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Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Lorax(f): 12:44am On Oct 27, 2015 |
I've been there, so I know how it feels. They kill your self-esteem and confidence, leaving you dejected and depressed, making you wonder what you did wrong. Everyone is putting the blame on the women. I beg to differ. Their husband should be blamed. They know what happens in the house, they just choose to turn a blind eye. They are still the ones that claim pastor, born again and the rest. They will be the ones that will preach to you, they will be the ones donating money in the church, while the child that lives with them will be starving. Honestly, Nigerians are wicked and the painful part is that they always cover up their acts with religion. 6 Likes |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by bummyla(m): 4:09pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
aameyah: Thanks Man! That Was Almost 10 years ago! I Believe GOD! I Have Recovered All I Had Lost A Thousand Times Over! I Did Not Get The Oil Company Job! But I Am Paid More Than Most Oil Company Employees! Thank You! http://www.bummyla.com |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by gabazin080(m): 8:26pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
MissAssy:No offense, I guess u are exactly 20 years old now. Tell me if am right or wrong. I have my reasons |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Nobody: 4:38am On Oct 28, 2015 |
MissAssy: I can relate with your experience staying with a relative, but I want you to see everything as a learning process (bad experience though) but you learnt a lot and a time will come that you will earn their respect. Never be out down. 1 Like |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by chinchum(m): 6:39am On Oct 28, 2015 |
@op, the man of the house failed, no excuse !, from your story you reported going to school 3ce in a week, was he blind to such ? School fees were not paid promptly. was he blind to such ? text books not bought, was he blind to such ? you worked your bum hard till late in the night, was he blind to such ? In many homes, the head of the house are only figure heads, and failed leader of the home. Being a man of the house goes beyond sexing your wife , and doling out cash for home needs to wife, having a firm view and grip of the house is essential. If the said man was truly the head, he would have reined in the wife, and assert his authority in the home. Additionally, women, women, women ! how many times did i call you ? Finally, no parent if alive should give out his/her offspring(s) to anyone to train, that is why family planning is key, have the few (2-4) IMO, that you can train. 2 Likes |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by MizFrances(f): 9:09am On Oct 28, 2015 |
Hmmm.. I read every single comment. Thank God I never experienced such, because some human beings are wicked 1 Like |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by debbydee(f): 12:04pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
Everybody should just be careful because u don't know where your own child will need help too. this has always kept me from misbehaving with other peoples children. Life is full of ups and down. |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Nobody: 2:40pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
gabazin080:Right |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Nobody: 3:30pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
@chinchum, the man died way before i went there. |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by chinchum(m): 6:13pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
MissAssy:oh my, i have a better view of it now. Judging by your ability to discuss what happened yesteryears , i am glad you have shed a great deal of the emotional baggages of your experience, and i am certain the experience planted a seed of inner strength in you that will come in handy in the near future. 1 Like |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by gabazin080(m): 8:55pm On Oct 28, 2015 |
MissAssy:alright ma'am. But y the moniker "MISSASSY". Doesn't sound good, people might start adding u thinking u have got a big behind. Nice DP though |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Nobody: 10:52am On Oct 29, 2015 |
gabazin080:Lol, i understand but my name is Assumpta and Assy for short |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by gabazin080(m): 1:53pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
MissAssy:OK. Nice name. Can we chat offline? I have my reasons |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by byvan03: 2:33pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
Parents are to blame for such calamities. You don't birth more than you can cater for and ship some off, that's cruel. Sorry for your experiences OP, it is well. 2 Likes |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by dustydee: 5:42pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
gabazin080:Sharp guy. |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by gabazin080(m): 9:15pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
dustydee:na wa for you oooo. Y u no face front |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by francizy(m): 3:33pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
@MissAssy, this is really sad! I had my share of this kind of treatment from my late uncle's late wife but luckily for me and my elder brother, we spent about 1-3 months with them. She treated us nice when her husband (my uncle) was around but dealt with us when he was out. We did the chores and ate remnants from the plates of her children. Can't even talk about what I went thru in the hands of my own mum. In all we go thru, we only become stronger. Thank God you made it out of that situation without loosing your life or one or more important part(s) of your body. Forget about the height you lost as your beauty more than anything, covers up for the height. Stay strong and determined dear. 2 Likes |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by francizy(m): 7:04pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
aameyah: Your mum's kind is rare! God bless her really! 1 Like |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Nobody: 2:48pm On Nov 27, 2015 |
Oh my God. This is terrible. Now I understand the reason everyone thinks every 'Anty' is wicked. Woe unto wicked people. Op You will be great and in fact greater than her children and she will curse each day she misbehaved towards you. So sorry dear. 1 Like |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Nobody: 7:45pm On Nov 27, 2015 |
The solution is that parents should stop giving their children out to stay with people or relatives except those that are known to be kind from past records. maltreatment of live in relatives or maids is not new. pls drink garri with ur children in ur house and keep them safe. some hv been permanently scarred/ maimed or accidently or deliberately killed oo! @ op, thank God u are alright now. U even look like aje butter now 1 Like |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by glossy6(f): 9:28pm On Nov 27, 2015 |
softandmoist: hmmm. wash pad for reuse. I've never heard of such invention. "Patience" said mother hen to the chicks "whatever is hot will get cold " |
Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Objectives: 6:04am On Nov 28, 2015 |
It feels good knowing some of the victims on here have moved on and forgiven what seemed like irreparable psychological damages brought upon them by so called relatives. |
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