ahnie:
Oni zino=oni(mama)haaaa z it that bad?i like you for always bn plain.i speak more of isoko lingua to zino,than ukwuani lingua...the dad wil be like...my dear,pls be speakin both isoko n ukwuani to her now,i'll just laugh.mothertongue z very important to me.....if i tell her tu open her mouth evrymornin for cleanin in isoko language...she does.

My parents did not really speak to us. Though I understand a bit and can sing Isoko songs and hymns but I just can't join word and word to form a complete sentence. Sometimes, I run to my landlord to tell me any sentence I want to speak to my boy.

The most annoying is I can't even speak yoruba and I have been in lagos all my life.

lizzy22:
hello my people.... I don born ooo, gave birth to my beautiful princess dis morning o....!! Bs later dearies....

congratulations ma'am

Fumbaby:
[quote author=prissyluv

Whether he buy his property in your name or his name all that matters is prayers, side chicks are ready to destroy homes and you won't know when the name will suddenly change, my sis wear the garment of prayer

I don't know why me and my hubby don't care about whose name his on our property, the only thing I care about is how to start a family biz that will carry my children's names, because I don't intend to make the mistake my parents made, my father's name was the only name on our family biz, my aunt sat on everything when he died in 1995 till today she's the landlady and the CEO of my father's garri processing company (waiting patiently for her to pass on)

seriously no family help or lawyers. pls what do you intend doing when she pass on am lost hey naija na wa

prissyluv:
God evening mamas. Abeg make una no vex. I know this is not the right place to post this but I will be glad if the issue can be looked into.

My question is,what is the fate of a wife whose husband buys properties in his name only but uses the wife's name as next of kin.

Congrats lizzy22.

na una relationship matter o!
my hubby and I have properties in each others individual names no worries!
but this same rule may not apply to family B . I have an aunty that will tear the house down at this yet she is right because she said she no sure of here husband family. so look well well! best wishes

soonest:
Nice one lyndaroyce.

Where's Cococandy and Beremx. They use to be here sometime.

U welcome. ......
Cococandy should be fine......*whispers* hopefully, she will be here soon....
Dear How re u nd family?
Compliment of the season

tchiwinnie:
Wow! LyndaRoyce, good to read from u. Loooooongest tym. Na fear of catching anoda belle mk u run so? How re d Royces. Mamas, una no go undstd. This s d ogbonge mama Wey dey gv us free consultation on ododolondo and kpekusing matters those days, among oda things. Do pop in more often biko.

My sister, I no fear the instrument na the music I go fear?tho Sometimes, one must take caution before she creates one man battalion......
I really missed this platform....
How ve u been dear....... ndi ezi n'ulo gi kwanu?...
So good to ve u here. .......u're treasured.

[quote author=zemaye post=41148894][/quote]

Take over ni, everybody is scared of going to ask her for anything. Her children are aware that it belong to us and not her

stadora she was diagnosed of allergy.I have a family history of asthma but she doesn't have asthma .the allergy thing caused two things enlarged adenoids in her nostrils which when infected makes breathing noisy and then Urticaria which is a skin thingy.how is he now though?what did the paediatrician say?
I have had u on my mind.do lets chat
Livelystone I had a preterm too.try to bf on demand.minimum 2hourly .if he sleeps more than 3hrs offer him during his sleep.its what I did because weight gain is important for preemies'.its not too easy but try.It's well

Alhamdulilah robbil almeen. Gave birth to a baby boy this afternoon. to all the other te December, I wish you safest delivery and all the going to conceive(GTC) you will get your bfp before the year runs out. BS coming soon.

Fumbaby:


Take over ni, everybody is scared of going to ask her for anything. Her children are aware that it belong to us and not her

wow
best of luck o!
people get liver sha!
siddon ontop wetin no be your own!

congrats o kissthe lil cutie for us

culturegown:
Alhamdulilah robbil almeen. Gave birth to a baby boy this afternoon. to all the other te December, I wish you safest delivery and all the going to conceive(GTC) you will get your bfp before the year runs out. BS coming soon.

LyndaRoyce:


U welcome. ......
Cococandy should be fine......*whispers* hopefully, she will be here soon....
Dear How re u nd family?
Compliment of the season

I'm fine o.
Compliments of the season

You scarce pass dollar right now.
How have you been?

soonest:
Nice one lyndaroyce.

Where's Cococandy and Beremx. They use to be here sometimes.

right here mama

prissyluv:
Aunty Zaynie and Lovinam,thanks for the input, it is just that I have this mentality that ones a man is married whatever properties he buys should be in Mr & Mrs.

My dear, please don't sweat it before your husband think you have something in mind. You are the next of kin and that's a beautiful thing. It could have been worse. One thing I learnt from my older friends is that every woman should be financially responsible. That is not spending foolishly/ recklessly, that way the man will trust you more knowing that his hard earned money will not go to waste tomorrow. Unfortunately most women fail in this aspect.

Men watch our every move down to how many times a month you make hair. Once he feels you are not financially responsible, he starts hiding his assets.

Do you know some women are silent signatories to their hubby's account? They know in and out of the mans finances. (Bliss) How many women can boast of that?

#LongEpistle

Lyndaroyce!! Na ur eye be this?

@ all we need a laywer to interprete this next of kin ish!! Someone? Anyone?

@culturegown, congratulations on the birth of your son. May his arrival bring joy and abundant blessings to your home

Ejaisky:
Dear God I declare on this 1001th page of this thread that I shall join fruitful mothers here come 2016!

Amen ooo n so shal it b 4 u n al other TTC mamas. Its wel wt u dear

December mamas rock! Dropping it with ease
Congrats culturegown! I celebrate with you. May God bless the new born.

***adjusts her eyeglasses***

if u hear ur name answer present ma'am. strictly for
February mums

Ramcie

maureensylvia(class captin)

vanilla90

rchilee

Apple19

oselin

Icoral

cutesie

pocahuntaz

LegitDiva

nutigal

monie

neks31

pls ooo if u no hear ur name, it's either u have not paid
ur dues or we are not aware.

all protocols duly observed.

#team Feb for supernatural delivery

#team Feb the best and social team ever

#team Feb we are da bomb

maureensylvia:
***adjusts her eyeglasses***
if u hear ur name answer present ma'am. strictly for
February mums
Ramcie
maureensylvia( class captin)
vanilla90
rchilee
Apple19
oselin
cutesie
pocahuntaz
LegitDiva
nutigal
pls ooo if u no hear ur name, it's either u have not paid
ur dues or we are not aware.
all protocols duly observed.
#team Feb for supernatural delivery
#team Feb the best and social team ever
#team Feb we are da bomb

Yes Ma reporting for duty. Headache wants to kill me o Even though my BP is normal. Also baby is still breech at 30weeks any way to make baby turn ?

stadora:

Amen ooo n so shal it b 4 u n al other TTC mamas. Its wel wt u dear

Amen.

maureensylvia:
***adjusts her eyeglasses***

if u hear ur name answer present ma'am. strictly for
February mums

Ramcie

maureensylvia(class captin)

vanilla90

rchilee

Apple19

oselin

cutesie

pocahuntaz

LegitDiva

nutigal

pls ooo if u no hear ur name, it's either u have not paid
ur dues or we are not aware.

all protocols duly observed.

#team Feb for supernatural delivery

#team Feb the best and social team ever

#team Feb we are da bomb

present oo!

Aunty Lovinam and Zemaye,thanks so much mamas. The input was so wonderful. I appreciate.

nice14:
Congrats lizzy may ur lo bring joy to u and family ijn

@prissy dem make her next of kin she dey worry? What if he buy only on his name and then he name his sibling next of kin what will she do?
Let her be hard working, know where all d properties are and then close one eye to sleep
To me i don't see any issue there o
Emm marriage..i remember my mum telling us to work hard and always save for d raining days. Never understood her cos i felt is love all d way
But now i know better.

mama,you really got me laughing with your choice of words. What you said is so true. Thanks alot.

@maureenslyvia Present ma

@Ramcie abeg we dey d same matter nd I don taya ,the kicks no b here nd smtyms it can b painful ..it is well

Congrat 2 all d mamaz dat have drop, God bless ur Lo

Teamfebforeasydelivery#

LyndaRoyce:

My sister, I no fear the instrument na the music I go fear?tho Sometimes, one must take caution before she creates one man battalion......
I really missed this platform....
How ve u been dear....... ndi ezi n'ulo gi kwanu?...
So good to ve u here. .......u're treasured.

lol. I m good o. Abt to offload; my 2nd missionary journey.

tchiwinnie:
lol. I m good o. Abt to offload; my 2nd missionary journey.

Wow! Wish u and every preggy mama here a save delivery. ......
@lovinam, ke kwan? How re u nd family?

Congrats @ culturegown. God bless ur lo.
@lovinam, I m nt a lawyer bt from wot I ve learnt abt dis matter, wen a man makes his wife next of kin for eg for his bank acc, it just means if there s any clarifications or so d bank wants to make, its d wife they ll contact. She can't withdraw shishi from d acc without authorization. If a man wants his wife to b able to access his acc, then he shld mk her signatory to his account. I m a signatory to my husbands accts and so can access dem anytime. For d issue of property, its not even enuf for d man to buy property wt d name 'Mr. and Mrs Abcd', for eg. Cos there may b plenty Mrs Abcd out there da cld lay claim on d property.It rather shld be 'Mr. Bello Abdcd and Mrs Bilikisu Abcd'. That way, it's more specific.

LyndaRoyce:
Wow! Wish u and every preggy mama here a save delivery. ...... @lovinam, ke kwan? How re u nd family?

Thanks ma'am.

Of course they won't give shi shi without letter of administration. It still helps to put the woman's name there. I still want a detailed explanation about it cos I don't know much on the issue. Lawyers wia una de?

As per signatory to account very important. Many families are living in poverty whilst their millions are cooling in the bank. Case of madam not knowing or Oga hiding the assets.
Abeg everyone should open eye like fish jare. Lol

tchiwinnie:
Congrats @ culturegown. God bless ur lo.
@lovinam, I m nt a lawyer bt from wot I ve learnt abt dis matter, wen a man makes his wife next of kin for eg for his bank acc, it just means if there s any clarifications or so d bank wants to make, its d wife they ll contact. She can't withdraw shishi from d acc without authorization. If a man wants his wife to b able to access his acc, then he shld mk her signatory to his account. I m a signatory to my husbands accts and so can access dem anytime. For d issue of property, its not even enuf for d man to buy property wt d name 'Mr. and Mrs Abcd', for eg. Cos there may b plenty Mrs Abcd out there da cld lay claim on d property.It rather shld be 'Mr. Bello Abdcd and Mrs Bilikisu Abcd'. That way, it's more specific.

Ramcie:


Yes Ma reporting for duty. Headache wants to kill me o Even though my BP is normal. Also baby is still breech at 30weeks any way to make baby turn ?

my baby was breech at 32 weeks but head down now. same for Zaynie, she was even able to have a VBAC

pray about it and dont worry too much

Congratulations

culturegown:
Alhamdulilah robbil almeen. Gave birth to a baby boy this afternoon. to all the other te December, I wish you safest delivery and all the going to conceive(GTC) you will get your bfp before the year runs out. BS coming soon.