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Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by AreaFada2: 6:31pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Na wa. Centuries ago, certain people were deemed beneath the status of others. But it has long been abandoned. Slavery in my place ended centuries ago. All men are now equal officially. The Osu stuff now needs serious reform. The leaders and governors and traditional rulers should do something. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by tranxo(m): 6:32pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
donTbone:Advice is not the same with consent or blessing. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Nobody: 6:33pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Wow! I love how you brilliantly dissected everything. But my concern is how long are this osus gonna keep suffering from an unknown sin some generation unknown committed? Does it have life span? Will it be forever? This things should be stopped. There should be way out. It's shouldn't be left to continue jasmines: |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by tranxo(m): 6:33pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
mzvyne:Be careful what you pray for. You might just get it. 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by obiak4(m): 6:34pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
donTbone:what i need is just a girl that love me 70% and it over spiritual,father,siblings are secondary |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by mzvyne(f): 6:38pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
schumastic: I already know what their response will be.... Definitely against... That one dey for their pocket sha... |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by emorse(m): 6:38pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
feelme3: I speak as an individual. I know no tribe or religion. My stance is based on the the fact that love and respect must be mutual. If my family love me, they should value my happiness more than a simple tradition which I believe has no more value than the killing of twins in the days of Mary Slessor. I concur that winning them over is a more diplomatic means though. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Lsofdk(m): 6:42pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
emorse: |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by schumastic(m): 6:42pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
mzvyne: good you know what their response will be. will end this by asking u a simple ?, in AS genotype couples who suffers and bears the pain, couple or kids? |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by emorse(m): 6:45pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
gudluckgreat: Imagine a life of total sadness after pleasing the kins and tribesmen. At the end of the day, its my life to live. I could as well find my way abroad as many have already done albeit in search of greener pasteur. Love as I said earlier is key. If we love one another, little things like this will not come between us. 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by emorse(m): 6:46pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
schumastic: Treatment is possible. *smiles* Quick one bro. Imagine yourself as the Osu here. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by sexaddict08(m): 6:47pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
emorse: I'm sorry for u. when ur people decide to deal with u, u will know they're important. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by schumastic(m): 6:48pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
emorse: guess you should do more research am sure your smart up there and you know better *wink* |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by mzvyne(f): 6:52pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
schumastic: The children Ofcourse.... how can u equate genotype incompatibility with segregation ? |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by mzvyne(f): 6:55pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
emorse: that's health related sef.... This osu thing is just the wickedness of man at play.. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by emorse(m): 6:56pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
schumastic: check this out bro [url] http://news.uic.edu/new-treatment-for-sickle-cell-brings-hope-and-a-cure-to-chicago-area-patients[/url] |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by mzvyne(f): 6:57pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
schumastic: He's right by the way. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by emorse(m): 6:58pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
sexaddict08: I'm not surprised. The typical African tradition thrives on fear of the unknown. Never logic. 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Spirit1(m): 7:00pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Basildvalour: Easier said than done in Igbo land. No amount of Christianity is going to change the Igbo belief system around Osu caste system. Some people will say it's been abolished. Some will say it doesn't matter. Wait until you have an Osu blood in you. As for anything happening to them, nothing will happen. They will just remain out casts. Nothing more. But the word outcast says it all. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by emorse(m): 7:01pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
mzvyne: You remember how we used to kill our twins until a certain Mary Slessor persuaded us to stop right? |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by V0lv0(f): 7:01pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
In this day and age people still are caught up in this shiit. When will we black people be delivered from all this nonsense. Smdfh |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by dasanchez1(m): 7:03pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
tranxo: #fact !!!!!... 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Spirit1(m): 7:04pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
addictiv: Sir are you an Igbo man? Do you have Osu in your part of Igbo? If you do am sure you will be sounding differently |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by irondome: 7:06pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
donTbone: Nothing wrecks a home faster than third parties, parents and pastors inclusive. Don't get me wrong here, they can articulate their opinion, however, the ultimate decision lies between me and my partner. No pastor, parent, friends or relative would have a controlling voice over my marriage to the point where they decide my partner for me. I believe that a home built on love and God would withstand any minor misunderstanding. Personally, I would prefer talking over my issues with my wife than her reporting our private issues to any pastor. A typical example why parents should not have the ultimate say is the case raised by the OP. The parents (who probably are christians) is inclined to wreck her love life because of some un-christian cast system. No genuine christian with the spirit of God would speak in the support of such stance. 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by emorse(m): 7:06pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Chanchit: lol. asswear!!! I once told my mum that. She was pestering me about intra-tribal marriage at the time. She almost freaked out. lol. She calmed down afterwards. No time. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Nobody: 7:07pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
funkyibodude: First of all am Igbo and I need to clarify that my advice is not because am not an Osu. Truely weather u take my advice or not it's obvious u don't know ur tradition and maybe u parents hardly educate or take ur family home. From experience of some people I know, the following usually happens when u eventually marry an Osu: 1. Ur family disowns everything concerning u even ur unborn kids. 2. Ur village will equally disown u and disassociate their selves with anything pertaining to u. 3. Usually the first CHILD or CHILDREN DIES or ur CHILDREN WILL SUFFER from strange illness u won't understand. 4. Sometimes for reason I personally don't know the woman may be fruitless for some time before eventually giving birth.. ****NOTE**** These are the reasons why OSUs will gently marry their kind or sometimes marry other TRIBES. Summary: It's just like an IGBO WOMAN getting married to a YORUBA MAN. Something somewhere must go wrong along the line..but it's not my prayer for honestly if u ask me, let her look for someone else. After all so many of us have been heart broken severally and yet we moved on... MODIFIED: Am sorry if my illustration offended anybody but truely shiiiit happens.. 4 Likes |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Lerumo: 7:08pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Please love is not enough. This Osu thing is a very serious matter and should be taken as such. My candid advice, listen to your parents and present your current situation to them and work things out with them. It's not too late to fix things. P.S. when dem tell una to hold body until marriage una no go listen. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by schumastic(m): 7:11pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
V0lv0: you call it nonsense cus you don't know your root 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Flameneo(m): 7:11pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Hmmmm ! @OP Does this osu of a thing have any spiritual implication ? Or its just a cultural thing If it does,I advice you to stay away, and if it doesn't, I will advice you to look for pple who can talk to your parent to make them understand. You n your partner will be in charge of your happiness if it does not have any spiritual implication |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by sexaddict08(m): 7:14pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
emorse: .... your families decision is very important...if anything happens to u its your family that would take care of u, if u die they're the one that would have the final say.... disregard them at ur own peril |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by schumastic(m): 7:16pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
emorse: good thing am not one but if am one then i would rather look for my fellow osu lady and get married to or go outside and get married to someone else..more over it does not have effect on the osu clans but the non osu clans which is y the reason for the advice... 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by irondome: 7:16pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
irondome: The thing is still annoying me self. Why would a christian not see anything wrong in putting a class (outcast) on a set people probably redeemed by God's grace in Christ. So if your parent as a christian that you are, directs you marry an occultic bride, so you would sit down and allow them to talk you into it. Note as harsh as the above sounded, a parrallel could be drawn between the above scenario and what the OP's talked her into. Wrecked her love life over ancient occultic belief. |
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