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Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by raayah(f): 12:46pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Hi Romancelanders, Can we talk about this cheating thing on the front-page? Various men and women of adult age have come together to agree that Men will always cheat in a relationship. They said men cannot control their urges (wtf). What is the benefit of marriage for the average nigerian woman, who is a stay-at-home mom, with a cheating and abusive husband? Please someone should comment and tell me that these people were trolling. Women of nairaland, are your partners currently cheating? If yes, do you just accept it as normal? Some reasons why men cheat 1.He has unreasonable expectations. He believes that his spouse should meet his every sexual and emotional need, 24/7, without fail. In his narcissistic and self-focused way, he doesn’t understand that his spouse may be juggling multiple priorities (kids, work, home, finances) in addition to him and the relationship. When this spouse inevitably fails him (in his view), he feels entitled to seek intimate attention elsewhere. 2.He’s a liar. He never intended to be monogamous, despite his commitment. He doesn’t understand that his vow of fidelity is a sacrifice made to and for his relationship and the person he professes to love. This man views monogamy as something to be worked around rather than embraced. 3.He is insecure. Deep down, he feels that he is too young, too old, too fat, too thin, too poor, too stupid, or too whatever to be desirable. He uses flirtation, porn, and extramarital sex as a way to feel better about himself, to reassure himself that he is still desirable, worthwhile, and “good enough.” 4.He wants out. He is looking to end his current relationship and is using external sexual and romantic activities to give his wife or girlfriend “the message” without having to be direct. Or, if he is a man who doesn’t like being alone, period, then finding a new and “better” person before leaving a current relationship provides a safer and softer landing. |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by Nobody: 12:53pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Lolllllll Bae,pple of romance ke??,romance section na country?? |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by falconey(m): 12:54pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
and one special reason men cheat is 'HE HASN'T REACH HIS BUS-STOP' |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by raayah(f): 12:54pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Harbosede02: What should I call them? |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by Nobody: 12:55pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
raayah:romancelanders preferably |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by Nobody: 12:56pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
falconey:can't stop blushing gggggggggg |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by honeygirl17: 12:56pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
You dey vex You said men always cheat, even when they don't you have made up your mind. My man don't have the power to cheat on me, even if he does I don't really care. I will definitely forgive him so why do I have to stress my head over it? Na in those days I dey mumu dey bother my head for man, I just don't have time. 1 Like |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by UncleJudax(m): 1:13pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
honeygirl17: 1 Like |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by raayah(f): 1:15pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
honeygirl17: I still don't think a man who loves you will intentionally put you through emotional pain. |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by honeygirl17: 1:17pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by honeygirl17: 1:19pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
raayah:He has never cheated on me and can't cheat on me |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by Nobody: 1:20pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
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Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by ednut1(m): 1:24pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Cheating is now normal. If the wife dares cheat too hell is let lose. I think d wise wives of today overlook it or encourage them to use CD. Dan to subject their minds to torture wen they have kids,jobs/business to take care of. If u cant take it Stay single na. Sad bt fact. Op u cant do jack about it 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by ednut1(m): 1:27pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
honeygirl17:learner alert 2 Likes |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by Nobody: 1:27pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
raayah:Not only men, women do chat as well and can hide their dirty secrets more than the men. The question should be focused more on men and women, not only men. |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by honeygirl17: 1:30pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
ednut1:Learn fire! I know what am saying |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by raayah(f): 1:34pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
DeeTus: I am sorry if its one-sided. I only focused on the men because the thread on frontpage was really based on that. However, I do acknowledge that men and women cheat. |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by raayah(f): 1:35pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Xwayhandsom264: This is good, break rules and get banned. |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by Slimzjoe(m): 1:49pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
raayah: He didn't ask you to be Emotionally Pained |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by Ubyj(f): 2:16pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Personally, I feel dis cheating stuff is over-rated. And if u ain't married sha, nobody owes u an allegiance of faithfulness. So, deal with it. Well, dat being said, I bliv sex, to men, is a need! D earlier we ladies understand dis, d berra. Don't get too carried away by other activities n fail to provide ur man's need; at least, most times. U myt not feel like it, but u knw.. . Responsible men won't go 'doing' outside if u give it to dem like it's hot. N another thing, be in good shape. 1 Like |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by Nobody: 2:20pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
All these are reasons but the major reason is variety They say variety is the spice of life Its like you're married to a girl with a great butt Then you see another fine ass and you go 'whoa' |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by Nobody: 2:22pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Slimzjoe:
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Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by Nobody: 2:27pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Ubyj: Is it that you ladies know the truth but intentionally shy away from it out of hypocrisy? ... Asin, haven't met too many women with yo kinda understanding congratulations! Your submission here to me is the whole truth. So, this thread is good as CLOSED 1 Like |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by Ubyj(f): 2:34pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
pinceprinz:cover ur big teeth |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by Nobody: 2:38pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Ubyj:I have the milk teeth not big teeth. Btw, how's ur big ti.ts? 1 Like |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by Ubyj(f): 2:40pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
pinceprinz:was about thinking u had a brain... happy sunday! |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by Nobody: 2:42pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Ubyj: The way you're catwalking, rolling that ass away tho.... |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by Nobody: 3:02pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
raayah:Ouch!! u ain't being a good sis" |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by Nobody: 3:22pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
honeygirl17:LoL...You're not Aphrodite(goddess of Love) Guys would Always Cheat.......*well, Except my dad * ...Uhm... not necessarily sexually* ...Buh Guys Are prone to Lustfulness.. another form of cheating... Even Beyonce Got cheated on... "" the main thing is Just be prepared.. Be cynical sometimes... So, when the stone comes rolling...You won't get crushed in the Act..Always be prepared! "" |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by honeygirl17: 3:43pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
Estharfabian:I trust him more than I trust myself |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by Nobody: 6:07pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
raayah: I don't know but I think all men don't cheat. Most men do. So I'd ask one to find a man that doesn't. A busy well cultured man shouldn't. Most times the regular guy would say he won't cheat but if you see one who would naturally cheat you'd know. If you want to have someone who won't put a lady through the emotional stuff ignore the "regular" any other lady is a game even on his wedding night he would hit on bridesmaid, ex, cousin of the wife, old friend etc. Its on both sides but maybe more on our side yet it don't mean the one man one wife gee don't exist. |
Re: Can We Talk About The Cheating Rubbish On The Frontpage by Nobody: 6:09pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
honeygirl17: That's not fair |
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