I don't even know when she is on her period or not. Before you jump to conclusion that her menstruation might have seized, NB we have a 3 months old boy.
Even before she conceived, my wife has never said no to me when I ask for sex. Sometimes she comes home late and complained she is exhausted and tired to cook due to shop stress (hairdresser). But will still agree to sex that same night if I ask for it.
Nairalanders, Am afraid. should I be worried?

why talking about ur family matters here? Sorry u are not man enough or maybe u are less a real man

Nigga,grow up....


Nobody cares about ya sexual life..

Maybe that's the way she's been taught to always yield to husbands sexual needs.

Rest assured she's not cheating because if she did, she would be denying you of se*x


Kapish?

Rapoo:
why talking about ur family matters here? Sorry u are not man enough or maybe u are less a real man

grow up man and give advice to the op or u fvck off.

Are most of the topics discussed on nairaland not family issues

Sorry sir plz this should be family matter better discuss indoors.

Don't worry
Be happy.

I don't get you men though..

If she says no.. She's cheating, if she never says no.. Something must be wrong.

gabazin080:
grow up man and give advice to the op or u fvck off.

Are most of the topics discussed on nairaland not family issues

U are the one dat is supposed to grow up!!!!! If a married man is confused in his marriage!!! Social media is never a better place to source for a better solutions!!!!! I assume he has family members, relatives even close friends!!!! And not displaying such topics here!!!!!!

So....






Weird...

Rapoo:



U are the one dat is supposed to grow up!!!!! If a married man is confused in his marriage!!! Social media is never a better place to source for a better solutions!!!!! I assume he has family members, relatives even close friends!!!! And not displaying such topics here!!!!!!

He said you should leave here! can't you obey a simple order?
@OP there is nothing wrong,she just didnt feel like

bettercreature:
He said you should leave here! can't you obey a simple order?
@OP there is nothing wrong,she just didnt feel like

Quoting me won't make you popular!!!!!!! U can't even make a point *gosh* >

Please leave asap,wat are u still Doing here?

Rapoo:



Quoting me won't make you popular!!!!!!! U can't even make a point *gosh* >

chiboy1928:
Please leave asap,wat are u still Doing here?

Please who's dis one??

Someone is seeking for assistance and all he could get from some Nairalanders are insults?! Some are of the opinion that it is a family affair and should be discussed at home front. How? I mean how can you possibly present it to your wife? I submit that these 'holier-than-thou' online marriage counsellors aren't even married.

Don't mind them bro. Now my submissions:-

1. Your wife isn't cheating and may not have such intention; a cheating partner won't be so devoted.
2. She may be more sexually active than you hence while you think you are doing more than enough she thinks you need to catch up. It will be interesting to know how regular you meet weekly.
3. She may be carrying a religious mindset that encourages total submissiveness of wife in all respect. Sometimes she might be doing it to please you.
4. She might be doing it to discourage you from having extramarital affairs.
5. She might be doing to gain approval i.e. it makes her feel appreciated and loved.

Regular exercise, good food and rest are your best friends. All the best.

Abeg who ge hypo or jik?Them need to wash this agbaya brain with ham.A woman is ready to sacrifice her time and body for you and you are here nagging like a harlot. SERIOUSLY U NEED TO BE SACRED BECAUSE YOU THINK WITH YOUR MANHOOD..

Mortiple:
Someone is seeking for assistance and all he could get from some Nairalanders are insults?! Some are of the opinion that it is a family affair and should be discussed at home front. How? I mean how can you possibly present it to your wife? I submit that these 'holier-than-thou' online marriage counsellors aren't even married.

Don't mind them bro. Now my submissions:-

1. Your wife isn't cheating and may not have such intention; a cheating partner won't be so devoted.
2. She may be more sexually active than you hence while you think you are doing more than enough she thinks you need to catch up. It will be interesting to know how regular you meet weekly.
3. She may be carrying a religious mindset that encourages total submissiveness of wife in all respect. Sometimes she might be doing it to please you.
4. She might be doing it to discourage you from having extramarital affairs.
5. She might be doing to gain approval i.e. it makes her feel appreciated and loved.

Regular exercise, good food and rest are your best friends. All the best.

Assis kini? Are we inesta or ozil?There are some certain topics that dont need advice but good insults to make the op mature.How on earth will a man not trust his wife because she has never given him a "no" to his sexual advances?How on earth will a man leave his family affairs and start creating irrational and heinous thread online?.People like the op break up their marriages 4 flimsy and ingeniue reasons..However,if the op feels his reasons are of great concern,why not talk to wife and stop being child?abeg he deserves more insults..

PushMusic:
Maybe that's the way she's been taught to always yield to husbands sexual needs.

Rest assured she's not cheating because if she did, she would be denying you of se*x


Kapish?

capisce?

Oh baba God u know oo dat, Op's wife is d kind of woman i need, not those " i'm not in d mood" story for d gods ladies... Btw op y complaining? Maybe she enjoys it too, much better than u do sef...if not of those endtime crews, i would hv ask u to pass her to me if, u're tired of kpanshing.

gunners160:
assis kini. Are we inesta or ozil?There are some certain threads that dont need advice but go insults to make the person matured.How on earth will a man not trust his wife because she has never given him a "no" to his sexual advances?How on earth will a man leave his family affairs and start creating irrational and heinous thread online?.People like the op break up their marriage 4 flimsy and in geniue reasons..However,if the op feels his reasons are of great concern,why not talk to wife and stop being childs?abeg he deserves more insults..

I do not agree with your view point. Every question needs an answer. If you don't have an answer for him, you 'waka pass', another may have. Moreover, i dont see anything wrong if a man like the OP whom you don't know personally creates a thread to resolve an overwhelming personal issue.

This is not the kind of issue you discuss with your partner. However Nairaland may not be an ideal place to get such advice.

Chill man!

Mikocake:
capisce?

Thanks.

Had to write it the way it sounds.

PushMusic:
Had to write it the way it sounds.

welcome!! yeah, it does happen.

Op you are lucky gan... Some men are begging/praying to God to have this kinda your problem..
Mehn, appreciate your wife and stop complaining................................

gunners160:
Abeg who ge hypo or jik?Them need to wash this agbaya brain with ham.A woman is ready to sacrifice her time and body for you and you are here nagging like a harlot. SERIOUSLY U NEED TO BE SACRED BECAUSE YOU THINK WITH YOUR MANHOOD..

alaye! Calm ur nerves...
Gunners don't think the way u did...

you are just ungrateful to God for give you such a sexiest wife. Odeh, if she didn't give u now, u will still complain. I think you are not man enough to be married...

If she says no, you ll still come here to complain and say shes cheating on you.

What if shes thinking the same way as you. "My husband always ask me for sex"

If you like worry I will advised you to get extremely worried . I don't think even God can please you. It's like you are scared of being satisfied in life.Because if she snubs you all the times you will still complain.Anyway my answer for you is that she did not make her self that way.God made her specially for sex lover like you who after knowing that your wife is exhausted will still ask for sex.Now you are worried because you were not turned down.You need to encourage her to make the first move whenever she feels sexy.You need to free on work on your wife so that she will be able to tell you her feelings in all aspect of your marriage, sex inclusive.

seunfunmi33:
I don't even know when she is on her period or not. Before you jump to conclusion that her menstruation might have seized, NB we have a 3 months old boy.
Even before she conceived, my wife has never said no to me when I ask for sex. Sometimes she comes home late and complained she is exhausted and tired to cook due to shop stress (hairdresser). But will still agree to sex that same night if I ask for it.
Nairalanders, Am afraid. should I be worried?

She give u chop, u complain, she no give u chop, u go still complain. My babe just tell me say no more sex till marriage due to my active sex life....
RIP to my dick till wedding day

Rapoo:



U are the one dat is supposed to grow up!!!!! If a married man is confused in his marriage!!! Social media is never a better place to source for a better solutions!!!!! I assume he has family members, relatives even close friends!!!! And not displaying such topics here!!!!!!

And it will be wiser to discuss their sexual life with close family members?
Afterall , no one knows him here. I feel it is safer here.

MzPecs:
Why would you come and discuss family matters here?
If she declines sex, problem.
If she willingly accept to have sex anytime with you, another problem!
Oga! What do you want?

I weak for OP ooo...

blessedfavoured:
I don't get you men though..
If she says no.. She's cheating, if she never says no.. Something must be wrong.

I weak for OP ooo...


Who get mat abeg