missKiffy:

Why will a guy cheat on his girlfriend?

. Both shuld not. We are not here to say one can do it nd d oda cn not. We are saying it is wrong to cheat on ur partner! Whether na temptation abi na roll it!

Interesting topic! Can never be that number 1 kinda guy...

Highcuerayte:
I think I have to, at this moment, as a neccesity make an educative obbligato note on the OP's view on the present contemporary subject of discussion, rephrased, Forgiving A Cheating Girlfriend.

First and foremost, I will like OP or anyone who cares to,explain how a 'girlfriend' can be cheating on you,having in mind the realistic definition of a girlfriend not in the unrealistic context of Oxford dictionary which defines it "an inamorata" but the consistent realistic definition,opined, is your female friend with no string attached; "string attached" here is "Engagement or marriage".


That in mind, if defined correctly,mutatiamutandis,accept my perspective, why won't you forgive someone who hitherto is nothing but a female friend to you and not yet be,if soon may, under any agreement of marriage with you when you can easily forgives your male friends?

I think we should learn to learn and acknowledge, appropriately,if necessary,distinctively draw the difference between a "Girlfriend" and a "Wife." A girlfriend I submit cannot cheat only a wife can.

where is ur witnes my lord

Highcuerayte:
I think I have to, at this moment, as a neccesity make an educative obbligato note on the OP's view on the present contemporary subject of discussion, rephrased, Forgiving A Cheating Girlfriend.

First and foremost, I will like OP or anyone who cares to,explain how a 'girlfriend' can be cheating on you,having in mind the realistic definition of a girlfriend not in the unrealistic context of Oxford dictionary which defines it "an inamorata" but the consistent realistic definition,opined, is your female friend with no string attached; "string attached" here is "Engagement or marriage".


That in mind, if defined correctly,mutatiamutandis,accept my perspective, why won't you forgive someone who hitherto is nothing but a female friend to you and not yet be,if soon may, under any agreement of marriage with you when you can easily forgives your male friends?

I think we should learn to learn and acknowledge, appropriately,if necessary,distinctively draw the difference between a "Girlfriend" and a "Wife." A girlfriend I submit cannot cheat only a wife can.

Op is right

missyadorable:

I concur with you 100%....It amazes me when unmarried people in fornicating relationships complain of cheating..A boyfriend/girlfriend cannot cheat..If you are having sex with somebody who isn't your wife or your husband and the person also has sex with another person,he/she owes you no faithfulness,no explanations.Its btw him/her and God...His/her body doesn't belong to you.My bf is cheating,my gf is cheating,bla bla bla...Who asked you to commit fornication?

Cheating is cheating no matter how we try justifying it.

Ginaz:



sorry to hear that sir/ma, some really repentant ones do quit. however, note that you can try to make changes. communication should be the key to do that. try to know why she does it, and dont give up on making her change.


it is commendable on your part for the sacrifices you have made, I dont know why some people take advantage of one's soft heart. keep trying , there is nothing impossible.

God bless you. What I realize is if u accept a cheat back she will feel u are weak, that's the foolish one though. The wise one will see it as a God given second chance.

henryhemon:


Cheating is cheating no matter how we try justifying it.

Don't go and marry,continue sleeping with ladies who ain't you wife....Afterall,you are a man and it comes with no consequences

Cronnie7:
this highcuerayte ....I no agree joor. Assuming two fellows are in a no sex relationship... and one of them starts frolicking with another member of the opposite sex...going by what u said, since they don't own themselves because they r not married, the other partner doesn't av a right to accuse the erring partner of prospective unfaithfulness....... then one of the core principles of man - woman relationship has been attacked... in other words we shud nt go into relationships but marry whoever we want at once. I don't think that makes so much sense

I think there is a misconception and misintrepretation of information here which not clarified could be deleterious. I do not in any way of reasoning by my post intend to, or imply "No dating" rule or what you call "Marriage at once." Rather I intend to say, simply, the phrase "A Cheating Girlfriend" or "A Cheating Boyfriend" is a contradiction of self, both cannot be used together.

A presumable assumption you made, "Two fellows are in no sex relationship" By implication,examining the clause,it appears there has been a defined agreement between them that there should be no sex,no sex until when? Marriage of course. In this case,it's obvious the relationship have a future and an agreement has been made for a promising marriage. And it takes two to make an agreement. And before both parties agree to no sex they would have had it in mind they will be marrying each other,relationship defined. So even though they are yet to be physically joined together they have be so joined by their promising agreement which makes them not a "Girlfriends or boyfriends" but "fiancee"

A girlfriend I maintain cannot cheat, a fiancee can cheat likewise a wife. When there is no Law there is no sin,when there is no agreement of marriage there can't be cheating.

Highcuerayte:
I think I have to, at this moment, as a neccesity make an educative obbligato note on the OP's view on the present contemporary subject of discussion, rephrased, Forgiving A Cheating Girlfriend.

First and foremost, I will like OP or anyone who cares to,explain how a 'girlfriend' can be cheating on you,having in mind the realistic definition of a girlfriend not in the unrealistic context of Oxford dictionary which defines it "an inamorata" but the consistent realistic definition,opined, is your female friend with no string attached; "string attached" here is "Engagement or marriage".


That in mind, if defined correctly,mutatiamutandis,accept my perspective, why won't you forgive someone who hitherto is nothing but a female friend to you and not yet be,if soon may, under any agreement of marriage with you when you can easily forgives your male friends?

I think we should learn to learn and acknowledge, appropriately,if necessary,distinctively draw the difference between a "Girlfriend" and a "Wife." A girlfriend I submit cannot cheat only a wife can.

what you are saying Is definitely true, but what if it Is vice versa...... Girls attitude towards a cheating boyfriend Is more alarming than that of guys unless she Is only there to milk THE Guy hard end money dry. I know a lot of celebrities that have been pulled down by their girlfriends

tosyne2much:
Bro I bet to disagree with your assertion... Oooooh yes !!! Your girlfriend owes you an obligation of sexual sincerity to some extent. You don't necessarily have to reach an agreement before your girlfriend is obliged to sexual sincerity

All I know is that your girlfriend will one day evolve into a fiance, and no man in his right sense of reasoning chooses to marry a girlfriend who goes around fccking other dudes, claiming she owes his boyfriend no obligation of sincerity simply because they are not married yet

Oxford context or Realistic context? What if I may ask,is your intention when you say "A minute please" to a Lady?

Staru1:


Op is right

In his perspective, Yes. Mine,No.

missyadorable:

Don't go and marry,continue sleeping with ladies who ain't you wife....Afterall,you are a man and it comes with no consequences

Haven't seen a wife to marry joor.

Beadex1:
what you are saying Is definitely true, but what if it Is vice versa...... Girls attitude towards a cheating boyfriend Is more alarming than that of guys unless she Is only there to milk THE Guy hard end money dry. I know a lot of celebrities that have been pulled down by their girlfriends

And what are their attitude?

liciouspee:
Hey dont turn my words around or try to force words out of my mouth. U asked 4a reason n i gave one to d best of my knowledge dat doesnt mean i've gat 2 cheat on my man before i give a reason dat is to ur liking. As for it being legendary,i'd say thanks. Just to even out the odds,why dont u provide one since u seem to be all knowing?

Laveda:
Nice write up But these set of guys aint my spec

u no go knw

Highcuerayte:
I think I have to, at this moment, as a neccesity make an educative obbligato note on the OP's view on the present contemporary subject of discussion, rephrased, Forgiving A Cheating Girlfriend.

First and foremost, I will like OP or anyone who cares to,explain how a 'girlfriend' can be cheating on you,having in mind the realistic definition of a girlfriend not in the unrealistic context of Oxford dictionary which defines it "an inamorata" but the consistent realistic definition,opined, is your female friend with no string attached; "string attached" here is "Engagement or marriage".


That in mind, if defined correctly,mutatiamutandis,accept my perspective, why won't you forgive someone who hitherto is nothing but a female friend to you and not yet be,if soon may, under any agreement of marriage with you when you can easily forgives your male friends?

I think we should learn to learn and acknowledge, appropriately,if necessary,distinctively draw the difference between a "Girlfriend" and a "Wife." A girlfriend I submit cannot cheat only a wife can.

.........You just dey confuse urself wit grammar...

Please writer! Don't subject us to intellectual terrorism!!

I could be a number 2 guy, if she's repentant, I would forgive.. If it happens again, the Trust cannot be redeemed. The cold one Would then be seen fully

donephi:

Waiting

Ginaz:
Some people doesn't even know the true meaning of love, I know its very hard to forgive a cheating partner but that's when love comes in. We're all humans, none is beyond temptation or below it. It can happen in any situations and a lot of things might trigger it.

Now let me give you an example of a lovely couple I had the chance of knowing, while trying to sort out my relationship problem I went to him for advise. What he asked me was, why are you truly in this relationship? What do you understand by forgiveness?

He told me a story about how when he was dating his wife, she cheated twice but he forgave her and helped her put an end to it. He said, he would have left her but for the sake of LOVE and what he saw in her far out weight any flaws. People called him stupid and foolish, but he never weaver. And today, he's the happiest man on earth because he's very happy with his 10 year marriage.
He said to me, you dont make love, you create it.

He said if he had left his wife, she would have lost herself and wouldn't have been the kind of woman she is today. When I see both of them, I see the meaning of the word love. Indeed, you can create love.

I left him feeling filled with wisdom, and I wanna take his advise seriously and apply it in my life. What I'm trying to say to whomever that is reading this, if your spouse cheated on you and is truly repentant, you should take them back. Love can do the impossible, I so much believe in that.

Marriage is not made up of two perfect creatures, NO! It is two imperfect creatures that makes it perfect. If your spouse is lacking behind, you can help them be a better person. Cheating is bad, I'm not supporting it but for those that are TRULY REPENTANT forgive. Afterall, God still cares for us upon all sins.

if your friends calls you fool and foolish cos you're thinking of taking that poor girl that has been begging for forgiveness, you are the one that is a fool. Cos you are not man enough to be a man of your own self.

what is this he/she talking about...who u don help

I'm certainly number 6 but not in anyway a fool.... if she tries it just one more time! OVER

End time guys

Laveda:
Nice write up
But these set of guys aint my spec

Gimme a list of your specifications

Thiwalade:
I'm certainly number 6 but not in anyway a fool.... if she tries it just one more time! OVER

She has certainly been BOLD enough to try that many more times...just that you've not found out and probably never will. What does that make you?

enesty77:
WEAK PEOPLE REVENGE
STRONG PEOPLE FORGIVE
INTELLIGENT PEOPLE IGNORE

story

enesty77:
WEAK PEOPLE REVENGE
STRONG PEOPLE FORGIVE
INTELLIGENT PEOPLE IGNORE

Lol by the time she gives you STD and 4 kids that are not yours, I'd love to see how “Intelligent” you are.

cheating is bad,but if you know you are perfect cast the first stone

Many of you so-called vengeful guys,you end up wit pretenders who can b worse dan your cheating girlfwen,u dnt knw d nxt person u may meet later in life,ur so called cheating girlfrend will one day be a good housewife to anoda man,den u b regreting,every1 has a past and rememba,THE DEVIL U KNW IS FAR BETTER THAN THE ANGEL U DNT KNW.