How true?

Just dont be a maga!

Cutehector:
Just dont be a maga!

But don't forget to contribute your quota

Chidoks:


But don't forget to contribute your quota

i dnt need to buy a girl"s love with material gifts!

Op, go n charge ur phone,

Is this an advice or what

Not always true

Some minutes
Lemme finish my magic moment first

Cutehector:
i dnt need to buy a girl"s love with material gifts!

Sir,but reaching out is not synonymous with buying love na. Love is technical y'know.

MrHighSea:
Op, go n charge ur phone,

What's wrong with my phone?

Godfullsam:
Is this an advice or what

An observation...

Mariecakes:
Not always true

Are you saying that it's possible to date/curt a woman without contributing anything to her wellbeing,no input whatsoever?

Not true

If your girlfriend or wife has her own money and buys stuff for herself nko?

Or are you saying all women have to be dependent on men to look good

Chidoks:

Sir,but reaching out is not synonymous with buying love na. Love is technical y'know.

abegi... Spare me d lecture... U ladies just finding ways to justify guys spendn on yall... Look let me tell u, if u gat money, u dnt need a man to shower u gifts..

Cutehector:
abegi... Spare me d lecture... U ladies just finding ways to justify guys spendn on yall... Look let me tell u, if u gat money, u dnt need a man to shower u gifts..

OK,I'll not lecture you but all I know is that when you love(not limited to the man/woman relationship) you tend to seek to please the parties involved by doing stuffs to make them smile.It all boils down to giving.I didn't say being exploited o.I said giving.

raumdeuter:
Not true

If your girlfriend or wife has her own money and buys stuff for herself nko?

Or are you saying all women have to be dependent on men to look good

My thoughts exactly! Help me ask him

raumdeuter:
Not true

If your girlfriend or wife has her own money and buys stuff for herself nko?

Or are you saying all women have to be dependent on men to look good

Are you equally saying that if your wife has money that you won't buy her stuffs?Well I've always thought that it's the duty of a man to take care of his woman especially his wife regardless of her financial status.I stand to be corrected but that is what I see everyday,that is what I believe.
I had to look at that piece again,the author said he has to contribute something no matter how broke he may be and that's okay by me

Chidoks:

OK,I'll not lecture you but all I know is that when you love(not limited to the man/woman relationship) you tend to seek to please the parties involved by doing stuffs to make them smile.It all boils down to giving.I didn't say being exploited o.I said giving.

bia, e b like say u too like material gifts! It neva boils and will neva boil down to giving... If you are the type dat loves a guy due to his gifts den dat is ur problem. I pity the guy dats gona love u anyways.

Cutehector:
bia, e b like say u too like material gifts! It neva boils and will neva boil down to giving... If you are the type dat loves a guy due to his gifts den dat is ur problem. I pity the guy dats gona love u anyways.

Sir I'm not materialistic.Please we are speaking generally,don't narrow it down to me. Are you really saying that a man can date/marry a woman without giving her gifts?if you are against the maga thing that's ok but ruling out exchange of gifts is really hard to swallow

Chidoks:

Sir I'm not materialistic.Please we are speaking generally,don't narrow it down to me. Are you really saying that a man can date/marry a woman without giving her gifts?if you are against the maga thing that's ok but ruling out exchange of gifts is really hard to swallow

yes a man can date a woman without givin her gifts... If she doesnt require it, its not necesary.. The love and attemtion and care is most important!

Cutehector:
yes a man can date a woman without givin her gifts... If she doesnt require it, its not necesary.. The love and attemtion and care is most important!

Please can she offer gifts to him? What happens when they eventually get married?

Chidoks:


Are you equally saying that if your wife has money that you won't buy her stuffs?Well I've always thought that it's the duty of a man to take care of his woman especially his wife regardless of her financial status.I stand to be corrected but that is what I see everyday,that is what I believe.
I had to look at that piece again,the author said he has to contribute something no matter how broke he may be and that's okay by me

Maybe the woman too should give the man gifts more. or whats she contributing to the man's life

There are few women who are not in relationship because of what they gain from it

Chidoks:

Please can she offer gifts to him? What happens when they eventually get married?

u still dont get it do u. Love does not centre on gifts! I will break dis ur head for u to understand oo..

Cutehector:
u still dont get it do u. Love does not centre on gifts! I will break dis ur head for u to understand oo..

Ok in dating you ruled out exchange of gifts,in marriage nko?
You are not permitted to break my head until you answer all my questions.

raumdeuter:


Maybe the woman too should give the man gifts more. or whats she contributing to the man's life

There are few women who are not in relationship because of what they gain from it

Well for me both parties ought to give but me thinks the man should always hustle to plant a smile on his woman's face. It looks like I'm really old fashioned...

Chidoks:

Ok in dating you ruled out exchange of gifts,in marriage nko?
You are not permitted to break my head until you answer all my questions.

jeeeez! Ok am done with you! Givin of gifts is not necessary.. Giving of gifts is not mandatory, giving of gifts is optional..



I neva said givn of gifts is a no no in relationships.. And let me tell u, in all my years of dating, none of my exes has eva bought me any gift, but i have done that.. To show u d level of stinginess in all of dem.. Buh guess wat, dat did not reduce my love for dem all..

Cutehector:
jeeeez! Ok am done with you! Givin of gifts is not necessary.. Giving of gifts is not mandatory, giving of gifts is optional..



I neva said givn of gifts is a no no in relationships.. And let me tell u, in all my years of dating, none of my exes has eva bought me any gift, but i have done that.. To show u d level of stinginess in all of dem.. Buh guess wat, dat did not reduce my love for dem all..

I see...

Chidoks:

Well for me both parties ought to give but[b] me thinks the man should always hustle to plant a smile on his woman's face[/b]. It looks like I'm really old fashioned...

Why not the other way round?

I.e the woman hustle to plant a smile on the man's face

raumdeuter:

Why not the other way round?

I.e the woman hustle to plant a smile on the man's face

Judging from what I see everyday,it's usually the man that does the hustling.

Chidoks:


But don't forget to contribute your quota

And what if I may ask is the woman's quota to be contributed in a relationship, apart from the sex and emotional support that lazy, broke, and selfish women will not let us hear word about?

Chidoks:

Well for me both parties ought to give but me thinks the man should always hustle to plant a smile on his woman's face. [s]It looks like I'm really old fashioned...[/s]

Jesus!!
And these are the kind of girls and women that come on NL to call themselves feminists... Lol

Madame, you're not old-fashioned...you're just selfish, or broke, or both.

crackhaus:

Jesus!!
And these are the kind of girls and women that come on NL to call themselves feminists... Lol

Madame, you're not old-fashioned...you're just selfish, or broke, or both.

First of all, I don't claim to be a feminist.You have no right to call me unwarranted names just because you must insult someone. My financial status is not your business neither is it open for discussion. If you feel you shouldn't give gifts to women,say so without being rude.Next time you want to fight please pick your regular partners.peace!