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Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by Nobody: 7:23am On Nov 11, 2015 |
abbey621: You think the statistics are skewed? Why don't we use youtube as an example. Type "popular on YouTube Nigeria" on the youtube search box and see how many porn videos you'd get. Now look for another country that could compete with that amount. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by Onegai(f): 7:25am On Nov 11, 2015 |
Enoquin: Chasing the slangs won't help us parents. We cannot monitor our children 99% of the time. All we hope to do is train them that they know it's wrong. Some of us waited till university days to have consensual intimacy and kept partners in low numbers and others took pride in waiting till marriage. Some men were proud of the fact that they didn't have so many sexual partners and didn't feel the need to prove their masculinity by sleeping around (that proves nothing and makes immorality in marriage more likely). We all need to support the Mirabel Centre as they are the only place I know for sexually abused people with counsellors. And the sad fact is that Nigerians will view everything through a lens of Spirituality: an ill-equipped pastor (Theology school doesn't confer counselling skills) will be called before a psychologist. And Pornography is a terrible thing: what starts as curiosity ends up as an addiction and a sudden weird desire to perform unnatural acts. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by Nobody: 7:26am On Nov 11, 2015 |
cococandy: As in ehn, Nigerians are freaking r€t@rd.£d when it comes to these issues. Youths really need sex education. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by bbdd: 7:34am On Nov 11, 2015 |
yanabasee: Rubbish talk. America America America. Yet youll go meet your pastor for special embassy prayers. Get the fcukk outta here dumbass 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by Orikinla(m): 7:35am On Nov 11, 2015 |
Image123: [size=18pt]More Nigerians are looking for free sex than jobs on the internet. No wonder I feel superior to them.[/size] 1 Like
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Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by Onegai(f): 7:37am On Nov 11, 2015 |
pansophist: No-one owes you sex. No woman was put on this earth to please you as part of her job description. If any man cannot get laid, it is his fault. Does he complain and blame companies when he cannot get a job? (oh wait, I just realised in Nigeria, everyone never takes responsibility for their actions but blame even the devil ) I've met men who were conservative, enjoy healthy sexual relationships with women that they didn't pay for it. So no excuses. It is this thinking "I deserve to get laid" that leads to rape (she says no, but you feel she owes you because you gave her attention or spent some money or she's a child and she dresses in tights and you feel she must want "it" since she wore it and ran past you on errands for her mother). 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by bbdd: 7:39am On Nov 11, 2015 |
abbey621: You just yarned eloquent dust. This sociological research has been carried out and validated. Your opinion is just what it is...... Shyte. Oh BTW, before you go on your perverted society tirade, you should probably go check the so called society of morals in the world religious countries and see how they ccompare with Western civilization like Norway and Sweden 1 Like |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by Nobody: 7:39am On Nov 11, 2015 |
On face value this is an alarming situation and it calls for concern. But on a serious note with statistics you can virtually see anything you want just beat the data long enough untill it yields. @op your data ftom google did not in anyway tell us anything about repeat visits. You failed to take into account that a particular vistor could search for more than 10 videos in a day. Which from the way your data was presented may look like more than 10 visitors. Rather than counting content searches while not use a unique identifying? Secondly did you also consider that visitors from the USA may actually have downloaded their own porn and rather than visiting the sites often like most Nigerians do, would just watch it over and over offline, hence reducing the number of times they visit porn sites. Just saying there could be more to that data . 1 Like |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by femiranking28(m): 7:42am On Nov 11, 2015 |
Even gay Indecency |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by Nobody: 7:47am On Nov 11, 2015 |
Lots of facts, quotes and data. Anyone got solutions?? |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by cococandy(f): 7:49am On Nov 11, 2015 |
CAMNEWTON4PRES:So you agree it's hypocritical to be cool with lesbian sex and act horrified towards gay sex? 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by cococandy(f): 7:52am On Nov 11, 2015 |
plaetton:Tell me about it |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by hollandis(f): 7:54am On Nov 11, 2015 |
craziebone: Delusional Bastards that's what Nigerians are |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by Nobody: 7:58am On Nov 11, 2015 |
craziebone: Thats right. When it doesn't favor you it's propaganda. When it does it's fact. Fact is: gay porn is not common in Nigeria! As someone who has seen porn before (like most people), i have never taken interest in gay porn; not even lesbian porn have i ever taken interest in! Another smart thing to do: make a generalisation on a country of 170 million based on your personal experience. There is a reason why we can believe the stat is false and a mere propaganda for the LGBT movement, who are using powerful governments and companies to push forward their agenda into the last frontiers. First of all, most people who see porn are straight men and the male body does not; i repeat, does not look sexy to the straight man! Proof? Also, do you have the stats of the ratio of gay/bisexual men to straight men in Nigeria? Cause we'll need that to prove this your ogbonge theory. So e does not even think of sercin for it! If te stat had said that lesbian porn is what's high up there, i would have believed it a little as two women going down on each other does not provoke the same negative reaction men on men sex provokes in most people. If people tried to google male porn, then its only out of curiousity. Why do people always use this stupid curiosity thing as an excuse? Next thing would be, "I'm not a pedophile. I just wanted to know what it was like to molest a child. I'm not a deranged sadist. I just wanted to know what it was like to torture someone innocent and hear their screams." Fact is if you are so curious, you probably have some underlying urges to engage in such acts. I thought Naija guys were disgusted by the sights of gay guys kissing. Suddenly they now want to see them screwing? Makes perfect sense. Most people i know who see porn, don't bother to check male on male porn. So te people wo did this study did a poor job! Lol. Like if they were checking on gay porn they'll tell you. They'll be like, "bros, I know I'm in an extremely homophobic country and I might get ostracised or even killed for this, but I watch gay porn! There, said it." Makes sense. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by CAMNEWTON4PRES: 8:27am On Nov 11, 2015 |
cococandy: I agree that watching lesbians porn has nothing to do with being pro gay 1 Like |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by CAMNEWTON4PRES: 8:29am On Nov 11, 2015 |
cococandy: Men watching lesbians porn are picturing themselves having s3x with the women which in my book is heterosexuality . 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by Nobody: 8:31am On Nov 11, 2015 |
anonimi:Lol! I did n't do the studies myself but it have been the campaign on ground here by some christian organisation and government agancies, also i 've been witnessing these every day inside the train, on the street, cyber cafes. At my place of work 3 out of every korean watching movies is watching porn. You know what? You can get free wi~fi almost everywhere. And i repeat immidiatly it's 10pm, almost all korean Tv is showing adult movies. |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by Enoquin(f): 8:33am On Nov 11, 2015 |
No, my reference to an upgrade wasn't in respect of slangs. I meant in education. The slang addition, was because I didn't even know such existed. How many slangs can one put in his/her memory as a busy parent or guardian? Yes, our parents were sexually reserved, perhaps it accounts to why most are uncomfortable around se.xual subjects and topics with their children. Even children, well trained have been known to go wrong. Well-trained, is a subjective term. Onegai: |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by onisol(m): 8:40am On Nov 11, 2015 |
one can still stop it but with great self control and prayers |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by mbulela: 8:44am On Nov 11, 2015 |
Onegai: Very interesting. Yet abroad even the religious folks have Christian psychologists. It is a study on its own in the theology schools. Yet here pastors dabble into things they are ill equipped for and when you talk they will say I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME. a misapplication of scriptures. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by mbulela: 8:47am On Nov 11, 2015 |
Enoquin:What else can you do beyond good training? The sheer ease of access is what bewilders me. Growing up pornographic materials were scarce even sex sef was not easy to access. Even bad kids had to make a lot of effort to indulge. Now.................................... |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by 4C2215131: 9:01am On Nov 11, 2015 |
andromida: I beg to differ. I don't believe porn has anything to do with rape. A rapist is a sick demented and evil individual. It is a phenomenon that exist independent of pornography. Suggesting the latter informs the former is taking it a bit far. |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by IndianaJay: 9:03am On Nov 11, 2015 |
andromida: Pornography does not lead to rape. To have a liking for rape pornography you must have a desire for violent sex and possess tendencies to be a rapist. Many people, even married couples watch porn. You can't really attribute a person's desire for violent sex and assault to their watching of porn.....porn intensifies the desire for sex yes but it's up to human nature to understand right from wrong. Nigeria does not have a porn problem, we are mainly just a bunch of hypocrites. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by roccio(m): 9:06am On Nov 11, 2015 |
What will make a woman cheat with no remorse? If I ask you what reason do you think a lady will have to cheat with no remorse, Will you have any answer? Seriously, The answer eluded me too. Becausae most women are such soft hearted beings who quickly accepts their fault and ask for forgiveness. So what could that be that will push a woman to cheat on her partner and not feel any remorse doing it. Ofcourse there are many reasons why a lady would cheat on her partner. Could be for money, Could for the man's infidelity, And many other reasons I cant possible list here But the above listed reason are far from it. Recently I read articles on the pulse talking about different reasons. The one that struck a cord in me was a woman saying her husband push her to cheat, because for over 7 years they have been married, he has never satisfied her in bed, Whenever she bring the issue up, Her husband starts a fight with her, probably because he doesnt know a way out like the one below => http://www.askmegaman.com/ Ofcourse, she felt unhappy for a long time until she found a guy who connected with her, And before she knew it, the guy was hitting every angle of her "V" walls that has been neglected for years. It felt so good. And of course since then, her heart wasn't in the marriage anymore. Even when the Husband found out, she felt no remorse because she said he caused it. UMH! Na serious matter be this ooo Well, I have been there before and I know all the fault is not totally hers. I love you like a brother and I advice you not to wait till your situation gets worse. So much that your Lady will cheat on you and feel no remorse. Take her to the next level in bed with my 2-in-1 solution. http://www.askmegaman.com/ |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by bukatyne(f): 9:08am On Nov 11, 2015 |
ronald4lif: So so on point. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by zionzoe(m): 9:11am On Nov 11, 2015 |
I must commend dat ur Write up is Practicable and Tight. Systems must be put in Place and Parental Control should be Strong. Thank you for that write up. Edoblakky: |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by anonimi: 9:37am On Nov 11, 2015 |
chisco82: Thanks for your clarification. How are you coping with racial discrimination against blacks in South Korea? 1 Like |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by Nobody: 9:45am On Nov 11, 2015 |
Am not suprised especially the gay stuff up there. Later they'll say only 10% of the world is gay. Smh 4 Nigerians, homos yapa 4 dis country like catholic shurch. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by 2baga(m): 9:45am On Nov 11, 2015 |
bastien: wow parents are learners ooo |
Re: Nigerians, We’ve Got A Sexuality Problem by dragon2(m): 9:53am On Nov 11, 2015 |
Actually,we have to notice a subtile difference.Yes,we are highly rank in Google searches for porn but,that's it.It's just searches. The key difference is that in the West and Asia these porn sites are long bookmarked by their people who have access to large bandwidth to home connections and don't have to go to cybercafes. Their PC in some cases boot to porn sites using active desktops. So in essence, it a stat that is flawed or should I say,lacks definitive substance. People hooked to porn would definitely bookmark it and not search using google.It therefore may suggest we are not as hooked to it like the rest of the world. |
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