he is cheating on me and he even brought his mistress to live with us. he still profess that he loves me and our kids. yesterday he saw me and started shouting at his mistress thinking that I will believe that they are quarreling. after I left I was peeping them through my window he was watching to make sure that am out of sight he immediately knee down and start begging the girl. any time we want to sleep together I notice that he calls her on phone before anything.I just pretend that I don't know. he gets permission from her before giving My kids money anytime they demand something from him. should I tell him all that or should I just write it all down in my divorce papers and serve him.

First of all you fuucked up!!! how would u allow ur husband to bring another lady into ur marital home? dammm!!! u should never had allowed him. "well dont divorce him, ur husband might be under some spell from the girl or he might be acting on the instructions of his dick, so woman pray,pray,pray call up to GOD, report him to his pastor, his parents but never fail to pray, for the bible says seek and you shall find, ask and it shall be given, i believe with GOD all things are possible. "then confront the lady not for violence but simply ask her this question: if she feel justify to break someone else's marriage, ask her why she wants to destroy her fellow woman and tell her to remember that KARMA IS REAL.

Why do people marry these days sef..

If you can't cope.. Do d needful by divorcing

And you think NL will fix your marital issues?


I feel you need Jesus and doctors (Psychiatrist and Neuro surgeon),,... ASAP

Lol, you got time.

sorry bros is the movie nollywood or ghanawood?

ssoftappless:
First of all you fuucked up!!! how would u allow ur husband to bring another lady into ur marital home? dammm!!! u should never had allowed him. "well dont divorce him, ur husband might be under some spell from the girl or he might be acting on the instructions of his dick, so woman pray,pray,pray call up to GOD, report him to his pastor, his parents but never fail to pray, for the bible says seek and you shall find, ask and it shall be given, i believe with GOD all things are possible. "then confront the lady not for violence but simply ask her this question: if she feel justify to break someone else's marriage, ask her why she wants to destroy her fellow woman and tell her to remember that KARMA IS REAL.

what is this one saying...so you will advice your sister to continue living with such a man ah ah haba, maybe you have not been following her previous threads n pls do so it il giv you more light to this....mean while op try a get a job like i asked you to..

Wait, I think I'm confused. U allow ur husband bring his mistress into ur matrimonial home? And now, he has to consult her and seek her approval before attending to the needs of ur kids. That's screwed up!

U need to know ur rights as a woman and his wife. Why are are u allowing all these things just go by. U're the Meek wife, huh? Keep playing ignorant and watch ur husband taken away from u right before ur eyes.

If u want to save ur marriage, then u'd best start acting. Confront him. Don't be violent, but ensure to be strict. Demand what u want and that is to stop seeing the woman and bringing her anywhere close to ur home. She shouldn't be remotely involved in ur family affairs. If perhaps he decides to continue seeing her secretly, that's his business... As long as u don't find out and it doesn't in any way affect ur home.

U've got to be very prayerful too. Check urself also to make sure there isn't anything u not doing right. Maybe u're unknowingly sending ur husband into the arms of another woman.

Put the thought of a divorce to rest, for now and see how things go. Just think properly.



*Modified * OP, from ur previous thread, I can deduce that ur husband appears to be a bit over domineering. He asks guards to follow u everywhere! And also, it seems u're unemployed and necessarily dependent on him to cater for urself and ur 5 sons. Is that true?

If that's the case, then it's partly the reason why he's cheating on u with such impunity. He knows u can't do much about it. I advice u get urself a job... Sth that can adequately cater 4 ur needs. And still, demand that ur husband does right by u, except u're already prepared to have a "mate" coz ur husband might just make that woman a second life. Then, ur life would become a living hell. It's obvious the other woman's got no conscience nor the fear of God in her.

I'm typing too much! Just get urself a job and decide after then if u want to remain in that marriage with the way things are, and if u'd stay should he decide to take a second wife.

This Na serious something ooo

Oliviaarims:
Wait, I think I'm confused. U allow ur husband bring his mistress into ur matrimonial home? And now, he has to consult her and seek her approval before attending to the needs of ur kids. That's screwed up!

U need to know ur rights as a woman and his wife. Why are are u allowing all these things just go by. U're the Meek wife, huh? Keep playing ignorant and watch ur husband taken away from u right before ur eyes.

If u want to save ur marriage, then u'd best start acting. Confront him. Don't be violent, but ensure to be strict. Demand what u want and that is to stop seeing the woman and bringing her anywhere close to ur home. She shouldn't be remotely involved in ur family affairs. If perhaps he decides to continue seeing her secretly, that's his business... As long as u don't find out and it doesn't in any way affect ur home.

U've got to be very prayerful too. Check urself also to make sure there isn't anything u not doing right. Maybe u're unknowingly sending ur husband into the arms of another woman.

Put the thought of a divorce to rest, for now and see how things go. Just think properly.

they both live in the same home....read her other threads and you will get more light in it

schumastic:


they both live in the same home....read her other threads and you will get more light in it

Who are the "they?" I'm afraid I haven't the time to start reading her previous topics.

Oliviaarims:

Who are the "they?" I'm afraid I haven't the time to start reading her previous topics.

the wife who happens to b the op and his mistress...that's the link

https://www.nairaland.com/2783867/love-punishment-please-advice

schumastic:


the wife who happens to b the op and his mistress...that's the link
https://www.nairaland.com/2783867/love-punishment-please-advice

Hmmmm... I see. Bad situation!

Oliviaarims:

Hmmmm... I see. Bad situation!

yeah really bad n he is a pastor that heads the church. is quite a delicate matter

schumastic:


yeah really bad n he is a pastor that heads the church. is quite a delicate matter

Haa! A pastor at that!

Oliviaarims:

Haa! A pastor at that!

yup yup

Nnem please excuse yourself from that house for now or you tell it straight to him, that he either choose you or his mistress so as to know your stand except you are comfortable with his strange attitude. And don't forget to seek the face of God, most especially for the sake of this wonderful children of yours.

FAKE STORY
I still have hope in people so I refuse to believe that humans can be this dumb.

MissGdope:
FAKE STORY
I still have hope in people so I refuse to believe that humans can be this dumb.

I really concur oh. Sounds fake



Her title say she feel he's cheating#just a feeling, not sure yet oh







Her content is saying something different and from her content, tis hard to believe such





A man who has the guts to bring anoda woman home shouldn't be profesying love naw. Abi how u c am?

dachaste:




I really concur oh. Sounds fake



Her title say she feel he's cheating#just a feeling, not sure yet oh







Her content is saying something different and from her content, tis hard to believe such





A man who has the guts to bring anoda woman home shouldn't be profesying love naw. Abi how u c am?

You spoke my mind jare. It seems to me that half the stories on Naira land are cooked up. Just waay too dumb to believe

MissGdope:

You spoke my mind jare. It seems to me that half the stories on Naira land are cooked up. Just waay too dumb to believe

Seriously oh. And some ppl are too bad in constructing lies.


Evry one wanna maake FP.







If u check her thread self u'll c it. This is d third thread on her cheatin hubby.








If its really true wot have she done so far with the advice she've been receiving?

Nkasiobi87:
he is cheating on me and he even brought his mistress to live with us. he still profess that he loves me and our kids. yesterday he saw me and started shouting at his mistress thinking that I will believe that they are quarreling. after I left I was peeping them through my window he was watching to make sure that am out of sight he immediately knee down and start begging the girl. any time we want to sleep together I notice that he calls her on phone before anything.I just pretend that I don't know. he gets permission from her before giving My kids money anytime they demand something from him. should I tell him all that or should I just write it all down in my divorce papers and serve him.

Walahi d lady don jaz u and ur husband...sotey una dey look make she dey manipulate una home.

so therefore its a spiritual something and not a physical something hence u need serious prayers on d issue

Nkasiobi87:
he is cheating on me and he even brought his mistress to live with us. he still profess that he loves me and our kids. yesterday he saw me and started shouting at his mistress thinking that I will believe that they are quarreling. after I left I was peeping them through my window he was watching to make sure that am out of sight he immediately knee down and start begging the girl. any time we want to sleep together I notice that he calls her on phone before anything.I just pretend that I don't know. he gets permission from her before giving My kids money anytime they demand something from him. should I tell him all that or should I just write it all down in my divorce papers and serve him.

do u live in Eritrea? It seems like the only country now on earth where u can't complain in relation tona second wife!

But if you're not, then you're nothing but a low self-esteemed lady who either has no job, no life, no future and no hope!

I'm not sorry to say that!

Ohh its still a feeling..lemme know when u have confirmed it

loves u n is cheating on u? mutually exclusive o? Pls where r ur parents and wat r they saying in all these? Satanic agents of a hussy n mistress.