halfrica:


i love the way u think


Friends??

sure

Mzflexydeeva:
I did start writing one day. I learnt over time. God blessed me with a man who is understanding and patient and is never tired of teaching me. He has taught me & so I share ways girls can better their relationship

A smart way of telling the pm senders to 'go back to sleep'

NewSheriff:
A smart way of telling the pm senders to 'go back to sleep'

you said it not me

firstking01:

friendzone ain't deathzone bro...it depends on hw u carry urslf with the said gal.

hey bro wassup, can see ur nw perfectin ur skills..

make ah hear say dem comment

Cutehector:
hey bro wassup, can see ur nw perfectin ur skills..

lol, skills keh?, hwfar d stuff, d work, hope it went well

Mzflexydeeva:
sure

if ny body find ur trouble call my moniker u self go dey beg ontop d person matter

firstking01:

lol, skills keh?, hwfar d stuff, d work, hope it went well

hehehe, kiddn..... Aint started yet tho...

Op I need you in my life.....

Cutehector:
hehehe, kiddn..... Aint started yet tho...

owk.

halfrica:




Team op

Bt there some men who are naturally wicked who will still nt appreciate a girl after doin all u av stated

Its just d grace to meet a guy who wud appreciate it

show me ur friends and i will tell u who u are. It is the character of a lady that makes a guy to be so hardened.if ur not greedy and selfish as most gals are, then the guy will put his life on ur palm.

Johnsown1:

show me ur friends and i will tell u who u are. It is the character of a lady that makes a guy to be so hardened.if ur not greedy and selfish as most gals are, then the guy will put his life on ur palm.

M nt greedy m nt selfish

halfrica:
M nt greedy m nt selfish

how will i know that ur not.

halfrica:
M nt greedy m nt selfish

how will i know that ur not.

hmmmm

halfrica:


if ny body find ur trouble call my moniker u self go dey beg ontop d person matter

no wahala! I go holla u sharperly. Hope u slept like a baby

Y u dey hmmmmmmm

miqos02:
hmmmm

Nice post..keep it up..good 2 know there are still reasonable ladies in Naija.

sauceEEP:
Op I need you in my life.....

abeg define the need ooooooo! Cos need & want are often misunderstood

halfrica:

M nt greedy m nt selfish

I believe u jare

viclawz:
Nice post..keep it up..good 2 know there are still reasonable ladies in Naija.

thank-you do visit often

Mzflexydeeva:
no wahala! I go holla u sharperly. Hope u slept like a baby

yes ma over sleep worry sef

Mzflexydeeva:
I believe u jare

awwww tank u ma

Johnsown1:

show me ur friends and i will tell u who u are. It is the character of a lady that makes a guy to be so hardened.if ur not greedy and selfish as most gals are, then the guy will put his life on ur palm.

so true!


Also some suffer from the seed their parents have planted in them. Imagine a woman who tells the daughter a man must take care of her every need.... parents still have a great role

Mzflexydeeva:
thank-you do visit often

definitely

Mzflexydeeva:
so true!


Also some suffer from the seed their parents have planted in them. Imagine a woman who tells the daughter a man must take care of her every need.... parents still have a great role

some parents may be just that way, do u agree with me that change is constant,therefore when u grows up and see hw tins are happening, u have to change ur orientation and adapt very fast.
If my future gal is not self depending then she is just wasting her time cos i will nt be serious with her.

Mzflexydeeva:
Y u dey hmmmmmmm

the matter dey conc

Nice thread OP.
The the truth is that 'most' girls have the virtues to do these things naturally, but SELF-PRIDE would'nt let them. While some feel they would look cheap and desperate in too.

But matured girls do all these things the OP mentioned. That's why i respect some girls because they are Mature in speech, behaviour, character and attitude.
Kudos to the matured ladies...

Mzflexydeeva:
A good man is hard to find whether you agree or not. The definition of a good man varies for each individual but a general definition of a good man encompasses facts like
- nice
- understanding
-money spender
-lover
-detailed planer
-a friend
The list continues.
Ladies, it is good we acknowledge the fact that a guy is good not because he wants to please us but because he is naturally good.
It would be very unwise for a lady to feel she is "too much" simply because a guy is good to her and cares for her.

Now let's address the main issue.
Why do ladies always feel they are the ones who always need taking out?

Why do ladies always think its their right when a guy pays for their hair and stuffs like that?

At what point will ladies realise that guys too want to be pampered?

What stops you as a lady from paying after your date?

I don't think a guy would reject you surprising him with some pairs of shoe.

You don't have to wait till its his birthday to get him a gift or surprise him.
As much as ladies love to be called sweet names the men too like it.
Let him wake up to an epistle of your love for him. Make him as happy as you want to be.

You can't always be the one receiving the compliment every time. Tell him how lucky you are to have him. Let him know how much you love him. Help him feed his ego so you are the only one his inner baby understand.

The things you know make him happy do them happily.
Don't always wait till he says lets go out before you go out. Sometimes be the one to say darling I'm taking you for a treat.

A man's heart will melt not to the hotness of your temper but to the steam of your pampering.

Cool. You seem to have a different mindset about relationship.

Women could be so angry and disappointed especially if you turn them down or say lets just be friends.

Right now, the women are doing the chasing and is really interesting.

Johnsown1:

some parents may be just that way, do u agree with me that change is constant,therefore when u grows up and see hw tins are happening, u have to change ur orientation and adapt very fast.
If my future gal is not self depending then she is just wasting her time cos i will nt be serious with her.

You too be patient to teach her

halfrica:

yes ma over sleep worry sef

hahahahhahahahaha

firstking01:

yea, i agree wit u, bt no marra hw real and natural u appear b4 dem gals, dey'd still wanna magarize u, even wen u come wit no alterior motives.

True talk bro! True talk!

Mzflexydeeva:
You too be patient to teach her

ok, bt sometime,i may get tired of teaching