ifyjohnson:








Lolz nope am not I am a student of int studies and diplomacy. Uniben

Tanx

cococandy:
Can we focus on the topic please?
Is all these supposed to make me think it's okay to want to get with a minor?
Yes when I was 15 I knew I was pretty and I thought I was old enough. In fact I thought I had the world and everything figured out but guess what?
Now I know better.

Just like an adult trying to get with a minor regardless of what the minor thinks or looks like should know better.

No I'm not adding any understanding or softness towards any adult who can't educate his/her mind that a minor is off limits and therefore shouldn't even let temptation cross his/her mind.

It seems like people don't know how serious an issue this is. A thread on frontpage about a kidnapped teenage girl who was kept for sex slave purposes and some posters are there saying she must have enjoyed if not she would have raised alarm.

Jeez.

espionagesavvy:
Dear Cynthia
I caught my husband of five years sniffing the panties of my 15 years niece. I don't know if I should confront him or let the issue lie.
I also think he bought my niece a new blackberry phone because the day I insisted on making my niece tell me where she got the phone, he became too overprotective of her and we almost fought over the issue.

My niece recently lost her father, making my sister a widow who let go of her children to stay with her relatives, that is how my niece came to stay with me,
On the 26th of November 2015, I saw him at the backyard next to the heap of clothes my niece brought out to wash, he picked up a pant, my niece's pant and sniffed it, I almost screamed where I was.
Also I keep noticing the look they exchange, very flirtatious.

Lastly my niece is acting like she is his wife, she dishes his food even before the children's food, doesn't knock before opening the door of our bedroom, and the most disturbing is, she asks my husband where he is going when he wants to go out as if she is his wife, my husband is 37 and this girl is 15, I suggested to my husband that we send her off to a boarding school, he rejected the idea and even got angry with me saying it will affect the girl psychologically, as if I want to dump her in a boarding house and run away. I want to confront my husband but I have no evidence, and for my niece I respect my eldest sister so much that I don't know what to do, I feel like an outsider in my own home.

P.S. My husband is a banker and also a pastor at our church.

I sincerely need your advice.
Thank you.

Sad depressed housewife in Ikeja

espionagesavvy:
Dear Cynthia
I caught my husband of five years sniffing the panties of my 15 years niece. I don't know if I should confront him or let the issue lie.
I also think he bought my niece a new blackberry phone because the day I insisted on making my niece tell me where she got the phone, he became too overprotective of her and we almost fought over the issue.

My niece recently lost her father, making my sister a widow who let go of her children to stay with her relatives, that is how my niece came to stay with me,
On the 26th of November 2015, I saw him at the backyard next to the heap of clothes my niece brought out to wash, he picked up a pant, my niece's pant and sniffed it, I almost screamed where I was.
Also I keep noticing the look they exchange, very flirtatious.

Lastly my niece is acting like she is his wife, she dishes his food even before the children's food, doesn't knock before opening the door of our bedroom, and the most disturbing is, she asks my husband where he is going when he wants to go out as if she is his wife, my husband is 37 and this girl is 15, I suggested to my husband that we send her off to a boarding school, he rejected the idea and even got angry with me saying it will affect the girl psychologically, as if I want to dump her in a boarding house and run away. I want to confront my husband but I have no evidence, and for my niece I respect my eldest sister so much that I don't know what to do, I feel like an outsider in my own home.

P.S. My husband is a banker and also a pastor at our church.

I sincerely need your advice.
Thank you.

Sad depressed housewife in Ikeja

Rhea:


[size=18pt]You still dey call am ya husband? Pastor ke? abi the man dey look for anointing for ya niece obante? Next thing you know, he will hear his true calling inside ya niece nyash. E don reach to gee the man ogwu oke (otapiapia), or better still pack comot him house before him 'enter'[/size]

Sincere4u:
I don't hope to win an argument with you on this.
You were lucky to be endowed with beauty and good upbringing but not every 15yr old is.
Some are already professional prostitutes by that age.
You ladies don't seem to be giving the man any due considerations. The minor may be the one that is far more morally bankrupt than immorality can describe.
She might be responsible for everything but you don't wanna see it that way.
One thing we need to get right is the fact that ladies&sex are about the strongest forces in the universe. They could break or erode any man's defences and the highest moral standards in just a matter of time.
A minor had tried forcing herself on me right under the same roof with me after it became clear there was no way she could woo me. She wasn't even upto 15 at the time and i could've been raped repeatedly if not that i was far older and stronger. In as much as my idiosyncrasies can't allow me get with a minor I will be considerate in condemning my folks that fall for it.
This man had this right under his ROOF. With time it has driven him crazy, he couldn't hold on anymore. He's out of his mind and needs the help and understanding of his wife. Can't you see that, dear lady Cococandy. Don't be
so hard.
I may be lucky not to be among those class of men but that won't make me condemn my folks without considering the circumstances.

free2ryhme:

Another cooked lies hit frontpage
Banker and pastor
Why not carpenter and pastor?

free2ryhme:

Another cooked lies hit frontpage
Banker and pastor
Why not carpenter and pastor?

cococandy:
Seriously?

I give up.

Sincere4u:

Seriously my dear lady. In case you have any reservations, i'll give you a brief account of what actually transpired.
It happened while i was still an undergraduate student of one of our federal universities.
I had relatives residing in the city where the institution was located. There came a time a had to spend nearly two weeks with them because of inter cult clashes that resulted in a temporary closure of the school.
During my stay, the minor of about 13yrs of age warmed up to me in no time. Soon after she started making sexual advances to my surprise. She was the last child in their family and i was a couple of years older than her eldest brother and first child.
Each time i went into the male room she came right after me demanding for sex with a kind of desperation that made one think she would die if she doesn't have her way. As her desperation grew she became more forceful and daring.
The door had a lock but i couldn't find the keys. I had to resort to wrestling her off each time. What i felt for her was pity so didn't attempt reporting to her parents.
On one occasion, i was so tired and drowsy that i laid down on the bed to have an afternoon nap.
This girl came in and descended on me massively with unbelievable force. She begged as she wrestled, doing all she could to get hold of my..."you know what".
She was well built and bigger than her age but that didn't mean i couldn't have thrown her off the bed in a second but i was lenient probably because of the way she was begging.
All i did was to keep my "thing" safe from her grip.
Funny enough she still climaxed right on top of me by mere bodily contact. I didn't know that would happen till it did though at a point it was imminent from the look on her face and reactions.
I was eventually able to find the keys to the door and started locking it anytime i ventured into the room. That was what put an end to sexual harassment from a minor!.
I'm glad you were able to come round on this topic Now you see where i'm coming from?. Not all minors are innocent, lady Cococandy.

cococandy:


@bold 1, cool story bro.
She climaxed while you were fighting her off?
So this 13 yr old girl didn't meet enough resistance from you that she was able to stay on you long enough to reach climax.
Mr sincere4u, Do you even know how this your story sounds? Phew.

@second bold. I didn't come around. I only gave up on you.

Sincere4u:

I only held her hands to keep them off something she fought relentlessly to grab, i think i mentioned it and that i was lenient though i could have thrown her off in no time if i had so desired. Didn't hope to convince you anyway, neither did i believe i could win this one. Have just stated my frank story the only thing now is that i'm ashamed mentioning it at all seeing that it failed in its purpose.

Ujoan:


Maybe a part of you was actually enjoying the attention . . . cos I don't see how you couldn't have stopped her from such shameful act if you really wanted to.

I mean how did you know she climaxed, was she gasping and panting while wrestling for your 'kini' . . .

I'm sure you can understand how no one will read your story without thinking you were enjoying the sexual banter with a child.

May God save us all . . .

Sincere4u:
This is a story that should never have been told besides, it failed in it's objective. Honestly ladies are the most difficult to deal with on issues such as this.
You may've felt the way you did from logical reasoning but i wish to state at this point that there are situations in life where the most logical conclusions prove to be absolutely wrong and this is certainly one of them.
Ujoan, you may've met someone to whom for a reason not clear to you is sexually repulsive. Not that the person isn't physically ok but within you, you know there can never be anything. That was the feeling i had for her. If not for that maybe the story would've been different
and it would have been my first time of course.
Her passionate plea and the strangeness of the whole thing perhaps is what kept me from doing the needful.
I'm more than convinced you, Cococandy, and other ladies that have chosen to demonize the OP's husband can never be convinced to think otherwise.
My story was meant to serve as a final push in changing the opinions of Cococandy, who i thought had already come around, to firmly see things my way but her response not only proved my assumptions wrong, it was a total disaster that hit me like a thunder bolt.
No matter what you ladies think or throw at me, i still maintain that not all so called minors are clean and innocent.
I am the man hear.

Ujoan:


Even if you did sleep with her, you were a child yourself and din't know any better.

OP's husband is a fully grown man, married with kids. There is just no basis for comparison!!!

Ujoan:


Even if you did sleep with her, you were a child yourself and din't know any better.

OP's husband is a fully grown man, married with kids. There is just no basis for comparison!!!

espionagesavvy:
Dear Cynthia
I caught my husband of five years sniffing the panties of my 15 years niece. I don't know if I should confront him or let the issue lie.
I also think he bought my niece a new blackberry phone because the day I insisted on making my niece tell me where she got the phone, he became too overprotective of her and we almost fought over the issue.

My niece recently lost her father, making my sister a widow who let go of her children to stay with her relatives, that is how my niece came to stay with me,
On the 26th of November 2015, I saw him at the backyard next to the heap of clothes my niece brought out to wash, he picked up a pant, my niece's pant and sniffed it, I almost screamed where I was.
Also I keep noticing the look they exchange, very flirtatious.

Lastly my niece is acting like she is his wife, she dishes his food even before the children's food, doesn't knock before opening the door of our bedroom, and the most disturbing is, she asks my husband where he is going when he wants to go out as if she is his wife, my husband is 37 and this girl is 15, I suggested to my husband that we send her off to a boarding school, he rejected the idea and even got angry with me saying it will affect the girl psychologically, as if I want to dump her in a boarding house and run away. I want to confront my husband but I have no evidence, and for my niece I respect my eldest sister so much that I don't know what to do, I feel like an outsider in my own home.

P.S. My husband is a banker and also a pastor at our church.

I sincerely need your advice.
Thank you.

Sad depressed housewife in Ikeja

Aitee1:
This one is strong!!!

sonyjohn93:
Whats the problem, with him sniffing panties, they are full of the taboo scent, you would be surprised by how many men do the same