There is a wise Yoruba adage that says 'Eshin waju ni teyin wo sa re' meaning 'the horse running in-front is what the ones coming behind watch as they race forward'

A lot of brothers are willing to settle down but want to make the right choice, so we need help from our elders that have been in our situation. I have heard many different stories and how they ended, some started bad and ended well but some that started on a good note left the guys involved in regrets, a lot of scenarios. Many says its best to meet a good lady in church, mosque, club, house party, weddings or even on the street, well I believe where one meets a lady does not really matter but getting to truly know who the lady truly is.

Please I am pleading to Happily Married Men on Nairaland home and away to share their experiences before and after marriage. Please, also give us elderly advise so we can lead better lives.

PS: Married Ladies too can please give us some advice, many of us will marry your sisters, nieces, friends etc.

Many thanks and sincere appreciation in advance!

okay

Lemme call them

Yes ... E don set! All the married peeps come in here ooo

Some ready guys wanna join da club

#learning mode activated

Wetin you wan hear Op?

Uncle, to have a suckSexful marriage, you must be loaded both in cash and konko below because, if you no get money, your wife to turn to ashawo and if your manhood is tiny, she go dey fvck anyhow.

Forget marriage now, look for money and if down below is small, you can get Blockous enlargement.

Any other thing from these, na lie.

Pls come oh very soon me self go....

Where are the elders come ooh..your children are ready for takes by moonlight




My fellow ladies make una shine your eyes ooh...eligible bachelors naa them go full here ooh
I don already sight one above me

kilode100:
Wetin you wan hear Op?

Uncle, to have a suckSexful marriage, you must be loaded both in cash and konko below because, if you no get money, your wife to turn to ashawo and if your manhood is tiny, she go dey fvck anyhow.

Forget marriage now, look for money and if down below is small, you can get Blockous enlargement.

Any other thing from these, na lie.

You really reping your moniker kilode

Who told u they are happy?

xpac01:

You really reping your moniker kilode

I hope you are learning from kilode100?

kilode100:


I hope you are learning from kilode100?

I still prefer what I learnt in Sunday school.

xpac01:


I still prefer what I learnt in Sunday school.

Ok now but be prepared to share other uncles with your wife.

At least they would have a certain level of satisfaction and contentment with their married lives. I know no one can be happy 100%. Get my point?

parrygee:
Who told u they are happy?

kilode100:


Ok now but be prepared to share other uncles with your wife.

@bolded, am not gay I dig ladies...

kilode100:
Wetin you wan hear Op?

Uncle, to have a suckSexful marriage, you must be loaded both in cash and konko below because, if you no get money, your wife to turn to ashawo and if your manhood is tiny, she go dey fvck anyhow.

Forget marriage now, look for money and if down below is small, you can get Blockous enlargement.

Any other thing from these, na lie.

You don spoil finish

I'm happily married for upward of 5years now. Honestly speaking, a happy marriage is not a straight jacket. What makes it work varies from individual to individual. But the underlying factor is understanding.
I met my wife while still in the University here in Nigeria. We became close friends, initially with no strings attached. As the friendship progressed, we began to understand one another. I can tell you even at the level of friendship it was not smooth.
Let me state here that we are both Christians, without sounding to undermine the potency of prayer, I didn't pray before proposing to my wife.

To be continued...

good one op





All thanks to the mod that banned oyind17

Thanks for your contribution. You said you did not pray before proposing to your wife. I am guessing having been friends with her for some time, you had that gut feeling that she was the one, right? What helped you make up your mind?

Harbb:
I'm happily married for upward of 5years now. Honestly speaking, a happy marriage is not a straight jacket. What makes it work varies from individual to individual. But the underlying factor is understanding.
I met my wife while still in the University here in Nigeria. We became close friends, initially with no strings attached. As the friendship progressed, we began to understand one another. I can tell you even at the level of friendship it was not smooth.
Let me state here that we are both Christians, without sounding to undermine the potency of prayer, I didn't pray before proposing to my wife.

To be continued...