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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by yanabasee(m): 11:01pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
standingtall: I didn't want to post...just wanted reading comments and pass to the next thread... But, I'll want you to listen to me very well... I don't mean to be rude or callous with my quote..... We all have one opportunity in life and you've been singled out of many desperate single ladies out there to stand before the altar and be married to a man you've been with for three years... Don't let this to slip off with your judgement... Again, you're duty as a wife starts now! You'll never see a no-trouble husband out there... No man is perfect, likewise girls... People will tag him all sorts of names and that'll make u feel u're sided! Mind you, many of them will settle their differnce without u knowing a thing! My little point about ur dilemma is that... As a woman, you shld be happy u've had somfin to begin with... Now, look down on urself... How often do u have sex with him? Is he a sex-freak? How do u guys make out? With styles or just ordinary? If u must know! Sex contributes to a lot of divorce and broken homes... You must ensure dat u give it to him, even when he's nt in the mood... So his mood will never come bck when he's sighting other girls out side there... Again, what if he has a short coming on swerving from such habit months after his marriage? You wouldn't know if he's realy ready to do away with this acts... A woman was once told about how her husband carry women around the city and how he flirts and club with these ladies... Her reply was that.... As far as he doesn't bring them home... She's certain he respects her that much... And she never jumped up on other men jst to retaliate the husband's acts... Like many girls would... Please, take ur time to talk to him... Ensure that u monitor ur man oh... Doesn't mean u'll track him down... Jst set a good look on him... Study and read his speeches... Like now, my woman knows when I lie... And I tell you... The moment it comes... She will know... Except we're chattin... I could meander all d lies on whatsapp...but when I get home... I dnt dare it...coz she's knows and understand that part of me... I'll say, u shld keep ur man... You wouldn't know! If marriage was dat easy that u'll turn down opportunities... A lot of men and women would've long been marrying and remarrying up to 5times or more... But it's very hard oh! Men will come if u lose dis chance...but will they come to marry you or to have you? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Arabs999: 11:02pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
vision2050: ...Nna U funnyiooh..Do u mean that she should keep on opening that sweet hole of all holes ? ...Habah...I laff in Fulani.. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by awesome11(m): 11:02pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
futurewise11: How do you think gan self? She should opt for a bad marriage because her mates are without someone to propose to them? Anyway, OP, keep in mind that you deserve the best 4 Likes |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Pidggin(f): 11:02pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
missyadorable: It's so obvious you are a guy, please do the needful, change your moniker and be a man for God sake, what are you afraid of? 2 Likes |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by AKAKAK(m): 11:03pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
In my life I have seen many women who dump their finaces because of cheating or infidelity only for them to get married to another man and find out that he is also doing the same or even worse so be careful and think twice but before taking any decision. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Dyt(f): 11:03pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
missyadorable: Wow Do you mean its OK for her to do same too? Interesting I bet you haven't been in that relationship every lil lie hurts I was like you I never cared Wasn't my business But when I was with my perfect imperfection I know say I no strong 2 Likes |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Nobody: 11:07pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Frankdamaxx: Thank God for ur life. Ccos I knw if boko haram doesn't kill naija men soon, sex will. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Dyt(f): 11:07pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
menix: So because he will marry her he should cheat? Omo The things I read on NL is a whiskey |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Dyt(f): 11:10pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
maryhaam: Your signature says it all Kudos 1 Like |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by tosyne2much(m): 11:11pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
missyadorable:There's nothing special about kitty-cat. Only kids derive joy in bleeping various kitty-cat Kitty-cat does not becloud the sense of reasoning of a matured dude me 3 Likes |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Rumpelstiltskin(m): 11:11pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
missyadorable:Are you sure you're a woman? If you are, then you should be the most intelligent, smartest, most objective and most considerate woman I've ever read her opinion in my entire life. God bless the man that will marry you. Truth be told, if there are men who remain faithful after marriage, they would not exceed 1% of the world's population. Most especially now that se.x is a cheap commodity. I have seen men, even pastors and very close relatives whom I would have vouched for, that they can't cheat on their wives conveniently and without remorse engage in extra-marital affairs. Men are moved by sight and thanks to the ladies of this generation, there are just more than enough to see everyday to arouse a man's se.xual desires. Sincerely, if 50% of the women in the world today have the understanding that you have, marriages will last longer. Cheers! 5 Likes |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Justicealh3(m): 11:12pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
So now U're telling us that He never use CONDOM 4 ur Hole?
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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Frankdamaxx(m): 11:12pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Anyss: And if all the men are dead who will comfort you at that moment when its a man's touch you need. Well, you may be L...... Who knows? |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by kossyablaze(m): 11:13pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
SosaMontana:no dey joke wit dat name jor 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Nobody: 11:14pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
standingtall: Doesnt he use them on you? And if not, then be thankful you now know he is cheating on you, break up and bail out, i dare u........ If i hear say naija girl bail out, too hungry for marriage |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by tosyne2much(m): 11:14pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Anyss:hmmmmm ! |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by EDhims(m): 11:14pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
standingtall: Am d coping mechanism, #pm |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by bronzegoddess(f): 11:15pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
standingtall:lol...u will walk away? Mchhhheeeew. I know u will still marry him, u will. Don't worry, when u need our advice after marriage,we 'll be here, its not that easy walking away. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Dyt(f): 11:18pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
yanabasee: Wow Wow Wow Marriage is an achievement This is interesting 2 Likes |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by missyadorable(f): 11:18pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Pidggin:I am not a man,my dear..Nothing to be afraid of! I am a woman and being very realistic.Truth is bitter but it is better said. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Nobody: 11:19pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Oliviaarims:So true. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Sleekyshuga(f): 11:19pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up. -------------------------------------------------- @ emboldened, that line got me [size=18pt]laughing[/size] hard .. Boy!! Quite a cheap lie from him .. 2 Likes |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by ewizard1: 11:20pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
standingtall:[size=15pt]Lmaaao!!![/size] |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Owliver(m): 11:22pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
like someone said on first page. marriage is the ultimate for naija girls so even 86million people advise OP to leave the man she's 99% most likely not to leave the man. so my advice is talk to him about it. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by 6fit(f): 11:22pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
standingtall: yur guy is doing last minute banging cos soon he will remain on a diet for life....so it normal we all had dsame experience.... |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by tosyne2much(m): 11:22pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
All I know is that, only government officials retire, thieves don't. This rules also applies to someone who cheats in a relationship An unfaithful fiance will always be an unfaithful husband. Only deliverance can make such a man desist from that act OP, abeg use your brain ooooo.. This is to let you know that thieves don't retire. Use your head 1 Like |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Nobody: 11:23pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Discuss with him. Tell him how worried you are about the recurrent discovery of CD in his pocket. Be assertive about it so that he will stop playing smart on you. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by unmask: 11:25pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
The guy pribably needed it for protection from diseases anytime he needs to self service....... Op ur story isn't complete..... Tell us if you do the freaky? If you do why are u freaked about condoms........on the other hand if you dont, why the hell are you still freaked? Remember sex is not love so what is bad in him getting some action, since you have decided not to? |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Revolva(m): 11:26pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
So wht make e no bang anoda possay..i beg u should be lucky he uses condoms I beg make person hear word you aare not the first |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Nobody: 11:26pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
standingtall: You ought to be happy that he's protecting your health. If he has failed you in your monogamist agenda then break up and move on. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by 2tek: 11:27pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Op. For u to be worried that u saw condoms in his bag suggests strongly that u have not had sex with him or u do body to body. U date a man for 3yrs nd u have done intro but without sex ND u think he won't cheat? Think again, sis. U probably told him u are a born again lady ND so no sexx b4 marriage, d sharp guy decided to play along while strafing a smallie by the corner. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by missyadorable(f): 11:30pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Rumpelstiltskin: Thank you very much..Whenever I make such comment,am seen as a devil.the same men who brag abt how many women they conquer will turn around to claim they are faithful...and the women folk? they cry foul and call me names.I have come to realize se.x is not love.one woman can never satisfy a man,he would want more n more till he dies.in the olden days when women were decent and se.x was sacred,men were still very much unfaithful.Fast forward to today where everything depicts se.x up to the air we breathe and food we eat.Getting a partner is just a click away, thanks to the various social media platforms and dating sites.The no of married men on these sites is alarming.It really baffles me when my fellow ladies expect a man to bleep only one woman n be faithful to them in this age and time..Personally,i just understand.I don't have a problem wt my man as long as he is playing safe.HIV/AIDS is the only challenge with adultery. Pls don't vouch for anybody(male n female)on sexual morals.You will be utterly disappointed. 4 Likes |
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