obinnashady:
wow......

Oliviaarims:


Lol. It was one spectacular day I won't be forgetting anytime soon..

Truckpusher:
It is difficult to spot a player and this is the honest truth especially seasoned players.

The first weapon a player deploys is to get your trust and once this is established he will always say the right words and being an emotional being that women are they tend to fall for this smooth talking good looking fellow whose inner most part has a hidden demon of cunning and seduction - Believe me , you must have to come across one to know one ,that is if your emotions would let you see beyond the facade.
Players are just an enigma I tell you.

misspicy:
well i still will not be caught making a first move or asking a guy out....i might show him i like him but it starts and ends there,i wouldnt voice it out because from things i have seen and heard it most times backfire,eg the girl lose her self worth and makes her feel less and some guys will keep reminding them they made d move on them so they should face whatever....

well forget all we see online and what few guys say,most guys will use it against the girl at some point.

misspicy:

lemme tell you a story



so in my early dating years,there was this cool guy in my hood,very handsome and gentle,so I had a crush on him,I started showing it,I gave him attention,we became close,he saw the signs and we started dating,later on the guy cheated and then when his friends confronted him on my behave,he made them realise I asked him out,he never wanted the relationship...lmao
all in all,I was blamed

obinnashady:
still crushing on u tho.

Alameer:
then SUIT YOURSELF.

DanielPop:
Why not head for the convent right away! We are in a new world and ur type na candidate for the novitiate of Mary

Sincere4u:
How is that not also your problem?.

wristbangle:

I am looking forward to seeing your green light at me

menxer:


This is the best comment from a lady on this thread.

Green light any where in the world means no oncoming traffic, it is safe to proceed.

anwo247:

....and his pain

Toks2008:


Jokes apart Seun is an innocent cute guy and he needs serious wooing by a nice lady because that guiy be like person wey no go get time at all.

Genea:
mmmmmm he has to create time frm his busy schedule,cos i like staying close to my guy,dat helps kip the relationship alive,if he can't b available,he shud call and if seun can't call he shud send txts,atleast dat wud make me know am in his thoughts

Toks2008:

E be like say you really dig this geek o.

quiinnBee:
after all this i still wont make a move on a guy.

would rather give him the green light.

if he cant catch the hint then thats his problem

shegxi:
madam, u made sense if this is d true picture of things and reality. Unfortunately, it is nt entirely true. D point is, ladies have bn program(africans) to "stress" d dude even when they like him from d get go and dat is forming hard to get. In d end sha, everybody shld define wat works for him/her.

Omotayor123:
Nice post.
But I think a man should be Man enough to make a move on the woman he loves. If he's too shy to do just that, I don't see how he intends to live forever as her husband.! *my view*

LaurelP:
Well I've dated like 7 girls all my life and I never walked up to any of them to start the usual "toasting"! Usually we just become friends and from there, things take off!

My advice to ladies is they should tone down their egos and attitude a bit. Men are very simple creatures, we are easy to manipulate if I can use that word. All a lady needs is to be different and be friendly and you see guys dying to have you.
If you keep acting hard to get you attract players who would want to prove that they can and will get you at all cost.


My 2 cents.

Rexnegro:
even when u re crazily in love with him? what's wrong in making extra effort?

Omotayor123:
Nice post.
But I think a man should be Man enough to make a move on the woman he loves. If he's too shy to do just that, I don't see how he intends to live forever as her husband.! *my view*

Dynamite02:

Yeah its true! We can say "Forming had to get" when the lady already likes the guy and wants to stress him (guys form had to get too..... some make yanga pass tolo-tolo sef) ....but its not applicable in every situation esp. when the person involved is not just interested.
Discernment will help one identify which is which

Harbosede02:
Never ever will I make any move on any guy......Never!!!green light or red light am nt gonna make anything obvious...wow! Why the outburst? E b like say dem don show u...listen had a lot of girls ask me out on numerous times and I admire their courage...it doesn't take away their sense of virtue.it all boils down to man in question..if a man respects n treat ladies right he will always do that regardless of who made the first move or not..if a guy is disrespectful n is a player he get such treatment from him

misspicy:

lemme tell you a story



so in my early dating years,there was this cool guy in my hood,very handsome and gentle,so I had a crush on him,I started showing it,I gave him attention,we became close,he saw the signs and we started dating,later on the guy cheated and then when his friends confronted him on my behave,he made them realise I asked him out,he never wanted the relationship...lmao
all in all,I was blamed

quiinnBee:

alright join the line

khiaa:


Lmao..Give this man a cookie, I agree 100% . Ladies just say hello, how are you and show those pearly whites, you will brighten his day.

Genea:
then at d end of the day u marry d one dat will gv u high bp