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Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:08pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Caracta:hmm |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:08pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Well,if you really want her to be yours,the 'four flaws' like you listed,can be worked on. Good luck on that mission. Iamthewatcher: |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:14pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Ok you're confused.... Now, will u calm tha faxk down and set ur priorities straight on a scale af preference You're an educated man according to ur post for gawd's holy sake!, decision making shouldn't be too hard for you I feel. |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by princeonx: 11:14pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Olboy since you've already outline the good and the bad why not enter factory and manufacture one yourself and simply add and remove the things wey you want and no want. 1 Like |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by bmos(m): 11:14pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
madgoat: The man is just looking for gist. A man should know what is good for him. |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by princeonx: 11:15pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
pinceprinz:see vex!! |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:16pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
in the begining you say she is your fiancee then at the end you say you stay as friends? |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:17pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
bmos: Its like ure right, na gist hin wan gist... So, what's d latest news on Mourinho abeg ? |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by dacovajnr: 11:17pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Why groom her when you aint sure about her..baami just go ahead and marry her so far you confessed that she's a wife material and even list the quality possessed..don't be discourage..keep doin your thang till you polish her up completely..you are very lucky...literate galz do show off..baami..if u no like her kindly introduce her to me... 1 Like |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by LastSurvivor: 11:18pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
My Dad once told me, marry a woman that respect u than a woman that loves u. That is priceless gift she got there. 4 Likes |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by jomoh: 11:18pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Iamthewatcher: From the positives you wrote, and the negative that she sometimes feels inferior to you. Guy if you have the money send her to school and marry her immediately she starts school. If this girl should get an education without you in her life, you will bite you finger in regret that you left her. Just imagine combining education with the positive qualities you mentioned. Last time I checked all the negatives you mentioned are trainable. Lastly you might want to consider choosing the friends she rolls with. Make sure they're not local and they're not spoilt. My token. 1 Like |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by mbills: 11:19pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Iamthewatcher: Bro. You have started it, just try to finish it and my happiness is that she is coping when teaching her.go ahead and marry her and I believe with time she will learn .after marriage, you can be attending this open university and I know that if she is serious, she will make it to the top |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:20pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Op, You come off as overcritical and I sense you're verbally abusive and bossy. The poor girl deserves better. |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by 8unit(f): 11:20pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Iamthewatcher: you're lucky. Those kinda village girls are always good in raising you children. They're very very very good in bed too and you're good to go. Marry her, those type of girls don't know anything about divorce, once you marry her, even death can never separate u Guys. 1 Like |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by macminista(m): 11:20pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Simply put, you DONT LOVE this lady..if she is your "fiancee"like you said, you wouldn't be here saying all what not...my broda you think getting married to a lady with academic certificates or degrees that is at par with yours is criteria for successful marriage ? Hel No!! 2 Likes |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by NICOGRAVITY: 11:20pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Sir, I have been married for over 9 years, I have almost the same experience like you. I'm glad I married my wife, I can't do without her today. Sir, you are a wise man, and I pray you get wiser by the day. She has shown signs of learning, re-learning, and un-learning and being teachable by humbly accepting you to teach her, took your advice and retake her WAEC , and made all credits without Maths. She has improved in her spoken English. You have laboured and invested heavily on her. One question is, is she worth it? Yes. 85% OF MEN WOULD WANT ALL THIS GREAT QUALITIES YOU LISTED IN THEIR WIFE. Every beauty will fade, just create memories. Remember, you can't always have it all. You have struck a gold mine. This is the kind of wife I have been praying for my younger brother. Please, appreciate what you have. Your babe loves, honours, respects, and values you tremendously. Her defects can be worked on. Go ahead and marry her, you will never regret it. She has the quality to keep and make a godly home. 2 Likes |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:20pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Caracta: Will you have a peace of mind if you married a professor? You should if you can cope with her bad sides. 2 Likes |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Ijaya123: 11:20pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
From experience here on nairaland, most of the people that will advice you haven't even gone through one tenth of your submission here. All those ladies professing solutions wouldn't even attempt any of what they are advising you here. Please seek advice with some elderly people who are still successfully married. Best of luck. 2 Likes |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:20pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
"" LoL! Op, Please Marry Her before Cutehector finds A Way to steal her from You... |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:21pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
princeonx:I'm not a too happie boy lol. |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by passionate88: 11:21pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Big tummy?, that's gross Nigerian girls with big tummy is like 5 nd 6 |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Cutehector(m): 11:23pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Estharfabian:just like d way I stole ur heart |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Acidosis(m): 11:24pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Let her go. That lady deserves no insult from you. Learn from President Goodluck Jonathan. Even when people insult your spouse, you're to stand by her not pull her down. She's your spouse, not your puppet. Do not make her feel inferior. Again, learn from Patience Jonathan (Mrs). I'm very sure you'd give up everything to work for a rich illiterate lady. You wouldn't mind to work for a boss lady who cannot write and read fluently. Why? Because of MONEY. There is no one on earth without flaws. 2 Likes |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by cbrass(m): 11:24pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Iamthewatcher: Bro leave flyca alone she tried her best and i reason with her , you are determined to hang your dog so any rope will do. All i just see here is you want us to give you the green light to stop the relationship 3 Likes |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by princeonx: 11:25pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
pinceprinz:You no.need to tell me bro |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by kechywillz(m): 11:25pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Op,u seem to be someone who gets provoked by a slightest pinch from wat i ascertained from ur post. Why now tryna change ur mind when ur lady has agreed to go to school,u'v already polished her a little bit,why do u wana let those times and efforts spent on her go just dat way,she's got wat a man needs in a woman,dont let go,continue with the reformation. 1 Like |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by canalily(m): 11:27pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
See plenty viewers still awake! me am typing in the dream cos am sleeping with one eyes open! Bros marry ur sweet wife jare! |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by jaydee87(m): 11:28pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Iamthewatcher:bro go ahead and marry her if u can live with her... formal education has nothing to do with marriage for me.. what matters for me is compatibility and understanding.. but I will be happy if u fit tell us ur bad side too... lol so we go fit check and balance |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:28pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
RobinHez:you mean you are totally okay with him marrying an illiterate as a graduate? |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:28pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
You just a confused man, did u love and promise to marry her wen she re took her waec? Abi wen u saw she finally learnt to drink water in the morning m u wer attracted to this lady knowing all of her flaws , so why do they bother you now? Guy u never ready to marry o |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:29pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
princeonx: My Dad will tell me, just try to write one true sentence, just one true sentence and all your troubles will have to vanish forever like yesterday . So, aint doing it for U |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by superior1: 11:29pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
@Iamthewatcher, read at @toksbisola's post. If she were my Sister, she wont be marrying you 2 Likes |
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