that no 3.... ehn... na herbalist go solve d prob

lynn360:

No babes, the question should be...
1. Can you marry a woman who's a bad cook?
2. Can you marry a woman who cannot take care of a home?
3. Can you marry an extravagant woman?
The questions you asked are even fair enough as some guys can deal with the physical commas of a woman but not these ones. The society expects the female folks to be perfect while it's normal for men to be imperfect.#heartbreaking

savcy:




My good God. Where'd you get this kind of wisdom. You must be living abroad.

LOL! I be naija man wey dey see things practically.

Many nairaland ladies hate me for writing hard facts and i thank GOD say i no dey find wife for nairaland.

If they can't handle the truth i guess that is their cup of tea.

I did not write this for the lucky few whose case is different but for the majority of overripe unmarried ladies who still bask in the euphoria of fantasy..

how many rich guy don propose marriage to you? stay dere u go old.. Dnt u knw DAT rich guy dey find rich lady.... #FACT

misspicy:

Help me ask OP o,why would i nor simply go with the rich man since it is not compulsory for the guy i want to suffer with to settledown with me...so i should lose both ways Some guys lack hindsight

OP YOU ARE ON POINT JARE.. I NO PITY THOSE OVERRIPE UNMARRIED LADIES, NA END TIME WE DEY.. MENOPAUSE NA 50YRS NW.. THEM GO MARRY AT 45YRS OLD AFTER THEY REALISE THEY HAVE BEEN DAYDREAMING

Toks2008:


LOL! I be naija man wey dey see things practically.

Many nairaland ladies hate me for writing hard facts and i thank GOD say i no dey find wife for nairaland.

If they can't handle the truth i guess that is their cup of tea.

I did not write this for the lucky few whose case is different but for the majority of overripe unmarried ladies who still bask in the euphoria of fantasy..

wait lemme check ...this one lisemble end time post

#TEAMSELFMADE#NO TIME ATALL. MUST SAVE ATLEAST A MILLION NAIRA BFORE I MARRY

Toks2008 a wedding budget of 50k?hmmmm. i hope u knw 1 dollar to 1 naira is nw 260

nw my fellow ladies can u sponsor some part of ur wedding if ur man cant afford all
nt d pride price ooo. oda stuffs like drinks .decoration etc as for me yes if i hv d money

Toks2008:


You are still one of the myopic people who juxtapose write ups with the writer.What i wrote is a realistic observation and has nada to do with my life or personality so get that erroneous notion outta your brain..

You should as well attribute every story line of a film to the scriptwriter.

But it's true, most guys want the best, see them on the other thread all clamoring for well-endowed, pretty, some said intelligent and the likes. But wld want ladies to settle for less.
Everyone has the right to make his or her choice, whether she is ready to suffer wt a guy or not is her choice. I av no problem wt starting from scratch wt a man but men are most times lack appreciation for the woman tht suffered wt them, only few does. When small change starts getting in, that's when their womanizing spirit rises, when the woman shld be enjoying wht she labored wt him for, he'll rather spend it on girls outside. That's the reality. Not everyone wld marry made men but I don't fault ladies tht wld rather marry Olorunsogo than Surulere. I av many examples around tht never paid off for the women, some even get abandoned by the man when he makes it for another woman.

As far as am concerned; d way ladies present themselves to guys because of money, after 25-30yrs dia's nofin to be married. Only baba God know whr dem put dia senses. 9ja gals God forbid...

This is interesting Is this your way of indirectly making your own proposal to ladies?

HaneefahRN:

But it's true, most guys want the best, see them on the other thread all clamoring for well-endowed, pretty, some said intelligent and the likes. But wld want ladies to settle for less.
Everyone has the right to make his or her choice, whether she is ready to suffer wt a guy or not is her choice. I av no problem wt starting from scratch wt a man but men are most times lack appreciation for the woman tht suffered wt them, only few does. When small change starts getting in, that's when their womanizing spirit rises, when the woman shld be enjoying wht she labored wt him for, he'll rather spend it on girls outside. That's the reality. Not everyone wld marry made men but I don't fault ladies tht wld rather marry Olorunsogo than Surulere. I av many examples around tht never paid off for the women, some even get abandoned by the man when he makes it for another woman.

You see the eproblem..

The embolden says it all..which labor?because you followed your heart?or because you prayed for him to make it? Abeg i no fit shout.

foody:
This is interesting Is this your way of indirectly making your own proposal to ladies?

IFAHIA..

misspicy:

are you minding the eeediot,AF you seen his latest thread?
the guy his an unapologetic demented chauvinist

anyone that agrees with his twisted way of reasoning is decent and classy and anyone that disagrees is a -LovePeddler and slut
some mad people are just roaming around unchecked

please always over look and avoid his mentally unstable threads abeg no let am transfer it to you

Married women email him for advice

I can't believe people women are licking up his posts

He is an unapolegetic sexist

Nonsense any man in any of the above marriage is in for a divorce in no time,if not murder.

Marriage is to be enjoyed,not to be endured.

Tell me,what kind of child will that marriage begot?

Toks2008:


You see the eproblem..

The embolden says it all..which labor?because you followed your heart?or because you prayed for him to make it? Abeg i no fit shout.

U think it's easy coming from a home where u av plenty to come and be drinking garri, taking eba, not affording to buy new clothes, etc? Do u knw some women even establish their husbands or take up the financial burdens of the home cos the man is penniless or has little? But let the man get rich, or even averagely ok, the next thing wld be womanizing, some even maltreat their wives cos of mistresses outside. But I know this is normal for u, afterall the woman followed her heart, afterall he didn't force her to stay by and support him when the going was tough, what right does she av over him or anything he owns?

goldendainty:


ok.

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happy birthday

you will be good in giraffing

seaga:

Why do you get what is saying, he isn't saying anyone should dupe a lady after been successful, he is saying dating or loving someone should be unconditional. Be it rich or poor date unconditionally. Rich dumps poor dumps too vice versa. No favours

Be practical, love is conditional

If the rich or the poor could dump you at will

Why do you have to follow the poor then? At least with the rich there is an added advantage

HaneefahRN:

U think it's easy coming from a home where u av plenty to come and be drinking garri, taking eba, not affording to buy new clothes, etc? Do u knw some women even establish their husbands or take up the financial burdens of the home cos the man is penniless or has little? But let the man get rich, or even averagely ok, the next thing wld be womanizing, some even maltreat their wives cos of mistresses outside. But I know this is normal for u, afterall the woman followed her heart, stood by and supported him when the going was tough, what right does she av over him or anything he owns?

Please i am not referring to those set of women but those who just believe that they are doing a man a huge favor patching up with him while he has nothing.

Its not a favor and she is free to walk away if she feels she is in that affair for any other thing except following her heart. Shikenah

AleAirHub:
How are wish say Gloria go come see these level and that yeye nemi way dey say she no go fit roll with hustler/ struggling guy....


Cc Winetapper

hehehe you never wan forget Gloria

Omotayor123:

Honestly speaking, most ladies tend to say No to those questions. We want it Big at once But life is not a bed of roses!
You have to loose something to gain something!

Now this is wife material. Up for grabs?

HaneefahRN:

U think it's easy coming from a home where u av plenty to come and be drinking garri, taking eba, not affording to buy new clothes, etc? Do u knw some women even establish their husbands or take up the financial burdens of the home cos the man is penniless or has little? But let the man get rich, or even averagely ok, the next thing wld be womanizing, some even maltreat their wives cos of mistresses outside. But I know this is normal for u, afterall the woman followed her heart, stood by and supported him when the going was tough, what right does she av over him or anything he owns?

A woman who reminds her husband of what she has done for you is not good woman/wife

However a husband who does the same has committed no crime. In fact, her other name is 'INGRATE'

HaneefahRN:

U think it's easy coming from a home where u av plenty to come and be drinking garri, taking eba, not affording to buy new clothes, etc? Do u knw some women even establish their husbands or take up the financial burdens of the home cos the man is penniless or has little? But let the man get rich, or even averagely ok, the next thing wld be womanizing, some even maltreat their wives cos of mistresses outside. But I know this is normal for u, afterall the woman followed her heart, afterall he didn't force her to stay by and support him when the going was tough, what right does she av over him or anything he owns?

u hv a point tho. hv seen such story on nairaland

daretodiffer:


Married women email him for advice

I can't believe people women are licking up his posts

He is an unapolegetic sexist

you are missing see,AF you seen the latest virgin in town check her out on this thread....
..
www.nairaland.com/2793780/when-guy-makes-love-condom

they are his children he is training

buhahahahahahakwakeakwakwa

rolling on the floor laughing

daretodiffer:


A woman who reminds her husband of what she has done for you is not good woman/wife

However a husband who does the same has committed no crime. In fact, her other name is 'INGRATE'

Abi nau. The double standard is annoying really. I don't think either party shld make an habit of reminding themselves of favors done. Men usually bring tht up when they are doing something very wrong but expect the woman to keep quiet and be 'mature'. They can freely display immaturity but women av to be the perfect example of maturity, suck everything up wtout a word of complaint

misspicy:

you are missing see,AF you seen the latest virgin in town check her out on this thread....
..
www.nairaland.com/2793780/when-guy-makes-love-condom

they are his children he is training

buhahahahahahakwakeakwakwa

rolling on the floor laughing

I am about to say my own o

HaneefahRN:

Abi nau. The double standard is annoying really. I don't think either party shld make an habit of reminding themselves of favors done. Men usually bring tht up when they are doing something very wrong but expect the woman to keep quiet and be 'mature'. They can freely display immaturity but women av to be the perfect example of maturity, suck everything up wtout a word of complaint

She must be mature. If she isn't, she is going to be lonely and hse might die a spinster with 10 cats.

daretodiffer:

I am about to say my own o

kakakakakakikikukikikikikujujijikikiki.... lmao

Vikky014:
u hv a point tho. hv seen such story on nairaland

My sister there are many stories like this outside there, and there are some (or few I knw), who had luck, I know a SAN tht even after the wife's death appreciates her so much becos he realized the goodness she did for him, the support she gave to him when he had nothing, he found it hard to marry a 2nd time cos he was scared of his children being maltreated by another woman and made sure all his children had the best, such men are few tho, many wld forget tht woman in a twinkling of an eye and start chasing everything in skirt, claiming to be enjoying their lives when money comes, they wld rather spend on mistresses than the wife. But let's just pray for the best man for us whether ready made or surulere, and women also av to knw what they are doing cos many men ain't trustworthy

Let me add to the op questions.

6. Ladies can you marry a married man.

I know most ladies will say he'll no to this question. But deep down in Thier heart, if a heavily rich guy that is married seek Thier hand in marriage, they would have said yes ten times before the guy complete the statements: would you marry me?

Looking at it statistically, the ratio of marriageable man to marriageable woman that are still single, the gab is wide. The ratio will be nothing less than 1 to 10. So, for every lady that got married 9 will not be married. So, if ladies decided not to practice polygamy but monogamy, they should not be surprised if at the end of the day some of them could get a man to marry them. Moreover, the ratio gap is increasing by the day.

HaneefahRN:

My sister there are many stories like this outside there, and there are some (or few I knw), who had luck, I know a SAN tht even after the wife's death appreciates her so much becos he realized the goodness she did for him, the support she gave to him when he had nothing, he found it hard to marry a 2nd time cos he was scared of his children being maltreated by another woman and made sure all his children had the best, such men are few tho, many wld forget tht woman in a twinkling of an eye and start chasing everything in skirt, claiming to be enjoying their lives when money comes, they wld rather spend on mistresses than the wife. But let's just pray for the best man for us whether ready made or surulere, and women also av to knw what they are doing cos many men ain't trustworthy

yes dts true mydear. cheers.

bt i i think any lady dt wants to marry shld also b saving money. infact a jobless lady shld nt marry a struggling guy. d kids will suffer. common pampers is very costly nt to tlk of babys food

Trustworthiness:
Let me add to the op questions.

6. Ladies can you marry a married man.

I know most ladies will say he'll no to this question. But deep down in Thier heart, if a heavily rich guy that is married seek Thier hand in marriage, they would have said yes ten times before the guy complete the statements: would you marry me?

Looking at it statistically, the ratio of marriageable man to marriageable woman that are still single, the gab is wide. The ratio will be nothing less than 1 to 10. So, for every lady that got married 9 will not be married. So, if ladies decided not to practice polygamy but monogamy, they should not be surprised if at the end of the day some of them could get a man to marry them. Moreover, the ratio gap is increasing by the day.

o chim oooo is nt a must to get married in dis time and age ooo

How else should this be broken down for your dum* brains to understand?

Love should be unconditional, how hard is that abeg?