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Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by chukwurah12345(m): 6:52am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Hahaha......you'll not die like Kogi governor IJN,is funny but in all i'll say never allow this to break you rada find a way 2 show more luv,let love b ur strong hold,as 4 ur parents I believe der's a happy moment in der lives......wait 4 it,all it takes is courage explain 2 dem jus the way u did it here......and above all pray to Go |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by juddybrown(m): 6:54am On Nov 24, 2015 |
There must be something they are not telling u, but I'll advice u to go talk to any of ur uncle or aunt who ur parents can listen to,they are in better position to let u know stuffs u have no idea of |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 6:54am On Nov 24, 2015 |
ModiKen:trust me when I say not even depression can make me commit suicide, I love my life but I'm just scared I don't do something we all may regret someday cus I'm almost at my breaking point |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Bamz(m): 6:57am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555, Op you've received many pieces of advice. Mine would definitely be among the ones already mentioned. There are many variables, some of which are within your control so deal with those ones. One thing of note is that your predicament is not permanent, so be more tolerant, more forgiving and less judgmental. We only heard your side of the story not your father's side so I won't be quick to judge him. By the way, about the suicide tendencies, try to have a means of recovery to get away from it all, go Jogging or something. Look life is too short to live each day with unhappiness and grudge. Strong women have endured terrible marriages and things have turned for better not because they did the same things expecting the same results but because they chose to be peace makers. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Rolings: 6:57am On Nov 24, 2015 |
LogoDWhiz: This is the best reply for the Op. From your write up it seems you are a teenager, this is the age of rebellion like when young people crave for freedom and see parents as enemy for trying to guide them to the right path. Some parents may be very harsh in doing this especially to a stubborn child but dont blame the parents because They know better and no parent want anything bad for their children. OP Please try this suggestions, obey all he say, don't argue with him, do all that is expected of you, drop your rebellious ways and you will see that you will have peace of mind. Do things that makes you happy, your father does not hate you he only wants your obedience and have your best interest at heart. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 6:57am On Nov 24, 2015 |
SlimBrawnie:I go to school from home because he wants to keep monitoring my every move and dictating my sordid life, the school of my choice was never allowed to see daylight, twas either his choice or I die at home |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 6:58am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Although it maybe be tough,like you said,but the best option remains moving out |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by ojinuocheibi(m): 6:58am On Nov 24, 2015 |
My brother leave that house. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by tunwumi: 6:59am On Nov 24, 2015 |
So guy. I will advise u that u do a reverse psychology on ur dad. Step one is to do all he likes even when you don't like it. Treat him like your pet. If u understand Step two is to never argue with him on anything make him feel he's always right. Step three never let him suspect u are acting. And always support his idea even against your own wish. From this u will start earning his trust. To be sincere u are the one he love most. So start seeing things from his eyes. U can send private msg if u want more discussion Therock5555: |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by ussy09(m): 6:59am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Atmmachine:End time comment 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 7:00am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Estharfabian:I love my siblings too much to deny them of a father at their ages, maybe when we all move out I might use your decision |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by cnsprince76: 7:01am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Leave the house now before they move your carcass to the grave. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 7:01am On Nov 24, 2015 |
bellong:how do I start with him raising hell |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by franklingud(m): 7:02am On Nov 24, 2015 |
TheRock5555 Atmmachine said something reasonable, if i were you, i'd move out of dat house and do something with ma life. He has forgotten dat he might get old and he isn't sure of who will take care of him, probably you. Imagine what you will do to him. Rocky 1st of all move out of dat house. End time dad, that's what he is. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by iPopAlomo(m): 7:02am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Mikkyboy008: No... |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by ferhyntorlah(f): 7:03am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Eleniyan15: End time advice. If he does this, they will encourage him to kill himself quickly. Person wey him papa dey wish death upon. Dear Therock5555, For me, your matter is SPIRITUAL! You said you were the only one birthed in the village. There lies your foundational problem - something happened before or after you were born, which is causing you to behave like this. I know people will say I have come with spiritually but we can't ignore the effect of the spiritual on the physical. Pray for GOD to show you what happened during the time of your birth, right down to your naming. It's so unfortunate that none of your parents are looking at the behaviour from the spiritual angle. Isn't your father (I'm sorry I can't called him daddy because from what you have written, he hadn't exhibited the traits of a DADDY) a preacher? Is the Holy Spirit living in him? A spirit filled man won't behave as he's doing to you because the Holy Spirit will caution him and guide him on ways to relate with you. Tackle your issue spiritually and see your life change for the better. REMEMBER THE SPIRITUAL CONTROLS THE PHYSICAL! |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Erukumakanaki: 7:05am On Nov 24, 2015 |
evegran: |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by franklingud(m): 7:05am On Nov 24, 2015 |
TheRock5555 Atmmachine said something reasonable, if i were you, i'd move out of dat house and do something with ma life. He has forgotten dat he might get old and he isn't sure of who will take care of him, probably you. Imagine what you will do to him. Rocky 1st of all move out of dat house. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 7:05am On Nov 24, 2015 |
TrollTrap:I'm 21 I once tried moving out even before I started schooling because I was working and earning well then but he blocked the move because that would have dimmed his public image. I have since resigned and not so financially buoyant now it could be hard to move out atleast in a year time |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by busyfishing(m): 7:06am On Nov 24, 2015 |
you are grown enough to fend for yourself..leave the devil and start your life.He has lived his,don't allow him to ruin yours...That's if all your wrote here is true sha. Hope you didn't add salt,pepper and Maggie to spice up the story for our consumption. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by UnimkeAk(m): 7:07am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555: How old are you? . Get a job and move outta of the house. . that's the best solution. . ya fada is actually lucky to have u as a son. . he would been a serious BP patient by nw or even dead sef; . |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 7:07am On Nov 24, 2015 |
The death-wish like that of Kogi State governor is just epic. That said, Most of the issues you mentioned here, In my own opinion, are way to personal to brought to fore like you have done. Don't you have an Uncle or aunty that you could confide in? There must be someone who can "actually" help you than internet peeps surfing from the comfort of their pillows - with little or no idea of what you have been through. 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Darlduchi: 7:08am On Nov 24, 2015 |
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Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by mixoull(m): 7:08am On Nov 24, 2015 |
odi? You still dey live with your parent ?? |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by deathmen12: 7:09am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Fighting him wil nt get tins ryt, d best tin is to man up nd leave dat house, wit time d dad wil realise what he has done... Atmmachine: |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 7:09am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Eleniyan15:thanks for the advice sir |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by juwoonn(m): 7:10am On Nov 24, 2015 |
End time father |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by TheNextAce: 7:10am On Nov 24, 2015 |
You say he is a preacher, so I'm guessing he is the pastor of a branch church. I will advice you write to the council of elders of the church, if your church has one. Ask that you would like them to intervene in your matter. Your father seem like the type that is controlling but doesn't want anyone outside to see this. Once you can get a higher authority from the church to intervene, he would be mindful of his actions as he would not want to be disciplined by the church body. You would have temporal peace till you are able to get out of the apartment. Be wise in your dealings and pray to God for guidance. Wisdom is always profitable. I pray the peace of God finds expression between you and your family. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by idu1(m): 7:12am On Nov 24, 2015 |
porrigeyam: |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by ferhyntorlah(f): 7:12am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock555, In JESUS name, I decree and declare that every curse, negative pronunciations and utterances uttered against you from your father mother, siblings and anyone SHALL STAND, NEITHER SHALL IT COME TO PASS - Isaiah 7:7 That should be your prayer now. How will you prosper in life when you have CURSES UPON CURSES hovering over your head and destiny? I cancel death from you because it is written YOU SHALL NOT DIE BUT LOVE TO DECLARE THE WORKS OF THE LORD IN THE LAND OF THE LIVING - Psalms 119:18. Going forward, make it a habit to reject any negative word or curse directed at you (say it inwardly or openly when you are alone). Memorise the above scriptures and quote it when necessary. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by mek2002(m): 7:12am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Simply leave the house and start building your life as a man. Remaining in that house might render you useless. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by rotwailler(m): 7:14am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555: How old are you? Sorry ask |
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