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Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by ucheheart(m): 5:26pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
donTbone:smelly bull sh.it 2 Likes |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by ucheheart(m): 5:29pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
The same reason why biafra will never work in igbo land. Igbo are not and will never be one. Nonsense! 3 Likes |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by gudluckgreat(m): 5:30pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
CaroLyner: Hmmm no my child. Don't discuss what u have not experienced |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by oc2fish: 5:30pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Orikinla: Well no igbo lady will marry the guy. Your offspring will be outcast in ibo land no matter their level of afluence. As an Osu they will never lead a clan. Your children will ever be second class citizen in the village. I am a Christian, educated my children will never marry any one with any form of 'O' TAKELESS of complete OSU. for your information OSU is like 'ABAOBAKU'. In Ibo land. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Applaner: 5:30pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
pls tell ur friend to ve a rethink. if she is not ready to accept de price DAT was paid on de cross of calvary (DAT price destroyed every tradition) den she shldn't marry. traditions don't just happen. dere were prices DAT were paid by our forefathers b/4 any tradition was established. blood were shed and dere are certain calamities DAT befalls one if u break any tradition. DAT is Y Jesus came, shed his blood and paid de ultimate price . He freed us from de tradition of men. so pls, if she has not received Christ into her life, she shldn't attempt breaking any tradition. thank you |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by donTbone(m): 5:31pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by royaldok: 5:32pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
No be only OSU, na UNIBEN |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by gudluckgreat(m): 5:33pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
emorse: Lol u speak like a kid. Imagine a world without your parents,siblings and Kinsmen. U will be like the nza d who after having a nice meal challenged his chi to a fight |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by damthyhafix(m): 5:33pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
She shld just break d news 2 her husband with one mind. with alot of prayers and fasting all this OSU of a tin will not come 2 existence, let her 2 kip loving |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by chillingbabe: 5:35pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
[quote author=Nigayoyo post=41246205][/quote] Mumu..you came to correct the typo errors..Is that wat the Op asked for? 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by gudluckgreat(m): 5:35pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
ariesbull: Lol you are not an Igbo man or u were raised in Lagos. Inasmuch as I don't discriminate anyone. Everyone should marry their kind! Trust me I have seen its consequences 2 Likes |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by ucheheart(m): 5:36pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Ok smelly fvcking bull sh.it. I won see wether ur juju strong pass my own. donTbone: 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Nobody: 5:36pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
chillingbabe: |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by kaka74: 5:37pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Estharfabian: Atarro mu unu, unu amaro ife bu osu |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Soteriahascome: 5:37pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
When You Don't Know Who You Are Or Your Real Nature, Identity Or Name. Get Ready To Answer Whatever You Are Called... Some will call you Outcast or outsider... We re all created in the image and likeness of God the creator. And we are what God says we re... 2 Likes |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by jidxin(m): 5:38pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
donTbone:lmao pls dont say wat u dont know. U only needs d parents consent if she is less dan 21 so it means u dont need anybodys consent wen u re abv21 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by TomMary(f): 5:39pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
funkyibodude:God in heaven parents still out to frustrate their own child's happiness in this era...God is in control if they are meant to be God will conquer all temptations 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Dbaroness(f): 5:40pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
CaroLyner: Pls what is this OP thing i always see here? Wat does it mean? |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by donTbone(m): 5:40pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
jidxin:ok... And who will she run to when probs start happening in the future? Always think beyond the present bro! |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Brookcherith(m): 5:41pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
OSU? if the guy looked OSU she would have noticed before the family investigation was concluded. it the mean that OSU is not a gene and is not written on the face. it also mean that she can marry the guy and be happy because OSU don't affect how u love. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by chillingbabe: 5:41pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
[quote author=Nigayoyo post=41247089][/quote] Anuofia,Quote me again.Ezi nwuranwu! |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by schumastic(m): 5:42pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Dbaroness: Original Poster |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by ngmgeek(m): 5:42pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
The Osu caste system is so real among the igbo people. Generations have tried to eradicate this evil practice but all to no avail. The fact that these people even call themselves Christians makes it even more shameful, pathetic and disgusting. The irony is that these are the same people who are claiming that they are being marginalized and discriminated against. The Osu Caste system is a collective shame among igbo people and other tribes that practice it. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Shikena(m): 5:43pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Culture and tradition. Reflections of the knowledge and understanding of a people at every point in time. Please free yourself from mental incarceration. Rule of Thumb - If the practice of the requirements of any culture and tradition brings love, joy, peace and progress then embrace it if that is your wish, if not pls free yourself from the shackles of past generations. Culture and tradition evolves. Cows are gods in some culture, twins were evil in some others, in other cultures tribes other than theirs were evil and even in others human flesh was the most delicious suya ever. Don't ever allow culture and tradition deny you your God-given liberty. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Amberon: 5:44pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
you have a puppy? Estharfabian: |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by 2016Utmerunz: 5:44pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
HUM |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Geraraheremehn: 5:47pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Monalisa185: Zdat ya advice? |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by schumastic(m): 5:48pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
jidxin: what are you saying so if your above 21 u won't seek your parents consent when you plan on getting married or do you think marriage only ends between the two couples? PICTURE THIS: when you go against your family disapproval and on the wedding day non of your family or relatives or clan appear at the occasion and disassociates with you after the marriage then you will know why you need their consent. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Lordave: 5:48pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Adamsdelrio:God bless you. It's a pity many people believed this lie. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by akajos4real: 5:50pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
What advise does she want again when she has made her decision. She must be a life and live means she must marry the guy and let her family go. So the issue is resolved. QED |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by tranxo(m): 5:51pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
donTbone:the only blessing you need is that of both parents. Period |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by feelme3(m): 5:52pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
emorse: Bro, I don't know about islam, but FYI, for christians (heck, morally) the consent of the bride's parents or family goes a long way to determine if the marriage will happen, unless you never marry sha. Reading a lot of people saying she should go against her family and marry, you never know the true meaning of WAR until you find yourself up in arms against your family. Beliefs and traditions are very sensitive issues and as much as most people will think or "feel" its easy to tell her to go ahead and bone her people, na when you enter her shoes you go know. If she wants to make a headway, the key is to start building allies, starting with her siblings, then aunties and uncles. Believe me, its not an easy one, my father in-law was against my marrying her daughter. We were at faceoff for 3 full years and that was the period I gradually won over my wife's siblings, mom and some aunt. In the end, I had one of the sweetest but brief relationship with him before he passed on two months after I did my trad. Funnily, he was even fighting against his kinsmen during the negotiation. The key here is genuine love. True love can never be broken and will endure every test of time. Pray for grace and patience, patience, patience. You both will tell your love story to your kids. NOTE: Don't fight your family and talk the issue over with your man. If he truly loves you he will be the one to stand behind you through it all. Its gonna be a looong road but maybe not. |
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