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8 Signs You’re Being Used For Sex by Realwvn(m): 8:48am On Nov 22, 2015 |
We’ve all been there: Sleeping with a seemingly great guy whose motives we can’t seem to figure out. Maybe he’s giving mixed signals or no signals at all. Either way, something in us makes us wonder if he’s in it just for sex. Well your first clue, should be your trusty gut, but maybe your gut isn’t so trusty because it is wrapped up in insecurity. In that case, here are eight more clues that may help you solve the mystery of whether your lover is interested in you as more than just a bedmate. WARNING: The truth of these clues may sting, but better to know where you stand, than to lay down for too long with the wrong guy, right? 1. Weekday lovers If your guy seems to always be MIA during the weekends, this is a clear sign that he is reserving weekends for someone else on his literal to-do list, or keeping his options open to meet other women. “When a girl is just a girl I’m into for sex, I’ll never ask her out on a weekend. Weekends are strictly reserved for A-listers 2. Sporadic contact A guy who is really into you will communicate regularly. A guy who is in it to sex it, calls, texts, emails and pops-over only when he is feeling frisky and knows that you will indulge his desires. If the sight of your man’s name on your caller ID surprises you, chances are, this is a sex only situation. 3. Invitation to nowhere He never invites you to go out with him – his friend’s birthday party, his work happy hour, not even a lackluster dinner and a movie. Bottom line: “Dates” are always cozy nights in. Why? Because that is the easiest place to, you guessed it… have sex. 4. Time’s up! You spend just enough time together for a little pre-intimacy, sex and maybe a nap. Unless there’s time and desire for a round two, a sex-only motivated man will bolt like a thief in the night before you even have time to turn over on his side. 5. Late-night lovers A sure in-it-for-the-sex-only sign is when your man only reaches out to you after hours, also known as a “booty-call”, when the day is done and quite possibly last call has been shouted. Although he coos for you sweetly on the other end of the phone, perhaps begging for your hot body, just know that you might be on a long list of lovelies, any of one of whom can satisfy his sexual cravings for the evening. 6. Tangoless texts The sex-only guy is remorseless when it comes to leaving your texts unresponded to for hours – even days – and sometimes doesn’t respond at all… unless of course you are reaching out to setup a boudoir appointment. And in that case if his RSVP his positive, his reply back is immediate. Same goes for phone calls, emails, Facebook messages, tweets or any other form of communication. 7. Sexy speak You two speak one language: Sex. And that’s it. If you think hard about it, you may know everything about how he likes “it” but you have no clue where his parents live, what he wanted to be when he grew up, the food that makes him gag, and if he has a middle name. There’s lots of moaning and groaning, but no chatter about work, family, friends, problems, triumphs, etc. Sam, 31, says, “A woman who presents herself as a sexual showpiece will be treated that way. Come to the table at the very beginning with more than just the ability to blow me away in the bedroom. Blow away my mind too and that way I’ll consider you relationship worthy. You don’t have to play like a virgin, you just need to offer more than T&A.” 8. Listen from the beginning He told you straight up that he doesn’t want a girlfriend, doesn’t have time for a girlfriend, can’t deal with a girlfriend… and just wants to have casual fun. It is up to you if you want to listen… but remember, most guys don’t want to deliver news that women don’t want to hear unless they really mean it, “Know who you are and be in charge of what you want from the beginning. If you leave it up to me, then I’m probably going to go for what is easiest… and that’s never a relationship.” http://www.naijanewsrave.com/8-signs-youre-being-used-for-sex/ 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Signs You’re Being Used For Sex by iceberylin(m): 8:51am On Nov 22, 2015 |
They still won't learn ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 8 Signs You’re Being Used For Sex by Emeskhalifa(m): 8:51am On Nov 22, 2015 |
End time sex |
Re: 8 Signs You’re Being Used For Sex by jascon1(m): 8:59am On Nov 22, 2015 |
No one cares to know, for real. They will only read it and carry on being used. |
Re: 8 Signs You’re Being Used For Sex by 6fit(f): 9:03am On Nov 22, 2015 |
Dis will educate only girls dat dating a guy who is getting between their legs in d pretence dat she is d love of his life......it will not be useful for girls who are aware they are in to just fvck d guy anytime he beckon and after sex collect d cash. |
Re: 8 Signs You’re Being Used For Sex by tpiadotcom: 9:08am On Nov 22, 2015 |
is the guy working, waiting for jamb admission, or what? ![]() |
Re: 8 Signs You’re Being Used For Sex by missKiffy(f): 9:50am On Nov 22, 2015 |
Ok, we yaff hear ![]() |
Re: 8 Signs You’re Being Used For Sex by ishiamu(m): 9:55am On Nov 22, 2015 |
Re: 8 Signs You’re Being Used For Sex by nasha1(f): 9:59am On Nov 22, 2015 |
some women know this but still go ahead with the sexualship hoping that the guy will change. ![]() |
Re: 8 Signs You’re Being Used For Sex by bornsinner(m): 10:30am On Nov 22, 2015 |
![]() Emeskhalifa:Mr END TIME....ur here again,the mango of NL |
Re: 8 Signs You’re Being Used For Sex by Nobody: 10:32am On Nov 22, 2015 |
This op dey make us feel like say girls no like sex.You thinks say co.ck no dey sweet? |
Re: 8 Signs You’re Being Used For Sex by Bryt07: 10:43am On Nov 22, 2015 |
**Modified** I don't see the ladies complaining about it tho...dats the way most nigerian ladies are to be treated.. As tools to satisfy sexual desires nothing more |
Re: 8 Signs You’re Being Used For Sex by Functionoftime(m): 11:12am On Nov 22, 2015 |
Love Machine:There are girls that only want sex from a guy. Im a living witness. She will only call to ask "are you home?" that's when she's hor.ney. |
Re: 8 Signs You’re Being Used For Sex by Nobody: 11:15am On Nov 22, 2015 |
I really don't understand why guys lie to girls about love when all they want is se.x and how I don't understand how girls don't see through the lies. It's OK if the guy was truly confused but I have seen several instances where the guy just wants to chop a few times and he goes around claiming "I love you and I want to marry you". May God forgive them and us all. SeeNoEvil |
Re: 8 Signs You’re Being Used For Sex by Nobody: 1:00pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
I find it difficult trusting men cos you just can't predict them...even wen you go to parties, spend weekends with them, you still get dumped for no reason 1 Like |
Re: 8 Signs You’re Being Used For Sex by Realwvn(m): 6:23pm On Nov 22, 2015 |
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