if prayer no fit help you...nawa o...

daretodiffer:


What does ego have to do with this

He drank way too much coffee today...""
the caffeine in his Head is Hyper...

esthersolomon00:
Hello Nlders,


THE MAJOR PROBLEM IS THAT AM "BIsexual" but a larger part of me hungers for same sex


Lalasticlala

first of all....Yay! She's my Namesake! ""

Uhm...secondly, @bolded...there You go! you're gay!! problem solved!


Uhm....You really shouldn't let this Reach FP...you'd regret you ever did...Nigerians Hate "Homosexuals"...You'd have so Much negative vibes in the thread that you'd wish You never created it...Anyways....Goodluck!

I Hope You find happiness... somehow...

esthersolomon00:



Yes! I started too early cuz I was trying to fight my sexuality then..
No doubt it's a psychological ish..and I've done if not all what am supposed to do dear BUT..

eiya..meet a professional psychologist or sth; I dunno

shantelrandy:
did I hear u say notting is wrg with bin a lesbian?...U aint truthful at all,if there's everything wrong with GAY"why can't everything b wrg with lesbian,dia is a Demonic spirit behind lesbianism... and there's everything wrong with bin a lesbian...my dear @op, just pray and fast about it.

Norr vex my dear..
I get you now...!!

shantelrandy:
did I hear u say notting is wrg with bin a lesbian?...U aint truthful at all,if there's everything wrong with GAY"why can't everything b wrg with lesbian,dia is a Demonic spirit behind lesbianism... and there's everything wrong with bin a lesbian...my dear @op, just pray and fast about it.

Hey shut d fvck up. U lame nigerian, always bringing religion into sexuality.
If she's a lesbian there is NOTHING wrong with it! And no demonic spirit is leading Lesbianism, this is 21st century Everyone has right to sexual preference even ur whole president buhari is Faqqot! Or dont u know, now pack ur 'prayer and fasting trash' out of here before u see da other side of me. Fvcktard!!

OP, It seems u are emotional attracted to guys but physically attracted to ladies. You are fine, dont mind some nairalanders here, they are just re.tards. My advice to u, is to keep up a healthy sexual relationship with da same sex and also maintain a healthy romantic relationship with da guys. If possible, u can tell any guy coming ur way about ur sexuality so dat he doesn't end up calling u all sort of names. Dont let anyone force u into sex, if u are nt physically attracted to guy, its not ur fault, u are not even alone, from wat i know about 85% of naija ladies feel da same way #Fact. But be careful when indulging in same sex acts, bcuz amebos are everywhere. #Remain blessed.

Durentt:
Hey shut d fvck up. U lame nigerian, always bringing religion into sexuality.
If she's a lesbian there is NOTHING wrong with it! And no demonic spirit is leading Lesbianism, this is 21st century Everyone has right to sexual preference even ur whole president buhari is Faqqot! Or dont u know, now pack ur 'prayer and fasting trash' out of here before u see da other side of me. Fvcktard!!

Av anyone ever told you how stupid and foolish you are?I guess u are a lesbian, my opinion your headache, u are free to vomit rubbish, u ain't d op, so I see no reason why taking panadol on someone else issue, I made my opinion, and beside I see no reason y u should quote me,am not gonna exchange words with u,u know y? coz u ain't worth my time, if u like quote me again,insult me, say rubbish it doesn't remove anything on my body.I av already seen d other side of u there is notting left...

shantelrandy:
Av anyone ever told you how stupid and foolish you are?I guess u are a lesbian, my opinion your headache, u are free to vomit rubbish, u ain't d op, so I see no reason why taking panadol on someone else issue, I made my opinion, and beside I see no reason y u should quote me,am not gonna exchange words with u,u know y? coz u ain't worth my time, if u like quote me again,insult me, say rubbish it doesn't remove anything on my body.I av already seen d other side of u there is notting left...

I know how to deal wit ur type, da OP is confused in her sexual life and u are here ranting rubbish about "Prayer and fasting" Smh, go and Ask dat ur God why he made her Bisexual in the first place. Rubbbish, u beta get out of dis thread. I hate people who cant see dat every human being cant be same.

Durentt:
I know how to deal wit ur type, da OP is confused in her sexual life and u are here ranting rubbish about "Prayer and fasting" Smh, go and Ask dat ur God why he made her Bisexual in the first place. Rubbbish, u beta get out of dis thread. I hate people who cant see dat every human being cant be same.

Do u see how senseless u are, yes d op needs solution on her sexual life, have gone through all ur writeup and have not see any reasonable advice u av given to d op,rather u keep ranting and running mouth "tatata" like tap water, and quoting pipo up and down, can't u make ur suggestions without quoting someone?God did not make her bisexual, bcoz God himself knows she's a woman and will need to get married someday to a Man not a Women.The fact that people have right to their sexual life,does not make lesbanism and gay right....Every human can't b dsame, but everything have a solution, d op is tired of d bisexual stuff that is why she needs solution and d only solution is talking to God abt it,She's not the first coz av seen similar cases like this and there overcame it tru prayers.Point of correction God never made her bisexual#ode#

shantelrandy:
Do u see how senseless u are, yes d op needs solution on her sexual life, have gone through all ur writeup and have not see any reasonable advice u av given to d op,rather u keep ranting and running mouth "tatata" like tap water, and quoting pipo up and down, can't u make ur suggestions without quoting someone?God did not make her bisexual, bcoz God himself knows she's a woman and will need to get married someday to a Man not a Women.The fact that people have right to their sexual life,does not make lesbanism and gay right....Every human can't b dsame, but everything have a solution, d op is tired of d bisexual stuff that is why she needs solution and d only solution is talking to God abt it,She's not the first coz av seen similar cases like this and there overcame it tru prayers.Point of correction God never made her bisexual#ode#

Am done with u, go read ur science books before i continue any further arguments.

esthersolomon00:
Hello Nlders,

I'm an ardent reader and follower of this great forum.
So,I had to create this acct for personal reasons.

To avoid lengthy episodes permit me to keep it simple by going straight to the point. Thanks

As a young lady who's in her early 20s I find it extremely difficult to love a guy not to talk about being in a relationship with one.

There is this guy who can't just help but to love me passionately. We've been together for 9yrs now but who would believe we had sex just once? YES! Just once after enough fighting and struggling.
Sometimes,I had to lock myself inside to weep cuz it's painful and it hurts! Why can't I have normal sex like any other lady out there?

I just detest having sex with a guy and it's as a result of this that I've lost most of my relationships. This stuff is making me sick cuz I want to enjoy sex with a man like any other lady.

THE MAJOR PROBLEM IS THAT AM "BIsexual" but a larger part of me hungers for same sex

And the ladies are not even helping matters cuz they also yearn for me every now and then.,
,
I've tried hanging out with some cool guyz even to the extent of doing stuff with them YET! Nothing positive came out.

Presently,am dating a banker and believe me every other thing is perfectly in order EXCEPT the issue of sex.

Am worried cuz I know exactly what it means for someone you love so dearly to deny you of something.

I've prayed
I've also cried my eyes out
I've even gone for counselling @least to ameloriate this kind of lifestyle YET! Things are still the same.
Someone should pls tell me what else to do...

Lalasticlala

There are different kind of prayers,u can't challange God In prayers without getting answers,I feel ur pain coz I av a friend who use to have similar case like urs,hers was worst..just keep praying to your God,notting is impossible,u will overcome it I assure u,but u jus have to open ur mind to love d opposite sex,open your mind to love and love will find you back.Good luck.

Durentt:
Am done with u, go read ur science books before i continue any further arguments.

...see dis fool oooo, just get a life and change ur perspective of things..say d truth when you see it.#idiot# go prepare for your upcoming SSCE..Am done with u...#cheers#.

AfroKnight:
Actually nothing is wrong with you. Ride on.

More like grind on

Follow your heart. Whatever rocks your boat.

I have a female friend who had this issue ones and I helped her out of it. Now she won't think of girls anymore because she is addicted to me but I'm not really proud of myself for what I did sha and won't advice such.

Abeg my dear I feel u but sorry o u can't pray to God to have pre marital sex...pls I will advice u keep ursef u hear

Two things are involved in this thread: its either the OP is lying or high on weed.

@OP, see a medical doctor for the pain. As for being a lesbian, you need to stop it, seek the help of a counselor asap.

Lesbothesis nah ur problem, only God can save u.

My dear, keep yourself pure. You can even fast and pray and watch how God will turn this situation around within a short while.

Na by force to like priiiiiiiiiiiccccccccccccccckkkkkkkkkkkkkk?
My dear, you are a lesbian! Go where you will be accepted and enjoy your life!

Ubyj:
U have been together for 9 years, as how? U r in ur early 20s too. U started d dating game way too early my dear.

Ur ish myt be psychological. Deal with it before u marry sha

I second u

biko this one is spiritual... marika sidika

esthersolomon00:
Hello Nlders,

I'm an ardent reader and follower of this great forum.
So,I had to create this acct for personal reasons.

To avoid lengthy episodes permit me to keep it simple by going straight to the point. Thanks

As a young lady who's in her early 20s I find it extremely difficult to love a guy not to talk about being in a relationship with one.

There is this guy who can't just help but to love me passionately. We've been together for 9yrs now but who would believe we had sex just once? YES! Just once after enough fighting and struggling.
Sometimes,I had to lock myself inside to weep cuz it's painful and it hurts! Why can't I have normal sex like any other lady out there?

I just detest having sex with a guy and it's as a result of this that I've lost most of my relationships. This stuff is making me sick cuz I want to enjoy sex with a man like any other lady.

THE MAJOR PROBLEM IS THAT AM "BIsexual" but a larger part of me hungers for same sex

And the ladies are not even helping matters cuz they also yearn for me every now and then.,
,
I've tried hanging out with some cool guyz even to the extent of doing stuff with them YET! Nothing positive came out.

Presently,am dating a banker and believe me every other thing is perfectly in order EXCEPT the issue of sex.

Am worried cuz I know exactly what it means for someone you love so dearly to deny you of something.

I've prayed
I've also cried my eyes out
I've even gone for counselling @least to ameloriate this kind of lifestyle YET! Things are still the same.
Someone should pls tell me what else to do...

Lalasticlala

Sweetie you are not bisexual, you are Gay darling. Find a Woman like yourself and keep your relationship Private. You will bring nothing but heartache to any man you stay with stop living a lie, be with a Woman, but the Whole World don't have to know your business.

the pain part of it is because you haven't had enough sex to loosen the spot. on not loving a guy enough its because you became too aware of your sexuality too early and i wonder what led to that most likely poor patenting.
and lastly be careful because you might be crazy and this is how it starts slowly until something sets it off, my uncle use to take one drug called Lagatin i bet you might be needing it soon if you not careful

Ubyj:
U have been together for 9 years, as how? U r in ur early 20s too. U started d dating game way too early my dear.

Ur ish myt be psychological. Deal with it before u marry sha

Don't mind the Op- it was Lust from the beginning not Love......Early 20s with 9 years dating experience.

Have you been sexually assaulted before?

Esthersolomon00, you are either bisexual or a lesbîan, stop fighting it.

Don't even try seeking advice from Nigerians... Their hate won't let them think.

You have a spirit husband,you need Jesus