Dotwillis1:
Go sleep with another woman!

2 wrongs..

firstly i don't believe your story at all because have read something like this before, secondly my advise is go on your own because no matter how much you forgive you we never forget the incident and it we keep hurting you and the house we never be the same again and believe me for her to cheat on you countless time the same thing we happen again once she cheat on you she can do it again and again, why can't you go and confirm if your kids is urs?

Bro it's a pity ur wife is a LovePeddler......

Haaa for she to have the mind to bring anoda man into ur bed room for a week omo ur own don finish.....anytime dem call u for conference now ur mind go de cut...lol...see divorce d s..t....or revenge back by bringin 2 oloshos to strip for u....n bang u...na there she go taya for u come leave uu

bros i feel ur pain. see some mothers do av em.

My advise, take ur marriage now as a corporate game. Study strategy on how to beat ur competitor. Ur wife's lover.

Think she will come after this. if not just kiss her and say goodbye.

By the way, if u guys don't have kids, sorry bro, the marriage is as good as dead. No point playing the game.

Men wif no cojones nowadays and 9ja men r so lucky if u divorce ur wife hardly any alimony.... No child or spousal support..... Comon divorce her..... Best part u even get to keep the children.... Weak man.... She is mor vulnerable than u sef a divorced woman afta 15 years of marriage no body will marry dat.... Dey wil jus be hittin her up..... 5 years afta d divorc she wil come beggin u

Flashh:
See as I dey look you.
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hahahah u funny die.you for explain the meaning of that look to him now.

kingabdull:
Kill your self and she will go marry that man straight up. Shiiiooooor

Dats exactly how it should be right? The man would marry her bla bla bla.... But hate to burst ur burble, dats a sham, a complete sham. He would not evn somuch as tink of marryin her. She'll just suddenly find herself alone.. Some women no get dot (.) For their head.

Kill yourself

Estharfabian:
LoL

Thankyou...
Uh...Still learning actually...Still in Process!

While I still admire women who find ecstasy in Manning d wheels of a four legged instrument of conveyance in our modern society... "Confidence" should b ur watch word, my lady.

I hope u find pleasure in d most pleasurable way whilst embarking on ya course.

Your opinion!
What guarantees the next woman won't cheat ?
This stick no good comot am for fire ,this one too no good comot am for fire
Which one you take boil yam ?

mart2k:
THRASH

Do to her what what you'd want her to do to you if she caught you sleeping with another woman...

Just look for money and buy her the latest Range Rover Sport and the guy.

I think this advice will help you since you need one.

Put Magun 'AKA Thurnderbot' on her body and d rest is History.....Quote 6ft

Chei, I just feel like breaking ur wife's head and breaking ur arm for thinking of staying in d marriage.

Man, you said he's thicker than you, u think u ar gonna satisfy ur wife after tasting sumtin bigger and thicker? Hell no! You foreva remain not man enuf for her.

I know seeing one's partner cheating is heart-breaking, wrecking, killing and annoying! BT u gatz to life above that man.

God forgive me for dis advice, brt.....Divorce and seek if u can find ursef lucky to av a faithful lady out there, cos there seems to be few "Ladies' nowadays, wat we av are 'bitcches'!

Still feel like breaking ur wife's head tho!

Thou shalt not marry an idle wife or keep an idle girlfriend. Both are undisciplined and will soon manifest their indiscipline in myriad ways!!!

Estharfabian:
I don't get why people cheat....The stench is alarming! How do they even cope with the guilt?

If You feel You're No Longer compatible with Your partner..A simple "Hey, I wanna breakup..this isn't working" Would do...It's gonna be hard but less painful n Heartbreaking.


infidelity in Marriage isn't something You just Overlook... Once a Cheater, Always a cheater..


Dump the biitch and Re-Marry!! Easypizzy! Problem solved!
For better for worse my Round black Ass!

thank u. Spoken like a true learned person

gabicon:


I think the problem is your conception on forgiveness. Forgiveness means you stop talking and thinking of the wrong done you. Secondly forgiveness is of the heart same way love is, your head will try to picture the episode over and over but you heart has to tell your head that you have forgiven your wife.

Your wife is venerable after you caught her and a vacuum of guilt is needing filling, the question is are you going to fill it or are you going to allow her lover fill it?

If possible take sometime off work check you and your wife in a hotel outside town and talk about how you feel to her and ask questions about her affair, and her sexual disposition and most importantly forgive yourselves. You may be surprised that the whole affair was your fault, yes she had no moral right to cheat but you also had no moral right to starve her of attention and sex.

what kinda trashbare u spilling here so all u can say is its the OPs fault his wife cheated or what Na pole like u dey always give false advice

My friend, you have established a case of infidelity, then you have to do what is right for you and the Children, do you guys have any?

First ask her to return to her mothers after confronting her with the evidence.

Keep the Kids with you so you can clear your head.

If there is remorse and genuine change in habit from her, take her back if you can else take your time to find someone who feels same way with you about cheating.

Don't waste your time thinking there are better ladies outside, as the wife who stayed with you for 15years is far holier than the present crop of girls and fair weather spouses ....no offence ladies.

Confessng:
For better for worse!
However remember for a woman to cheat the man must have touched her sensitive spots(not her body but her mind)

Except you married an Olosho in which case you have only yourself to blame .

If the first is the case you may want to call take some days off work and try to get to the depth of what happened .

Betterstill use the spyware to find out how he is making love to her mind ,trust me its not about how endowed the man is that you aren't....

The vjay is elastic if it isn't slack then size shouldn't be such a big deal

No offense oh but this one na absolute bullcrap [b]''However remember for a woman to cheat the man must have touched her sensitive spots(not her body but her mind)''[b/] sensitive ke that one na excuse to cheat?....mtchewww

lordcornel:
Give her H2so4 as breakfast...

Wicked being

I don't know Abt the op but me can't definitely forgive my wife if she Indulge in such despicable thing. My best bet is to divorce her with immediate alacrity. No room for sentiment, the more I see her the more pained I will surely become so to save myself the heart ache is to release her into the waiting hands of her new found sex partner.

Go sleep with another woman

Confessng:
Your opinion!
What guarantees the next woman won't cheat ?
This stick no good comot am for fire ,this one too no good comot am for fire
Which one you take boil yam ?

And who told u he cnt remain without wife,after all he has children already

the only solution is to try n satisfy her in bed nxt time

Realwvn:
My wife and I had been married 15 years and we had been through some challenging times like most couples. Our sex life was regular but my wife was never really willing to explore things in the bedroom and whilst I desired her to be more adventurous l accepted it.

The results stunned me as l found my wife was . I accessed emails and pics and found my wife had spent a weekend not with a friend but with a guy who she spent all weekend sleeping with. Explicit pics showed her being a total dirty slut and the guy was very well endowed and noticeably much thicker than I. He had also travelled and slept with her in our bed whilst l was on the conference.

I love her so much, I have forgiven her but the thought of it can’t make me go near her again.. I don’t know what to do, I am scared of starting over with another woman again or being alone


http://www.naijanewsrave.com/my-wife-slept-with-another-man-what-should-i-do/

I was feeling sorry for him until I read the part in bold. No man would describe his wife's lover in such manner.

Forgive her

She can't help it

Men will get attracted to her and it is understandable to fall into temptations every now and then

Don't blame her. Blame the devil

you cannot get divorce after 15 years of marriage because of one minor issue

Take heart

oluwafreshkid:


I was feeling sorry for him until I read the part in bold. No man would describe his wife's lover in such manner.

You are wrong

it is a sign of complex. He is trying to blame himself for not having enough

sneak3:
I don't know Abt the op but me can't definitely forgive my wife if she Indulge in such despicable thing. My best bet is to divorce her with immediate alacrity. No room for sentiment, the more I see her the more pained I will surely become so to save myself the heart ache is to release her into the waiting hands of her new found sex partner.

She will be too smart to catch

Don't worry

lahit14:


Dats exactly how it should be right? The man would marry her bla bla bla.... But hate to burst ur burble, dats a sham, a complete sham. He would not evn somuch as tink of marryin her. She'll just suddenly find herself alone.. Some women no get dot (.) For their head.

Some men no get dot for their head.

I take it you are one of them

daretodiffer:




She will be too smart to catch

Don't worry

Her world against mine then... Though I will be very careful in selecting a wife... Infidelity is something I can't just forgive n forget. Gona be very very very hard

Personally I will opt for divorce. This applies to me, if I start sleeping outside my marriage, it means my wife does not satisfy me sexually.
So if my wife sleeps with another, I will assume she does not get sexual satisfaction from me. And when she starts you can't stop her

There are better ways to deal with an adulterous wife..

You need not spend a dime on divorcing her but turn her to your LovePeddler while you calmly look for another wife because sending her out means giving the other randy guy full access to a lady you have loved and nurtured for years so dont grant them that luxury at all.


Shebbi she has chosen to be a LovePeddler then i will treat her like a real LovePeddler while taking my time to get another lady.

But if you really love her and she is sorry and really repentant abeg just bone cos there is no guaranty that the next one wont be far worse.

But honestly,when a lady cheats on her hubby,nah serious issue.