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weirdgf:
I am in a long distance relationship,i base somewhere in oyo state and she stays in lagos,we have been dating for the past 3 years and it has been smooth so far but recently my gf just got admission into the university and she is yet to get an hostel to stay in and is presently squatting with a guy who she claims is her 'friend' buh when she started squatting with the guy i was unaware of it which is unlike her,before she gained admission,i know every detail of her movements even the one her parents doesnt know. The real prob now is that since the time she started squatting with the guy,she rarely call me,text or even send a call me sms,she starts sleeping early these days and oir conversations have been scanty unlike before and the phrase I LOVE U doesnt come from her anymore evn tho i say it a million times,she wont even respond once.. Romancelanders ,am really baffled and heartbroken

Best advice: move on.

tek her 2 TB joshua

Officialkenshin:


Best advice: move on.

Bro its not as easy as that,i have been committed to this girl for three years and i have pland of marrying her right after my bsc degree,am in 300 level now.. Am just so heartbroken

The Bigger the cucumber the .....

weirdgf:


Bro its not as easy as that,i have been committed to this girl for three years and i have pland of marrying her right after my bsc degree,am in 300 level now.. Am just so heartbroken

He said move, ur saying heart broken.... seems you don't understand? move on means be happy wit life and get the best but heart broken means being sad and loose so many things ...choose ur destiny

Sorry bros. .. move on to the next best thing

weirdgf:


Bro its not as easy as that,i have been committed to this girl for three years and i have pland of marrying her right after my bsc degree,am in 300 level now.. Am just so heartbroken

It's not just about you planning on marrying her; she has to want it too, from your write up, it seems the girl is pretty young around age 21 to 22, majority of this ladies are still up coming and are not yet ready, she has met someone else in school whom she's sleeping with, why waste your time, efforts, resources and go through emotional pains because of a girl who doesn't value you ? You are just used to being with her (it's normal) try to get your mind off her, meet other pretty ladies, you will see in no time you won't even remember her name, it once happened to me and this is how I got over it and why even be committed to a lady whose not even your wife? If you ask me that's very risky, devil's bargain, change is constant, people are bound to change for good or bad, so don't let it pull you down, to avoid hurting more, just move on man, ! So many years ahead of you, if you even move to other parts of Nigeria and Africa or to other continents, you will see lots of women that will even make you forget your wife, it has happened to lots of people before, a brighter future ahead, It's better to suffer now and enjoy later than to enjoy now and suffer later when your mates are enjoying life, it's an advise, can take it if you want.

Officialkenshin:


It's not just about you planning on marrying her; she has to want it too, from your write up, it seems the girl is pretty young around age 21 to 22, majority of this ladies are still up coming and are not yet ready, she has met someone else in school whom she's sleeping it, why waste your time, efforts, resources and go through emotional pains because of a girl who doesn't value you ? You are just used to being with her (it's normal) try to get your mind off her, meet other pretty ladies you will see in no time you won't even remember her, it once happened to me this is how I got over it and why even be committed to a lady whose not even your wife? If you ask me that's very risky, devil's bargain, change is constant, people are bound to change for good or bad, so don't let it pull you down, to avoid hurting more, just move on man, ! So many years ahead of you, if you even move to other parts of Nigeria and Africa or to other continents, you will see lots of women that will even make you forget your wife, it has happened to lots of people before, a brighter future ahead, It's better to suffer now and enjoy later than to enjoy now and suffer later when your mates are enjoying life, it's an advise of can take it if you want.

Thanks bro i really appreciate ypur matured advice

libertyfather:


He said move, ur saying heart broken.... seems you don't understand? move on means be happy wit life and get the best but heart broken means being sad and loose so many things ...choose ur destiny

Thanks bro,guess i will choose the happy part

weirdgf:


Thanks bro i really appreciate ypur matured advice

No probs.

this is one of the disadvantages about long distance relationships...ma bro just forget her matter cuz the guy dey nack her apkako.

And you still call her your girlfriend?

Ur funny bro

Try 2 take ur Heart off her... Women, ladies, girls do what they want to do... No amount of wailing will change her mind unless she wants 2.

once your girlfriend enters school,forget it

My brother just move on, trust me I am not one of these NL guys that are reckless with their comments, who will just come and tell u to "move on" "ditch the b**ch" without giving thoughts to the situation. Some will even call you a fool and a weakling.

Listen, I know how you feel, 3yrs is a long time, you have been so attached to her, u love her, u have envisioned a life together with her, u are a soft hearted loving person and no one can blame u for being a loving person. If the parameters where different I would have advised u to try to work it out with her, but my brother the handwriting is all over the wall. Sometimes when we love someone so much, we tend to be blinded by what's happening, we try to give explanations to faults, we want to believe it is not what is happening.

She is even living with a guy in his house, ah!!! What more is there left? Women cheat, as long as u guys are not married, even married women cheat, if she had cheated and had asked u to forgive her, I would have advised u to, but this is over, she is hoping u would get the message and move on.

CaroLyner:
once your girlfriend enters school,forget it

Abeg i no get d strength to laugh

martyns303:
My brother just move on, trust me I am not one of these NL guys that are reckless with their comments, who will just come and tell u to "move on" "ditch the b**ch" without giving thoughts to the situation. Some will even call you a fool and a weakling.

Listen, I know how you feel, 3yrs is a long time, you have been so attached to her, u love her, u have envisioned a life together with her, u are a soft hearted loving person and no one can blame u for being a loving person. If the parameters where different I would have advised u to try to work it out with her, but my brother the handwriting is all over the wall. Sometimes when we love someone so much, we tend to be blinded by what's happening, we try to give explanations to faults, we want to believe it is not what is happening.

She is even living with a guy in his house, ah!!! What more is there left? Women cheat, as long as u guys are not married, even married women cheat, if she had cheated and had asked u to forgive her, I would have advised u to, but this is over, she is hoping u would get the message and move on.

Thanks a lot for that self explanatory advice

weirdgf:


Bro its not as easy as that,i have been committed to this girl for three years and i have pland of marrying her right after my bsc degree,am in 300 level now.. Am just so heartbroken

just forget about her cus the moment she started staying with that guy, marked the end and beginning of another relationship.

don't be surprise she has been keeping in touch with that guy at your back..sorry bro but just move on, that's ladies for you