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Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:30pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Iamthewatcher:****************************************************** I see just Two points here... All the points You stated Are the infamous "Wife material" ish...lemme be Honest! ..Trust me...i Really don't think U should marry her...You clearly stated she has A pOt-bELLY!! *Who says that?* u Obviously do not find her that Attractive... i just see no CHEMISTRY between u guys...You're from 2 different worlds...I'm 301% sure You'd end up CHEATING...."" Trust me...when she gets a child or two...that BIG tummy U mentioned Would turn into a Trampoline... PS...Ahm nuh An Enemy of progress trust Me....I just love calling a spade a spade... saying the nude truth! 4 Likes |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:30pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
This doesn't work for every union,my dear. It's till death do you part so,choose carefully. Never marry out of consideration or pity. 69MissedCalls: 1 Like |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by shollyboy2: 11:30pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Guy i am sorry to say... you're silly.... with all the English Linda ikeji sabi.. she never marry... you got yourself a wife material, yet you're judging her that she's an illetrate... who has English helped? Ask them Gen Nnaji and linda Ikeji dem go tell you.... I wish its possible you just pass me the lady.. i will marry her Asap after few months of dating/courting. 1 Like |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:33pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
I'm sure you were really proud typing this. Welcome to Nigeria where every man is indeed a 'husband material' and in their reasoning,there are just few wife materials. Interesting! Thank God there are men who are not so archaic to believe that a wife is 'a glorified house help' or that every woman who is not married is cursed or really disturbed about it. I guess the catholic nuns should kill themselves. Mtchewww shollyboy2: 3 Likes |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Rexeffiom(m): 11:34pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Some guys sha.... When you two were busy changing styles in bed, you didn't tell us |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by sunkieisland(m): 11:34pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Just seeing this As long as you keep seeing drawbacks and all the negative things, you can never be effective in your quest to bring out the best in her. Action points Appreciate all d wonderful qualities she's got. From time to time, recognise and encourage her attempts to improve the quality of her personality. Refuse to see occasional setbacks. Keep your mind on the kind of person you want her to be and don't change you mind unless you're no longer interested in marrying her. Most importantly, listen to the voice of ur spirit. You goal is a happy marriage, your spirit can guide you (if your spirit is trained) and you're good to go |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by idu1(m): 11:35pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Iamthewatcher:I pray God should not give you what you are looking for. Looool.... If u come get lady wey polish for everything wey you like and no come sabi cook, dey disrespect you and your family. Na there no say this world na two.... No vex for pigin wey i write o na me and the lady dey d same level..... 2 Likes |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:36pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Estharfabian: I understand ure trying to get a man to marry, tthat doesn't mean u must spoil anoda woman's market nah abi? U needint b wickid esthar! |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Dbrainiac1(m): 11:37pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
madgoat:Ommor see moniker 1 Like |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:37pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Iamthewatcher: You've already said it severally that she's a wife material. Wonder why you're now asking us? 0_o Anyway it's clear you're not satisfied but you're looking to overlook and manage. Honestly it's usually a two way thing. She might study and become literate enough later or even successful in a business or she might get worse and out of hand later. So, measure good and bad and the result should determine if you'd marry her or not. |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by llaykorn: 11:38pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Teempakguy: Lol. The woman is not illiterate na. He claims that she cleared all her papers expect for mathematics. Illiterate dey write W.A.E.C? 2 Likes |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:38pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Cutehector:Exactly |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:40pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
pinceprinz: I get slightly disgusted when guys think or believe every girl's dream is marriage. Smh! 1 Like |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by gram: 11:41pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Your situation is not that complex. One of the most difficult situations you can put yourself in, is to unsucessfully try to change your spouse, especially if she's a grown up adult. First, be sure you can live with her like that, then try to polish her. If she does not measure up, decide wether you can still marry her like that and close eye. My friend, if eventually you can't close your eyes to the negatives, you are in for a long ride. 1 Like |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:41pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
pinceprinz:LoL! "" Nah! I'm not thinking of marriage...even for the next 7years... LoL! Buh seriously...I'm just saying...he clearly doesn't find her attractive..He needs a wife...Not a Manageable House-help chef... it hurts buh its the truth... 2 Likes |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:43pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
evegran:do You drink coke? diet soda? Girl, you need one! "" guys think OUR world revolves around "MRS"....which gives me this Repugnant feeling... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Flexskillz(m): 11:44pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
My brother marry someone for who they are not for who you want them to be. Truth is there are some things about her that just wouldn't change that you will have to live with! Are you ready to walk down that road? And it's a pretty long road I must tell you. Think well o! |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:46pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
evegran: That this notion disgusts you is non af my biznis honey, so, leh me hear word |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by informant1: 11:47pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Ok |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by cbrass(m): 11:49pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
peppyluv02: Are you married? |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:50pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Estharfabian: That's the bitter pill you'll have to swallow tho... You'll understand these things better when you're inside marriage proper 1 Like |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:50pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Iamthewatcher:GUY! Who you won decieve We know say you don sex her finish come dey find way to throwaway her, after in life she go come dey damage guys heart. And all this reason you make are very very very childish and STVPID, Did you even know the meaning of illiterate self? What of we who are looking for this qualities she have but couldn't see? God will punish you for what you have already done to her. We know you just want to make excuses for dumping her. Fowl!! 2 Likes |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Tzkayria21: 11:52pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Bros,it's asif u are looking for the perfect woman which u will never find. If her bad attitudes are things like she is rude,nasty etc it's a different ballgame altogether. The best thing to do is to seek the face of the Lord, he would guide and lead u. Another thing is, follow ur heart. You know what u want. Nobody can choose or decide ur future for u. Good luck. |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Akhere1: 11:53pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
My new friend you complement this girl with all this below 1. She is well-mannered. 2. She can cook very well. 3. She is very hospitable. 4. She's very respectful. 5: She's pretty and fair. 6. She's a wife material. 7. She's reserved. what education do you want from her again, my friend if you love to marry her go ahead and do your married This is what we all need from woman |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:53pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Estharfabian: So, the thread you created was just a work af fiction? . U Made a foolery af me wv dat I think I'm going back there to withdraw my comment |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:54pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
pinceprinz:Gerrarahia..."" inside marriage?? is that A Fancy word for "jail"?? Nah! thanks...buh no thanks! "" |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:55pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
pinceprinz:"" LoL! I created A Thread?? what thread? |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Kennitrust(m): 11:55pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
as a mature man u should know ur taste and go for it. although everyone needs advice on marriage issue, u should know more better wat u re expecting to go through as the pains and the gains will only be urs. |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by cbrass(m): 11:56pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
evegran: Is that you in the dp? |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Kennitrust(m): 11:57pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Estharfabian:u no dey sleep? |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by cbrass(m): 11:57pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
sonofananimal: How sure are you that he had sexl with her |
Re: A fellow Nairalander needs your advice before crossing the rubicon. by Nobody: 11:58pm On Nov 02, 2015 |
Just wait, Amadioha will give you an answer. cbrass: 1 Like |
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