...It Is totally out of control now. I have read different posts on self-service method, believing that it's only helping me to stop running after girls all in the name of sex.

Often, some people just screw it up by saying that masturbation is not a sin; only to encourage others to continue in the ungodly act.
Either the act is good or bad, right or wrong, all I care is that this shit is sucking my happiness.
I can not go a day without self-service. Although i don't have girlfriend, and I don't care about it because I always believe that girls have nothing to offer me since I'm not ready for marriage soon!

Is now 13yrs I been doing this shit!

I want to stop. I know i'm addicted to it; so many times I have vowed never to engage in it again, but the more I shake It the more it stinks.

pls what can I do?

I want to quit! I don't want to believe that my life depend on it.

I know some of you might have once involve in this mess before, please just tell me what I need to know.
why I need to stop, and how to stop it.

Help a brother!!!!!

Cut off your Hand...

My brother try indian medication.

Always use chilli paste to mas'te

iceberylin:
Cut off your Hand...

I know u can say something beta than this, bro

13 years? damn
The best way is to get a job
Idle hand is the devil work shop

211Observer:
I know u can say something beta than this, bro

That's a perfect one.

Ayo081:
13 years? damn The best way is to get a job Idle hand is the devil work shop

ama student

13 yrs??.......ahh.....u beta cut dat tin off

Whenever u are about to start masturbating, look up and ask yourself, "What is Jesus thinking right now?"

Bro, trust me on this one.

Pray to God about it and you will see changes

U got the will in u if u wana stop it.try not to watch porn again,pray to God,bt above all na u oooo.no one puts ur hand in ur dick now,so when d urge comes,just tell it no,if u can go 3 days,u try,after 3 days aim for 1 week,if u can,u are winning d battle then u go for a month.guy am not sayin it easy ooo,bt it very achievable.I wish u all d best.

Twaci:
Whenever u are about to start masturbating, look up and ask yourself, "What is Jesus thinking right now?"

Bro, trust me on this one.

twaci I already love u.lol.op twaci has given u d best answer.wat would jah b tinkin when u do it.

Twaci:
Whenever u are about to start masturbating, look up and ask yourself, "What is Jesus thinking right now?"

Bro, trust me on this one.

lols.. I will consider ur opinion, sis.




but is it a sin bfor God?

adajiboyy:
U got the will in u if u wana stop it.try not to watch porn again,pray to God,bt above na u oooo.no one puts ur hand in ur dick now,so when d urge comes,just tell it no,if u can go 3 days,u try,after 3 days aim for 1 week,if u can,u are winning d battle then u go for a month.guy am not sayin it easy ooo,bt it very achievable.I wish u all d best.

adajiboyy:
U got the will in u if u wana stop it.try not to watch porn again,pray to God,bt above na u oooo.no one puts ur hand in ur dick now,so when d urge comes,just tell it no,if u can go 3 days,u try,after 3 days aim for 1 week,if u can,u are winning d battle then u go for a month.guy am not sayin it easy ooo,bt it very achievable.I wish u all d best.

adajiboyy:
U got the will in u if u wana stop it.try not to watch porn again,pray to God,bt above na u oooo.no one puts ur hand in ur dick now,so when d urge comes,just tell it no,if u can go 3 days,u try,after 3 days aim for 1 week,if u can,u are winning d battle then u go for a month.guy am not sayin it easy ooo,bt it very achievable.I wish u all d best.

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211Observer:
lols.. I will consider ur opinion, sis.




but is it a sin bfor God?

u no no ni.how do u fill after u cum,tired,frustrated,guilty,ur conscience pricks u,its bkus its sin.JAH is not happy u his son is doin it.GOD would help us all amen.bt u can stop it ok,wit greater will.its not real.

211Observer:
...Is totally out of control now. I av read diff post on self-service method, blvn that it's only helping me to stop runnning after girls all in the name of sex.

often, some ppl just screw it up by saying that masturbation is not a sin; only to encourage others to continue in the ungodly act.
Either the act is gud or bad. right or wrong, all I care is that this shit is sucking my happiness.
I can not go a day without self-service. Although i dnt have girlfriend, nd I dnt care about it bcoz i always blv that girls has nothing to offer me since I'm not ready for marraige soon!

Is now 13yrs I been doing this shit!

I want to stop. I know i'm addicted to it; so many time I av vowed never to engage in it again, but the more I shake It the more it stinks.

pls what can I do?

I want to quit! I dnt want to blv that my life depend on it.

I know some of you might av once involve in this mess bfor, pls just tell me wat I need to know.
why I need to stop, nd how to stop it.

Help a brother!!!!!

How it starts!
Before the masturbation starts, it begins with a strange feeling of 'i wanna sex', which then graduates to thinking 'sex'. In this 2 previous process, if one didnt shrug it off by leaving a lonely place, its gonna move on. Then you get to the stage of false imaginations, like maybe previous intercourse ot fantacise about some one u lik or you wanna av fun with. When in this stage, it starts getting a bit hard to stop, but yoyu can.

If still yet you not stopping, then its gonna be like, let my HOOD have some fresh air, lemme just play with it...blah blah blah! By then, that poo has already started!

Way to stop!

1. Determine to stop. Not just an ordinary determination, but the one that will look like...'if i do this again am gonna die'(thou you wont).
But having a strong willed mind will be a starting point.
2. Get rid of porn sites off ur mind and porn movies off your mobile. Thats not so easy, but you have to be disciplined.
3. it might warrant you not staring too long at the opposite sex.
4. Beware of the films you watch, sites you visit and the discussion you have.

My story!

Am becoming an addict(going to 3years) to this too and am gonna stop it. Today makes it a week i last acted it. Though am not guaranteed of freedom from it yet, but i know my determination to overcome will see me through.
Funny enough, fasting and prayer is never enough to conquer masturbation, strong mind, determination and discipline will...
Hope to hear from you after recovery bro!

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211Observer:
lols.. I will consider ur opinion, sis.




but is it a sin bfor God?

I won't answer that question. Search deep within yourself, you know the truth.

adajiboyy:
twaci I already love u.lol.op twaci has given u d best answer.wat would jah b tinkin when u do it.

Abi oh. The urge sef will disappear.

adajiboyy:
u no no ni.how do u fill after u cum,tired,frustrated,guilty,ur conscience pricks u,its bkus its sin.JAH is not happy u his son is doin it.GOD would help us all amen.bt u can stop it ok,wit greater will.its not real.

You re winning bro. I will post on this forum wen I go a month without jerking!

Get yourself a girlfriend @ op.

211Observer:
You re winning bro. I will post on this forum wen I go a month without jerking!

amen bro amen.no body holy pass oooo,bt we learn from d story of others,u on wasapp ba.add me 09090260237.I would be ur friend tro dis journey.add me aiit.God help u amen my bro.

Stop visiting NL

211Observer:
...Is totally out of control now. I av read diff post on self-service method, blvn that it's only helping me to stop runnning after girls all in the name of sex.

often, some ppl just screw it up by saying that masturbation is not a sin; only to encourage others to continue in the ungodly act.
Either the act is gud or bad. right or wrong, all I care is that this shit is sucking my happiness.
I can not go a day without self-service. Although i dnt have girlfriend, nd I dnt care about it bcoz i always blv that girls has nothing to offer me since I'm not ready for marraige soon!

Is now 13yrs I been doing this shit!

I want to stop. I know i'm addicted to it; so many time I av vowed never to engage in it again, but the more I shake It the more it stinks.

pls what can I do?

I want to quit! I dnt want to blv that my life depend on it.

I know some of you might av once involve in this mess bfor, pls just tell me wat I need to know.
why I need to stop, nd how to stop it.

Help a brother!!!!!

I onced lived this terrible and self destructive life, at a time, I felt I was never going to overcome, I kept praying and asking God to help me and it seemed as though I was wasting my time, but one thing about God is that He constantly wishes and wants us well.
The first thing you need to understand is that you are in a fierce war with satanic agents - invisible to the human eye but so real as you and me.

I engaged in a spiritual war against these wicked vipers - this was necessary to reclaim all the natural virtues that God had pre-deposited in your life, engaged in total sanctification through prayer and fasting and asked God "what next" ... and he showed me three major techniques to continuously overcome.

Before anything, confess your sins and submit to the Lord Jesus. Genuinely tell him to come into your life and make you anew. YES it's the first step before any other step to Victory. When you are done with this then you can now roll;

1. Guiding the heart and mind diligently: prov. 4:23 this is the first step to wining, because your mind is the initial battlefield, if you loose this initial battle, then it will be by God's divine grace for you to stand. Immediately the thought comes ino your mind, resist and rebuke it aggressively (you will have to speak it with faith and confidence, James 4:7b.) The moment this happens it will be as if you are poured cold water and you will Feel sudden calmness. I strongly recommend this books "battlefield of the mind" by Joyce Meyer, and "Pigs in the parlor" by Frank Hammond.

2. Be alert and vigilant: You have successfully scaled through step one and you are happy but you are just getting started because demons never give up, they have been on earth before us and have handled even tougher people before now and still messed them up, so what you just did seems to be like a newbie stunt to them. The Bible says 'be sober and vigilant because your adversary the devil as a ROARING LION seeketh whom he will destroy. 1pet:5v8. You need to develop that mindset of the active presence of demonic presence around you, because the most workable trick used by these wicked entities for ages is to give us an impression that they ARE NOT REAL!
Why you this mindset is to keep yourself active because they will be coming a second time, with fiercer energy, and when do resist them again. If you are in a room or in an enclosed place kindly step out of that place, remember it's a war and it's not about just spiritual but also physical. Don't worry, in a couple of months you would have garned sufficient grace to resist the thoughts and maintain position.

3. Cut off negative stimulants and pollutants: There are things you must stop to maintain soundness. pornography, toxic relationships and associations, you may not believe but if you are a fan of trace, hip tv, soundcity or other secular music channel, I tell you this truth that majority of what is being pushed to us is sexually defiling, Highly contaminable and destructive. The magnitude of what you take into your mind is what later hunts or uplifts you.
The word of God must be your constant companion because that is the only way you can get fresh first hand clue from God to rewin.
I am a living testimony of God's divine deliverance and I assure you that soon you will also be a n encouragement to someone to. Be strong, be courageous, God is faithful, His thoughts for you are of peace and not of evil, You will overcome, because Christ overcame, He knows you need help, keep asking him to fix you again, and He would.
Remain blessed!

Twaci:
Whenever u are about to start masturbating, look up and ask yourself, "What is Jesus thinking right now?"

Bro, trust me on this one.

Actually,this is what Jesus would think. So no help there.

cold:

Actually,this is what Jesus would think. So no help there.

lwkmd ooo....funny guy....hw jesus go talk so?


Abi jesus go say "abi u wan masturbate....iffa see u hold dt tin i go commot am 4 ur body

cold:

Actually,this is what Jesus would think. So no help there.

Thats just downright creepy

Twaci:
Thats just downright creepy

I know right. I've been told his ways are not our ways so what can i say?It is what it is.

This one is strong!


to those saying you should get rid of porn from your phone . . . well, what about the porn on the streets?

the truth is, there is probably not much you can do about it yourself. it's become an addiction. your body thinks it's normal.(apparently it is . . . or not . . . who even knows.)

so you might want to use what is called neuroassociative conditioning. where you reward yourself for not wanking off, and punish yourself for doing so. or you can have someone else do it for you.

the problem here is you have to actually find an equally satisfying venture to replace your urges for this to work. how you are going to do that . . . i have no idea. but if you are unable to replace the faux happiness it gives you with something equally satisfying but otherwise more . . . acceptable, you'll just find yourself going back to it.

my opinion.

Twaci:
Whenever u are about to start masturbating, look up and ask yourself, "What is Jesus thinking right now?"

Bro, trust me on this one.

hahaha.

There's no bloody way this is going to ever work. you know why?

because at that point, the limbic system is dominant. the part of the brain that controls the basest desires of humans, is in full force. and when this is happening, the cerebral cortex cannot do anything. the order of priority is clear, when the limbic system wants something, the cortex cannot override it.

so at that point, philosophizing about what Jesus is thinking would be totally pointless. he won't even be able to reach a conclusion as the limbic system continues to bombard the mind with urges that cannot be overcome by logic or reasoning.

this is probably why rapists and murders blame the devil for their actions. they are yet to realize that the real culprit is their own malfunctioning limbic system.