I am a young lady in my late 20s. I am in my second relationship ever and in love but just about a. Year ago, I met an older man who has been taking care of my financial needs no strings attached to the extent that im having a soft spot for him right now. He worries about me sends me stuffs even before I ask. Am so worried that he is even more emphatic than my boyfriend! It hurts that d wrong one loves me right becos I will never tamper with a man's family. I wish my bf will be much more than what he is, I hate it that someone can still affect me besides him. God help me

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pearlyme:
I am a young lady in my late 20s. I am in my second relationship ever and in love but just about a. Year ago, I met an older man who has been taking care of my financial needs no strings attached to the extent that im having a soft spot for him right now. He worries about me sends me stuffs even before I ask. Am so worried that he is even more emphatic than my boyfriend! It hurts that d wrong one loves me right becos I will never tamper with a man's family. I wish my bf will be much more than what he is, I hate it that someone can still affect me besides him. God help me

who say money cant buy love

Thank you..i love my boyfriend so much but I can't help this feeling of gratitude I have toward this man, I feel so bad

Girls ehn!!!
This one is already cheating emotionally.

It's not about the money, it's just surprising that there are still a few good men out there.

stupidity:
Girls ehn!!!

This one is already cheating emotionally.

. Hmmm thatz my fear o

You avin a soft spot coz he iz helping u financially

pearlyme:
It's not about the money, it's just surprising that there are still a few good men out there.

so u boyfriend has suddenly become bad

pearlyme:
I am a young lady in my late 20s. I am in my second relationship ever and in love but just about a. Year ago, I met an older man who has been taking care of my financial needs no strings attached to the extent that im having a soft spot for him right now. He worries about me sends me stuffs even before I ask. Am so worried that he is even more emphatic than my boyfriend! It hurts that d wrong one loves me right becos I will never tamper with a man's family. I wish my bf will be much more than what he is, I hate it that someone can still affect me besides him. God help me

Life is complicated. How much older is the guy who is loving you right per se?

If your current boyfriend aint treating you right, then go for the one who makes you happy and treats you well.

It's a no brainer. Haba! Life is too short.

the price is right.

rawpadgin:
who say money cant buy love

. I don't love him, I will just be an ingrate if I don't acknowledge that he has been nice and is a good person, I was referred to him for a job which I later turned down but he said he just took pity on me since he saw me. It's all just like a dream

All Galz like money

ur boyfrn is not serious! dt man is a fool! u re a good gurl! now I don't pity 4 foolish men so don't feel bad! wat finance sef? how much fit tk care of u? all d money d man has spent on u is not up 2 500k n dt means nothing 4 big men! so keep calm n enjoy! God has a way of blessing every1

I dey wait make I hamma first..


Den I"l come for estharfabian..

Xiadnat:


Life is complicated. How much older is the guy who is loving you right per se?

If your current boyfriend aint treating you right, then go for the one who makes you happy and treats you well.

It's a no brainer. Haba! Life is too short.

. He has family and I will never hurt another woman by sharing her patner's love and taking away d love meant for his children.

pearlyme:
. I don't love him, I will just be an ingrate if I don't acknowledge that he has been nice and is a good person, I was referred to him for a job which I later turned down but he said he just took pity on me since he saw me. It's all just like a dream

but u said u "having a soft spot for him"

pearlyme:
. He has family and I will never hurt another woman by sharing her patner's love and taking away d love meant for his children.

I see. So, he has a wife then or? Or is it you don't want to become a step mother prematurely?

Up to you though, but it seems you are going to get hurt either way.

rawpadgin:
so u boyfriend has suddenly become bad

my boyfriend is not bad, he is very special person also, It's just conflicting that there is also someone doing good

So the love btw ur u and ur bf is going wrong becos he isn't rich like ur sugar daddy??

Xiadnat:


I see. So, he has a wife then or? Or is it you don't want to become a step mother prematurely?

Up to you though, but it seems you are going to get hurt either way.

. I really hope not..it's just all this crazy twist of fate.

You seem very confused..figure out what you want and go for it.

Harbosede02:
So the love btw ur u and ur bf is going wrong becos he isn't rich like ur sugar daddy??

I don't have a sugar daddy and the love with my boyfriend it's going wrong..i wish u could really understand what am saying

pearlyme:
my boyfriend is not bad, he is very special person also, It's just conflicting that there is also someone doing good

so all Linda Ikeji's preaching has flown over your ears because you saw some small chicken change.

it's unfortunate some men will now use this to insult women that they are all gold diggers.

tpiah11:



so all Linda Ikeji's preaching has flown over your ears because you saw some small chicken change.

it's unfortunate some men will now use this to insult women that they are all gold diggers.

i really don't need any aid, am currently about to bag my PhD. It's d gesture that matters actually like there are still people that are actually willing to help without any suggestive statements or actions

ideyhere:
You seem very confused..figure out what you want and go for it.

thank you so much

pearlyme:
i really don't need any aid, am currently about to bag my PhD. It's d gesture that matters actually like there are still people that are actually willing to help without any suggestive statements or actions

you are bagging a phd yet you are still wowed by some little attention you received from somebody.

ok.

anyway, nothing new.


http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2757559/Woman-dropped-Cambridge-PhD-enter-polygamous-marriage-Muslim-businessman-two-wives.html

pearlyme:
I am a young lady in my late 20s. I am in my second relationship ever and in love but just about a. Year ago, I met an older man who has been taking care of my financial needs no strings attached to the extent that im having a soft spot for him right now. He worries about me sends me stuffs even before I ask. Am so worried that he is even more emphatic than my boyfriend! It hurts that d wrong one loves me right becos I will never tamper with a man's family. I wish my bf will be much more than what he is, I hate it that someone can still affect me besides him. God help me

Self deceit of the highest grade. What is it that ur bf isn't doin that u'd want him to do more of? Tell him abeg.
But the truth is all wat u getting from this man, ur bf tho u 'love' him cannot afford it now.
This is one of the many materialistic girls around, yes. Leave ur bf and go with this man abeg; quit behaving as if u dont know what u doing.

rawpadgin:
but u said u "having a soft spot for him"

soft spot don't mean love

ma'am, this is why women should try to get husband before over educating themselves.


you are now tripping over the thought of dating a married man as if you are afraid single men wont date you.

and for all one knows, the man might just be a free giver to all and sundry, while you are there feeling funky.