you what their dream (or imagination) is and not what reality is. So why give them a chance to make you live in their imagination? Remember that women are their own worst enemy. Such word didn’t fall off the lips of an insane man.

No Value:
It’s very tough to discover a lady that can offer anything aside her body or sex in a relationship. Equating sex, a commodity commonly available, to building bond or having the capacity to build bond between you and a guy is termed myopic in my book. Anything widely available is much less of a value to users, except those things that are rarely found around.

Why do we value gold so much? It’s simply because of its distinctive value that set it apart from other kind of metals or minerals; one of which is rarity.

Give a man something more than sex, or something more than your body, something which he can hardly find elsewhere and watch him worship the ground you walk on.

Source: http://www.hookupcity.com/top-5-ways-ladies-miss-out-on-quality-men/

Exactly

Noted

beautiful write up op!

o.k

*Bleaching the beauty (black) of their skin.






WE FLIRT WITH (THE SO CALLED) BEAUTIFUL BLEACHER BUT MARRY THE WELL BEHAVED, NATURAL SKINED BLACK BEAUTIES. Lol

Mmmmmmm...

Ladies please take note

Good.
So the ice cream represents the quality man ba

Nice just that we cant just help being with the bad guys...we love them

misspicy:
Nice just that we cant just help beinh with the bad guys...we love them

lol. You know I almost turned into whom I wasn't all because i WANTED to be a bad guy, hinging on so much fuckkkk but I had to put a stop to it when it almost seem like I could miss the lady of my dream.

TheSonOfMark:

Which is why we are hesitant to settle with you confused lots.

Nice one

And the ice-cream Represents? ""

lazeal:
lol. You know I almost turned into whom I wasn't all because i WANTED to be a bad guy, hinging on so much fuckkkk but I had to put a stop to it when it almost seem like I could miss the lady of my dream.

And that is good for you d earlier you realise what you really want the better for you,atleast no one puts a gun to your head and force you to be bad