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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by wonlasewonimi: 9:42am On Nov 14, 2015
swagloverss:


Noted!
Thanks for taking your time to tell me the full story from head to toe. I can now see where all these came from.



Very good question. I have been communicating with the accused in the past 2 hours. While it is true that BABE3 sent some money to coogar it was coogar's money that she was sending to him bit by bit from the money she borrowed from him.

Coogar has refused to come here and wash dirty linen in public but he told me this much that he lent BABE3 close to $8,000 to buy business flight tickets from ATL to LDN on 3 different occasions. He did not give it out at once but we should ask BABE3 whether it is true she flew airlines with Coogar's money and whether she promised to pay him back in instalments.

There's more to this than it meets the eye. It's a case of if he spends money, it's a gift for her. If she spends money it's a loan that he must pay back. Coogar is adamant there is no scam involved. He only took back what she loaned from him concerning her 3 different visits to the UK. If this is a lie, BABE3 should tell us how she paid for her trips to the UK.

Why would coogar send you this message? The coogar we know defends himself

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Allosaurus: 9:43am On Nov 14, 2015
He must be a YOLOBA man! angry

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 9:43am On Nov 14, 2015
Dyt:


You should know not every of them has the guts babe3 has/had
She couldn't take it no more
She was done with the threats
Its a diff thing to be love scammed
Another take away your most precious and then still take advantage of you
angry angry

His likes needs to be exposed
Some of the ladies could either be married or a known member so the laying off on NL

#rageofawoman#
Coogar is going down
I have heard stories too
As I like amebo
grin

Blah, blah, blah. Anybody can accuse anyone of anything. That's why there's a legal system, to sift the truth from lies.She will be duly adjudged to be strong when it is proven her case has any merit and Coogar proven dubious. Till that time, and considering her footdragging, she's just someone trying to get back at an old lover.

What likes? You need to provide proof that this guy has defrauded anybody.

He may go down or not. But he should only go down if he's clearly involved in any wrongdoing, not conjecture and hearsay.

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by chizobamgbume(m): 9:46am On Nov 14, 2015
swagloverss:


Noted!
Thanks for taking your time to tell me the full story from head to toe. I can now see where all these came from.



Very good question. I have been communicating with the accused in the past 2 hours. While it is true that BABE3 sent some money to coogar it was coogar's money that she was sending to him bit by bit from the money she borrowed from him.

Coogar has refused to come here and wash dirty linen in public but he told me this much that he lent BABE3 close to $8,000 to buy business flight tickets from ATL to LDN on 3 different occasions. He did not give it out at once but we should ask BABE3 whether it is true she flew airlines with Coogar's money and whether she promised to pay him back in instalments.

There's more to this than it meets the eye. It's a case of if he spends money, it's a gift for her. If she spends money it's a loan that he must pay back. Coogar is adamant there is no scam involved. He only took back what she loaned from him concerning her 3 different visits to the UK. If this is a lie, BABE3 should tell us how she paid for her trips to the UK.
Hmmm coogars spokesperson grin grin grin shocked shocked
So the almighty coogar is now shy grin undecided undecided undecided lipsrsealed

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by swagloverss(f): 9:46am On Nov 14, 2015
Mindfulness:

I asked this question before I discovered that the allegation being made is that he blackmailed her into sending money to him.

If you decide to give your boy-/girlfriend money voluntarily, don't call it a spam when the relationship goes sour BUT if your (ex-)partner blackmails you into giving him / her money then it is a different case and it is punishable by law.

The allegation being made is that Coogar owes her money and he is using threats to stop her from claiming her money.
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by pickabeau1: 9:46am On Nov 14, 2015
jaybee3:

There is more to it and she appears not to be the only victim.... That's a big concern!




These are adults in a consensual relationship

Things didn't work out


That's sad but that is life

Its playing out like a messy divorce

Dad mom kids bystanders


The best way is for the two involved to get a mediator offline to settle not this half disclosures

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by PietroRico(m): 9:47am On Nov 14, 2015
Timbuktou:


Blah, blah, blah. Anybidy can accuse anyone of anything. That's why there's a legal system, to sift the truth from lies.She will be duly adjudged to be strong when it is proven her case has any merit and Coogar proven dubious. Till that time, and considering her footdragging, she's just someone trying to get back at an old lover.

What likes? Prove that this guy has defrauded anybody?

He may go down or not. BUt he should only go down if he's involved in any wrongdoing not conjecture and hearsay.
this guy is speaking my mind..
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by swagloverss(f): 9:47am On Nov 14, 2015
wonlasewonimi:


Why would coogar send you this message? The coogar we know defends himself

He does not wash dirty linen in public. Ask your client whether she took awoof business class flights to LDN. If she did, who paid for the luxury?
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 9:47am On Nov 14, 2015
swagloverss:


The allegation being made is that Coogar owes her money and he is using threats to stop her from claiming her money.

Thanks!
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Dyt(f): 9:48am On Nov 14, 2015
pickabeau1:





These are adults in a consensual relationship

Things didn't work out


That's sad but that is life

Its playing out like a messy divorce

Dad mom kids bystanders


The best way is for the two involved to get a mediator offline to settle not this half disclosures




Hello
I know you
grin
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 9:48am On Nov 14, 2015
EfemenaXY, come see juicy story. grin

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by edwife(f): 9:48am On Nov 14, 2015
pickabeau1:
and she appears not to be the only victim.... That's a big concern!
These are adults in a consensual relationship

Things didn't work out


That's sad but that is life

Its playing out like a messy divorce

Dad mom kids bystanders

The best way is for the two involved to get a mediator offline to settle

My sentiments exactly.

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by chizobamgbume(m): 9:49am On Nov 14, 2015
olu4life:

Really? Story e haff change again, na y e good to hear from both sides. Babe3 o ya come out angry
As in ehhhh[i][/i] grin
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by wonlasewonimi: 9:49am On Nov 14, 2015
swagloverss:


He does not wash dirty linen in public. Ask your client whether she took awoof business class flights to LDN. If she did, who paid for the luxury?
Coogar is a dirty linen. Bro coogar abeg this one don pass alternative moniker.

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Dyt(f): 9:49am On Nov 14, 2015
swagloverss:


He does not wash dirty linen in public. Ask your client whether she took awoof business class flights to LDN. If she did, who paid for the luxury?

Hehehe
If I am going visit my lover
Am.I supposed pay for my flight tickets?
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Migbori
grin

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by olu4life(m): 9:49am On Nov 14, 2015
And she's no longer to be found. Come and defend urself too. Sebi u dey yab am say he's keeping mute now u too went silent. angry

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by 5minsmadness: 9:50am On Nov 14, 2015
Dyt:


You should know not every of them has the guts babe3 has/had
She couldn't take it no more
She was done with the threats
Its a diff thing to be love scammed
Another take away your most precious and then still take advantage of you
angry angry

His likes needs to be exposed
Some of the ladies could either be married or a known member so the laying off on NL

#rageofawoman#
Coogar is going down
I have heard stories too
As I like amebo
grin
**Rolls eyes

No go get diabetes o!
This wan your body oversweet u so grin
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by ifyalways(f): 9:50am On Nov 14, 2015
Dyt:
I have known coogar as far back as I joined
And I could say I knew when he came along with Babe3
It all started from the romance section
I was close to him too but maybe we were same in love scam so we didn't have nothing grin

I never agreed with babe3 as we were always on each others throat cheesy cheesy

I am not here supporting her cos she's saying
I am here behind her, backing her every claim cos I knaw they had a really sweet relationship
Coogar wasn't fair on her
He dished out her Nude pictures
He said to people what he did and took from her
That's so low

I give it to her for the courage
She's a great woman


BTW babe3
Have you grown meat on your ear?
cheesy cheesy cheesy
This is one of the things I hate about NLD e-gangs.
So you and some other people on NLD have seen Babe's nudes, heard stories about her from Coogar yet no one deemed it fit to inform her before now rather it was a close knited in house gossip topic?
I kuku dey always dey my lane, no familiarity to avoid long stories.

Mschewwww

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Dyt(f): 9:51am On Nov 14, 2015
wonlasewonimi:
Coogar is a dirty linen. Bro coogar abeg this one don pass alternative moniker.

Now this got me laughing hard

Omo
I don't pray to be in this kinda mess ooo
May my past never hunt me
cry cry cry

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by pickabeau1: 9:51am On Nov 14, 2015
Dyt:


Hello
I know you
grin

How are you doing ma'am

edwife:

My sentiments exactly.


I wonder...
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by EfemenaXY: 9:52am On Nov 14, 2015
Mindfulness:
EfemenaXY, come see juicy story. grin

Lol! Morning babes. kiss

Oya lemme read it...

*********************

Front page?? I don't do front page threads... lipsrsealed

Page 10?? Too far gone for me to contribute anything worthwhile embarassed

(Thread unfollowed).

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 9:52am On Nov 14, 2015
hmmm... sounds like he is not interested in the marriage.
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by swagloverss(f): 9:52am On Nov 14, 2015
Dyt:


Hehehe
If I am going visit my lover
Am.I supposed pay for my flight tickets?
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Migbori
grin

She promised to pay back in instalments before the tickets were issued.
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Dyt(f): 9:52am On Nov 14, 2015
ifyalways:

This is one of the things I hate about NLD e-gangs.
So you and some other people on NLD have seen Babe's nudes, heard stories about her from Coogar yet no one deemed it fit to inform her before now rather it was a close knited in house gossip topic?

Mschewwww

Who cares or carries NL on head?
Def not me
I don't have e-gangs
I chase paper and not some gossips
If not for this
I wouldn't even rem anything
Madam
Pls don't start with me oo
Its a beautiful sat morning
#yawns
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by olu4life(m): 9:53am On Nov 14, 2015
ifyalways:

This is one of the things I hate about NLD e-gangs.
So you and some other people on NLD have seen Babe's nudes, heard stories about her from Coogar yet no one deemed it fit to inform her before now rather it was a close knited in house gossip topic?

Mschewwww
I was about saying same. They are all stupid. Now trying do amebo on the matter cos e no give dem face. Better post evidence or keep shut angry

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nobody: 9:53am On Nov 14, 2015
Dyt:
I have known coogar as far back as I joined
And I could say I knew when he came along with Babe3
It all started from the romance section
I was close to him too but maybe we were same in love scam so we didn't have nothing grin

I never agreed with babe3 as we were always on each others throat cheesy cheesy

I am not here supporting her cos she's saying
I am here behind her, backing her every claim cos I knaw they had a really sweet relationship
Coogar wasn't fair on her
He dished out her Nude pictures
He said to people what he did and took from her
That's so low

I give it to her for the courage
She's a great woman


BTW babe3
Have you grown meat on your ear?
cheesy cheesy cheesy


shocked shocked grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by edwife(f): 9:54am On Nov 14, 2015
ifyalways:

This is one of the things I hate about NLD e-gangs.
So you and some other people on NLD have seen Babe's nudes, heard stories about her from Coogar yet no one deemed it fit to inform her before now rather it was a close knited in house gossip topic?
I kuku dey always dey my lane, no familiarity to avoid long stories.

Mschewwww

Thank you,it took an anonymous moniker to open up and now everyone seems to know "stuff" behind close door.

Some people are even using this to settle some unresolved scores with him.

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by 5minsmadness: 9:54am On Nov 14, 2015
pickabeau1:
Babe3
U are a smart lady and u know online disclosure of offline matter never ends well


Its a relationship that ended badly.....maybe there is some bitterness..that is normal but this approach is not d best


Let it end that way


Exactly.
There are two different accusations going on here. One of passion and one of fraud. Both shouldn't be mixed.

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by swagloverss(f): 9:55am On Nov 14, 2015
ifyalways:

This is one of the things I hate about NLD e-gangs.
So you and some other people on NLD have seen Babe's nudes, heard stories about her from Coogar yet no one deemed it fit to inform her before now rather it was a close knited in house gossip topic?
I kuku dey always dey my lane, no familiarity to avoid long stories.

Mschewwww

There were no nudes.
Nobody saw any nudes. He has totally denied the nudes angle. It's one of the ploys of his detractors to make him look bad.

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Dyt(f): 9:55am On Nov 14, 2015
swagloverss:


She promised to pay back in instalments before the tickets were issued.

Hmmmmmmm
Well I am not here cos of the money issues
All I am fighting for is the threats of posting nude pics
You 4k the hell outta someone
Sweets you and then you come up with threats
I bet you dunno how many ladies deactivated cos of this same nude pics
undecided undecided
Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by olu4life(m): 9:55am On Nov 14, 2015
swagloverss:


She promised to pay back in instalments before the tickets were issued.
Please don't even say anything again since she's now dumb and blind. Let her go and nurse her old wound and stop crying over spilt milk.
Or u better come and rreply whether u loan or not. Rubbish

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Re: Am I Really Married Or Sharing A Room With A Man? by Nicepoker(m): 9:55am On Nov 14, 2015
Ginaz:
Men and their wahala, God pls give me a caring husband cry
u generalise it and say. Men. Now u need a caring husband. Well if men comes with wahala according to u then ur future husband will come with wahala.

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