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Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by tpraiz(m): 5:59am On Dec 19, 2015
Wtf.............instead of u to sack her,u come here come dai xplain for us


Delay is dangerful o

Besides is the lady 18,19 or 20?? No maturity @all

From the way she refused ur proposal,u are supose to know that her brain is really empty!

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Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by Nobody: 6:39am On Dec 19, 2015
Lessons learned. Sack her but avoid crushing ur next employee.

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Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by Nobody: 6:44am On Dec 19, 2015
Cutehector:
wah u gona be doin till den?
didn't get any sleep..cry
Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by Cutehector(m): 6:45am On Dec 19, 2015
Estharfabian:
didn't get any sleep..cry
sorry dear... Wah were u up to all thru the night?
Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by Nobody: 6:49am On Dec 19, 2015
Cutehector:
sorry dear... Wah were u up to all thru the night?
Watching Empire....cheesy
Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by Cutehector(m): 6:50am On Dec 19, 2015
Estharfabian:
Watching Empire....cheesy
lol.... Nice one.
Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by lacicrips(m): 7:13am On Dec 19, 2015
This is sexual harassment, and its a crime. In a sane clime where things worked, she'd sue you for all you've got.

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Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by dazzlingd(m): 7:14am On Dec 19, 2015
immaturity..
u need to play a mind game here....
if u sack her, she will make a cheap blackmail out of it...
guy, u sud be a big boy nah, go get a girl hotter than her, flaunt wat u've got and deal with her on a very formal note.

If she does not quit in regret, come back here and quote me.

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Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by akanbiaa(m): 8:06am On Dec 19, 2015
is your wife not enough for you?
Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by Remii(m): 8:07am On Dec 19, 2015
Pennah:
next she will say she deserve more pay
yes na, she is shareholder ke, lol
Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by 2sex(m): 8:07am On Dec 19, 2015
mudility:
Hey pals, if you have read my previous post https://www.nairaland.com/2738913/love-employee you will remember i was crushing on one of my female worker.

After i hastily made my intentions known to her, I was given those kind of funny attitude ladies display when not interested.

On a one on one discussion, she said she will not date me for two reasons. 1. because i am her boss and 2. because she has a boyfriend.

Okay, i totally respect her decision but i realized her attitude changed. She sometimes arrives late to work, flirt with my costumers to make me jealous. The final straw that broke the camel back is when i was scolding my other worker for her mistakes and complains am getting from my customers about her.

What i heard was this my employee i had crush on saying to me with boldness that i dont have to talk to her that way. I was shocked to my bone marrow that i ordered her to keep quit and leave my presence.

After i got home, i could not stop thinking about her rude bahaviour. I almost payed her off today but the sympathetic me decide to keep her till month end.

Pls friends , what do u think about my intended plan?
You lost every respect she had for you the moment you made that move... it's entirely your fault and it serves you well because all I see is man who wanted to take advantage of someone and now you want to sack which will further convince her that she made the right choice to not date you.

Are there no other ladies outside?

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Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by refiner(f): 8:08am On Dec 19, 2015
sack her and employ me instead......hope u re satisfied nw

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Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by Nobody: 8:09am On Dec 19, 2015
Nope don't sack

1. Give a second chance
2. Next time scold your employees privately.
3. Employ someone to understudy her.
4. Treat the issues like it never occurred.

By the way, what trade are you into? What's this business about? Sounds like a Drycleaner business...please confirm quickly

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Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by caesaraba(m): 8:10am On Dec 19, 2015
mudility:
Hey pals, if you have read my previous post https://www.nairaland.com/2738913/love-employee you will remember i was crushing on one of my female worker.

After i hastily made my intentions known to her, I was given those kind of funny attitude ladies display when not interested.

On a one on one discussion, she said she will not date me for two reasons. 1. because i am her boss and 2. because she has a boyfriend.

Okay, i totally respect her decision but i realized her attitude changed. She sometimes arrives late to work, flirt with my costumers to make me jealous. The final straw that broke the camel back is when i was scolding my other worker for her mistakes and complains am getting from my customers about her.

What i heard was this my employee i had crush on saying to me with boldness that i dont have to talk to her that way. I was shocked to my bone marrow that i ordered her to keep quit and leave my presence.

After i got home, i could not stop thinking about her rude bahaviour. I almost payed her off today but the sympathetic me decide to keep her till month end.

Pls friends , what do u think about my intended plan?

After reading your first thread, I don't know why but I have this uncontrollable urge to slap you. Don't put your reputation on the line like this next time by mixing business and pleasure (hardly ever works). Fire her but keep it at the back of your mind that it was all your fault. Draw a line over it and move on.

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Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by niggi4life(m): 8:11am On Dec 19, 2015
Bro, u have already made that mistake asking her out..never regret anything, just don't try such again.
Next move is to show her the door, sack her with immediate effect before u begin to lose your mind.
U own your business, its ur call.
Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by IykeWest: 8:11am On Dec 19, 2015
mudility:
Hey pals, if you have read my previous post https://www.nairaland.com/2738913/love-employee you will remember i was crushing on one of my female worker.

After i hastily made my intentions known to her, I was given those kind of funny attitude ladies display when not interested.

On a one on one discussion, she said she will not date me for two reasons. 1. because i am her boss and 2. because she has a boyfriend.

Okay, i totally respect her decision but i realized her attitude changed. She sometimes arrives late to work, flirt with my costumers to make me jealous. The final straw that broke the camel back is when i was scolding my other worker for her mistakes and complains am getting from my customers about her.

What i heard was this my employee i had crush on saying to me with boldness that i dont have to talk to her that way. I was shocked to my bone marrow that i ordered her to keep quit and leave my presence.

After i got home, i could not stop thinking about her rude bahaviour. I almost payed her off today but the sympathetic me decide to keep her till month end.

Pls friends , what do u think about my intended plan?
Here's what you are going to do, type and print the sack letter, give it to your secretary if you have any, then tell the security personnel on duty to follow the secretary and hand the letter to the bittcch and tell her to read it on the spot, tell the security personnel to escort her out once she's done with the later, don't give her a min and don't be around, escort her out cos those kinda bittchs won't leave peacefully. If u don't have a security personnel, get a policeman, they like this kind of easy job grin

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Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by femiakinbully(m): 8:12am On Dec 19, 2015
You messed up initially, I believe for the sake of the business she has to leave.
Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by slap1(m): 8:12am On Dec 19, 2015
Sack her.

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Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by drey076(m): 8:13am On Dec 19, 2015
This Op they waste time, sack her ass
Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by kokorodudu(f): 8:15am On Dec 19, 2015
I think you are dumb and horrible boss. If this happened in better places your axx would go down for sexual harassment.

mudility:
Hey pals, if you have read my previous post https://www.nairaland.com/2738913/love-employee you will remember i was crushing on one of my female worker.

After i hastily made my intentions known to her, I was given those kind of funny attitude ladies display when not interested.

On a one on one discussion, she said she will not date me for two reasons. 1. because i am her boss and 2. because she has a boyfriend.

Okay, i totally respect her decision but i realized her attitude changed. She sometimes arrives late to work, flirt with my costumers to make me jealous. The final straw that broke the camel back is when i was scolding my other worker for her mistakes and complains am getting from my customers about her.

What i heard was this my employee i had crush on saying to me with boldness that i dont have to talk to her that way. I was shocked to my bone marrow that i ordered her to keep quit and leave my presence.

After i got home, i could not stop thinking about her rude bahaviour. I almost payed her off today but the sympathetic me decide to keep her till month end.

Pls friends , what do u think about my intended plan?

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Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by PHfinest(m): 8:15am On Dec 19, 2015
You better sack her now that you have a good reason; or at least give her a strong worded written warning with hr/legal in copy

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Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by Opoki(m): 8:15am On Dec 19, 2015
Don't sack her hastily, she'll make up news and co of how she's trying to be morally upright and you ain't seeing it.

Shey u get?

Just give her like 2 queries then the 3rd be a sack letter.

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Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by repogirl(f): 8:15am On Dec 19, 2015
Op, caution her one last time about her attitude.

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Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by slap1(m): 8:16am On Dec 19, 2015
femiakinbully:
You messed up initially, I believe for the sake of the business she has to leave.

He did nothing wrong in asking her out. She is obviously a kid for acting up because of it.

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Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by spiralwedge(m): 8:16am On Dec 19, 2015
Let her go now BUT PAY THE FULL SALARY WITH BONUS.

If it were in Europe, you should be cooling off in jail for sexual harassment and intimidation and bad work ethics. But this is naija... Enjoy.

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Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by Raxxye(m): 8:16am On Dec 19, 2015
Are you still asking whether you should sack her or not?
Maybe you are more interested in her than you are in your business, otherwise you should not be thinking twice about sacking her.
Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by arabianights: 8:17am On Dec 19, 2015
mudility:
Hey pals, if you have read my previous post https://www.nairaland.com/2738913/love-employee you will remember i was crushing on one of my female worker.

After i hastily made my intentions known to her, I was given those kind of funny attitude ladies display when not interested.

On a one on one discussion, she said she will not date me for two reasons. 1. because i am her boss and 2. because she has a boyfriend.

Okay, i totally respect her decision but i realized her attitude changed. She sometimes arrives late to work, flirt with my costumers to make me jealous. The final straw that broke the camel back is when i was scolding my other worker for her mistakes and complains am getting from my customers about her.

What i heard was this my employee i had crush on saying to me with boldness that i dont have to talk to her that way. I was shocked to my bone marrow that i ordered her to keep quit and leave my presence.

After i got home, i could not stop thinking about her rude bahaviour. I almost payed her off today but the sympathetic me decide to keep her till month end.

Pls friends , what do u think about my intended plan?


You first of all were wrong to approach your employee for a re;ationship as most ladies are not matured enough to deal with such kinda advance from their bosses hence her disrespectful attitude.
You cant afford to allow a mistake affect your work ,if you are not careful this lady will cause others to start disrespecting you.SACK HER<WHATEVER HAPPENS YOU MUST SACK HER
Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by fr3do(m): 8:17am On Dec 19, 2015
misspicy:
lol.....the girl is not even matured enough.... why become rude to your boss
because he asked you out?

OP sack her already,she never experience life gringrin

cheesy cheesy jjc
Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by kokomilala(m): 8:17am On Dec 19, 2015
You almost ate dodo, so it's becoming increasingly difficult for you to sododo...lol! You need a lot of grace and tact to handle it.Now, draw a line between business and intimacy.Take the first and ditch the latter.Call her to your office and have a straight talk with her without any notion of ever dating her.Tell her to be professional or she gets the boots.Then, address the whole staff and spell out the rules of engagement to them again, if you've already done it.Sanction any who flouts the rules including her.

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Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by Khez: 8:17am On Dec 19, 2015
Sack her early Monday morning bro


Don't wait any further...

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Re: I Want To Sack My Employee I Was Crushing On. by jnrbayano(m): 8:19am On Dec 19, 2015
Sack her for doing what exactly?

Was she ever rude to you prior to your asking her out?

I repeat, sack her for doing what exactly?

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