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Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 9:23am On Nov 24, 2015 |
obum88:if I'm cooking this up, may the death wish and all curses he has rained on me also fall on you. Amen |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Elxandre(m): 9:26am On Nov 24, 2015 |
You aren't getting something straight. You must not necessarily oppose every of your Dad's opinion, even if you feel he's wrong. Silence wouldn't kill you at times. Your siblings aren't cowards as you think, but just playing the 'game'. I'd also like to hear your Dad's story, cos I don't get why even your mother isn't standing up for you. You know your dad is a preacher and knows your NL handle probably, yet look what you have as your Profile picture Is this also standing up to him too? I don't believe in violence and scarring people emotionally though, so your dad is very wrong for Abusing you physically and emotionally. 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 9:26am On Nov 24, 2015 |
donifez:bro I'm in school but I'm not allowed to stay in the hostel or student village because he monitors my movement |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 9:27am On Nov 24, 2015 |
sweatlana:I'm a Sunday school teacher and I'm gonna quit today, gonna meet my patron later today, I can't keep dying inside and Coming to laugh before my Sunday school kids |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 9:27am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555: Can you just listen to yourself? Your problem is major! You are very confrontational and i dare say even To your dad. You hate corrections because you have this "I am always right" mentality. Nobody here can help you...the only person who can help you is you. 2 Likes |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 9:29am On Nov 24, 2015 |
marlockj:he would terminate payment of my tuition |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 9:29am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Jadonjack:he's a guest, I wrote this for him to see because speaking to him and telling all this would mean more beatings even before I reach half |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 9:31am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555: You are a bundle of contradiction! You a sunday school teacher yet on nairaland you write so much trash and have that repulsion on your DP? You need deliverance and a very strong hand indeed. I have told u repeatedly that u are the architect of ur own problem. Ur dad even listened to you and was willing to let you show and teach him about nairaland and u say he doesn't care? He wants a relationship with you but you have a different spirit. 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 9:32am On Nov 24, 2015 |
sweatlana:if you go around judging people by their online profile then I guess you are fooling yourself I'm sure if I had put a Tom and Jerry pix then you would have said cartoon caused the misdemeanor between him and I |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 9:33am On Nov 24, 2015 |
funkymatics:I'm going to my finals next year |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 9:34am On Nov 24, 2015 |
About d dad ish.....my kind of dad Therock5555 If i do something its bad very bad But when a kid does it outside ,hes very proud ...lyk can u see him Always using oda pple kids as example While in sec skul...i neve wanted to stud medicine.....but it had to b cos....he said he wouldnt sponsor my edu to study anoda course......i had no othet source of income.....cos i wasnt even allowed to work in d first place I got admission b4 any of them, i wasnt allowed to stay on my own...i had to stay with someone appointed by my dad....not that there was no money Jst so he could monitor me....... Those kids he used as examples ...for example They wanted to go out ....nd i was interested ....it becomes a war......i remember a particular day I visisted one of them......i got a phone call from dad every 10 minutes...... Deh even made jest of me saying dat " daddy's boy e b lyk say nepa don bring light....ur pman want make u come on fan for am.....etc I got nicknamed INDONESIAN..... Cos i was always indoors.... I have been virtually embarassed in almost every knwown situation i can think of I try to dress well, they say see ooo dis 1 is claiming fyn boi OI got vitually no new cloths .....and yet i am accused on spending.....jst because i bought jst one new jean trouser.... At 18 i couldnt buy anything for my self.....one day very annoyed ,frustrated...see my so called friends looking dope me...? I went out to buy some stuff....shoes..shirt.. On getting back see pman lyl Inspector of police...waiting for me I was drilled with qxtn...bt d 1 dat got my attention was U went to buy shoe, and cloths in this House? Cant, i buy stuffs for myself....or wat I go across d road to buy something and theres my dad watching me..... Once hhe's back from work...he starts reciting my name every 5mins to make sure am at home...y Even d compound peeps, old and young make jest of me...... Frustratiom upon frustration...... I dared him He talks ...i look him in d face defiant ....i dont reply except necessary..... I dnt fight him sha.... Now i am d legal Black sheep of the family....and according to him d first in many generations Looking at me alone....u get to knw dat something is def wrong Am anti-social.....dats not hw i wanna b but dats jst hw i have been conditioned to b!! Low self esteemed.. More lyk Ur suggestions....are appreciated........cos its a stuggle - to find oneself, discover who i really am!!!!! Is it too late, cos i am in my final year in the university |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 9:37am On Nov 24, 2015 |
InvertedHammer:and that profile pix is gonna remain there till I leave Nl, because I have never changed it so have a good view. Then castrate your own son first, maybe you have done worst things than I but you cloud yourself in a shadow of self righteousness and holiness and under a fake aura to claim holier than thou attitude. If you agree that you have never seen a worldly image or movie or have never seen then let God take everything good that he has planned for me and dash you |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 9:41am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555: You are hellbent on embarrassing and getting your pound of flesh from your dad. Since you know he would read it on nairaland what stops you from sending him this as a private email or sms afterall he would still read it. So why put it on an open forum for all to read since he also visits th same forum a lot and u are not particularly on here and saying all this so u can be helped but just so he can read it. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 9:45am On Nov 24, 2015 |
TheNextAce:thank you |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 9:46am On Nov 24, 2015 |
ferhyntorlah:amen. Thank you |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by ideyhere(f): 9:49am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Ajalekoko76: E no get any enemy wey dey work against em destiny...Nawa to Nigerians ooh. Truth is most guys are rebellious in nature at their teens and early adulthood. And very few get along with their fathers at that age. With all those sagging pants, drinking and late nights, parents fear that their sons would go astray so they fight. They just want the best for you. And like most people have rightly said, the OP seems to enjoy self-pity. Grow up and start being busy. If you don't want to study medicine, do something else...but make sure you're making productive use of your time. C'mon my dad had to send my only brother to be a mechanic apprentice just so he doesn't laze about at home Now more than 4 years later, with him almost true with his first degree in mechanical engineering, he still goes to that mechanic workshop during vacations, of his own freewill now not because he had to. And if you see him and dad discussing now, you'll just be amazed... |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by indiraserv: 9:50am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555: You should google up and read about indigo children,Starseeds,Crystal Children and their Characteristics ,you arent a BlackSheep you are just different and may i say congratulations because that means you are special. The only challenge you have is that you are yet to know recognise and appreciate yourself and your spiritual standing here in creation. When you know yourself and recognise that you are not meant to stand out ,to stand for truth,to stand for good,for love for the entire good of humanity ,that your dad is a preacher doesnt make him god ,nor good,it is the world that gives titles God looks at the heart . Lets talk |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by IMO22(m): 9:52am On Nov 24, 2015 |
I feel ur pain bro.pm me if u wanna meet 2 talk.I'll b in Kogi state till Dec.My twin bro passed thru same...mayb worse. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by indiraserv: 9:52am On Nov 24, 2015 |
You dont seem to see that the guy is close to the edge and almost losing himself in all the pain he is going through and has been through ? naijadeyhia: 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 9:53am On Nov 24, 2015 |
ferhyntorlah:I suspected this, my mum even said I was taken to a native prophet by my grandmother I am not allowed access to travel just outside town so how do I take a 12 journey to a place I barely know to source spiritual stuff, prayers alone can't help |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 9:55am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Walexz02:I don't speak to him arrogantly in public See people see me as a very good person but if only they know how much pain I go through each day |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 9:55am On Nov 24, 2015 |
indiraserv: He isn't close to any edge. He is just creating this world of pity and pain and chaos by himself and crated the so called edge u say he is close to. His father does not hate him...His father loves him in his own way. Gosh he is 21 and his father hasn't poisoned him or stabbed or broken his head yet has he and he never will. Just wants the best for his first son that's all. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Eddygourdo(m): 9:56am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555:if you try this method I will tell you now and things don't change, then open another thread on sane topic hopefully you will get better responses. People look at glass of water and call it half filled, others look at same glass and call itit half empty, this world and everything in it appears so because of human perception. How did you perceive an event, someone with thicker skin or a sense of humour will have a different perceptive sense as compare to a stuck up person. Mr a secret to life is that you can never determine how people will treat you or love you or perceive you, but you can always determine how you respond to their treatment and perception. Change your perception of your family and their actions towards you, Chang your disposition by using humour and understanding, see yourself as a young karate student learning from his master the skills of tomorrow, one thing am very very sure of is that your parents do not hate you, they are handling you based on their perceptions of whom you might be or who they think you are. You might not be able to change it cos they have had that since your childhood, but you can determine how u respond to it, when criticised accept and change, when you feel you were treated unfairly air your views respectfully and forget about it, don't go about sulking or playing the victim card, plus you are a man, a man, men learn to be masters of their emotions and no emotion is more in need of our mastery than our response to life's challenges. Just try |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by freshcvvs: 9:57am On Nov 24, 2015 |
indiraserv: And seems not to be ready to be free. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Eddygourdo(m): 9:58am On Nov 24, 2015 |
naijadeyhia:Mr op. Please listen to this advice, take it, believe it too because it's true. At least some people can reason outside emotions and the need to join the band wagon of blaming innocent parents. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Laid2001: 9:58am On Nov 24, 2015 |
If the @op is my kid, he would have been disowned by now. What do you mean your dad is always wrong!. He is the boss and the boss is never wrong, you are the one that is always wrong! You get what you deserve. Which good child have your type of profile on Nairaland? To any decent parent, who have taken time to study your profile, they will know that you are probably second in command to devil!. If you like go and kill yourself because the head of your household is too strict for your liken, my friend, if the heat is too much, get the hell out of his house na, no be by force, YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE AN ADULT!. When you get your own house hold and family rule them the way you like. Don't you know your siblings are the smart ones that realized that "he who plays the piper dictate the tune" and you are the fool for trying to drag the tune with he who plays the piper! As long as it is your dad's house, you have to stick by the rule. One more thing, when you get a job, never drag issue with your boss, when he is wrong, keep quite, when he is right, praise him! You can only change yourself, you can't change the world. And your dad is part of the world. When you change your attitude to your father, he will change his to you! |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 10:03am On Nov 24, 2015 |
naijadeyhia: |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 10:03am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Laid2001: Thats another thing too. If he does not stop all this nonsense even his boss will be an enemy. He may even open another thread here talking about how his boss loves other workers more than loves him not realising that there must be something the other workers are doing right that he isn't. |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by justmenoni: 10:03am On Nov 24, 2015 |
[yes I hv used meme before but I will never use such a pics like urs, I mean what do u want my kids,their teachers, my colleagues,friends, families etc to take me as Even before getting married I'm extremely careful with things like dat...u are from a Christian home and u can put up a d**k as meme... Even if ur dad gives u 1000strokes daily blv me he can win u just by showing this ur pics alone to sympathisers. Well I'm not Going to judge anyone ooo cos i have my short and wrong doing as well...but all dos ppl telling unto move out ain't wishing u well and I'm sure most of them are kids like u...instead of u to follow rules laid down by ur peeps and then plan ahead for ur life and stop been a sexist quote author=Therock5555 post=40344497] he is not a registered member just a guest, and please tell me you haven't used a meme before [/quote] |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 10:05am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Brownpage:thanks bro |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 10:05am On Nov 24, 2015 |
ayoolanr:I didn't make into medical school but I'm actually studying a science inclined course and it's hard bro, I envy my pals in the theatre depts |
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