raayah:
I support the man, he should take a DNA test and find out the true paternity of the child. He should not pay child support for a child that is not his.

I wonder why this man didn't find a good girl Abroad to marry or at least take time to find a good girl in Nigeria. Marriage is not something you rush into!

chimkaire:
How a woman could pull off such stupidity beats my imagination! How could she give a man, a child that isn't his, for goodness' sake?! Your heart never skips on seeing your hubby and the child together
And our Aunty here is just a damn fool/looser here. Why did she not abort the preggy back here before getting there? Idiat. Na the man I go blame sha

agarawu23:
ladies abroad worst pass the devils wey dey Nigeria and that's why they prefer to go home and marry

EgunMogaji:


Bingo.

At least when done properly, astute Men would visit home many many times during the courtship, meet families, etc you know have a real relationship.

Some of the Women on this thread makes it sound as if we just land at Muritala and pick up the first Woman we see and jump back on the plane.

They all need to stop blaming the victim and point finger where it's proper, the slvt Sister.

agarawu23:
my dad told me never to bring a lady you want to marry abroad but I never knew the consequence until I started seeing and reading experiences.

Its either you remain single until you are ready to stay back home fully because these girls arent loyal at all.

Even if you are the type that comes home regularly, it still doesn't solve the case and we blv all Ladies aren't the same(we have the good ones) but [size=30pt]trust nobody[/size]

QueenHeart:
yu call pregnant for another man not a reasonable reason. Hmmmmmm*am in shock

Gelengelen:
anytime i hear of women wahala i always run with my leg touching my head.

daretodiffer:
The law needs to classify selfish and deceitful acts like this including giving a man another's man child as fraud, with nothing less than 20 years without parole

I blame him sha, when our men rush home to pick ‘wives' because they believe we are not traditional enough. This is what most of them get

SirJeffry:
Mtcheew, another story from all these Facebook marriages.

How can you meet a lady online, propose online and only travel to do the marriage rights after which you zoom off again?

No pre intimacy, no post intimacy nothing after you begin complain about the spouse.

Some guys have MUMU as their last name I swear.

daretodiffer:
The law needs to classify selfish and deceitful acts like this including giving a man another's man child as fraud, with nothing less than 20 years without parole

I blame him sha, when our men rush home to pick ‘wives' because they believe we are not traditional enough. This is what most of them get

lastpage:


I predict that in no distant future, Marriage would become extinct.... people will just have children by test-tube, surrogacy or adoption.

Lastpage!

Badboiz:
Trust is important but when you trust and you are being treated as a fool, does it make sense?. My only prayer is that we all find that faithful and trustworthy partner but that doesn't change the fact that women can keep dangerous secrets, I fear women ooo but will still married to one... So help me God

Redman44:
Yes, bringing Nigerian women to the USA and UK after marrying them is very risky. No one can deny this fact. I know two guys in the UK that got slapped by the ladies they married in Nigeria and brought to the UK. The ladies in question quickly transformed into werewolves as soon as they landed in the UK and started claiming their rights. One of them landed a hot slap on the cheeks of a distant uncle of mine and the Marriage is something that cannot be discussed openly on Nairaland. The other lady started receiving calls from Men on EE Mobile Phone less than a week after she arrived in London.

However, many Nigerian ladies that are already abroad are not better in character than the ladies in Nigeria. In fact, they could be worse off. This is because they are exposed to many things here. You can't just trust the Naija Ladies and Women here easily. They break hearts too and will open their thighs for the highest bidder. That is why many of them here are single and searching into their late 30's and 40's. It is very hard to satisfy Nigerian women materially in the UK. Very, Very hard. I don't blame guys going home to look for ladies to marry. The women here are not better than women in Nigeria. Lets state facts as they are. Cheers.

gamaliel121:
Na to send her back sharply....no dulling....


That's unfair mehnnnnn

bigtt76:
This has brought in a new dimension into the 'I'm going home to get a wife' syndrome Nigerian men exhibit abroad - Guys better check well before you import o! Receive 'goods and service' in good condition, no refund and no return after