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Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 7:09pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Your brother isn't complaining, why should you? Your elder brother is free to run his home any way he deems fit. It is none of your business, so I would advise you to keep your beak out of his and his wife's affairs. If I may ask - are you yourself married? 15 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by yvelchstores(f): 7:10pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Pray for his marriage. Try not to instigate a problem. As long as there is peace in d home, trust me your brother will live a long and enjoyable life. You don't knw if she had cramps or if her health is going tru sometin, maybe a miscarriage, u don't knw cos u are an outsider. Allow them as ling as there is peace in the home. 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by EfemenaXY: 7:18pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
lilmax: ?? Reversed how? 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by edwife(f): 7:24pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Oyind17: Op the way you narrated your story if you didn't exaggerate it and make it sound good then i am afraid your brother ain't telling y'all the truth. She is the breadwinner. 16 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 7:28pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
edwife:They do business together, honestly I don't know why he's the errand boy in the marriage 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Miami11: 7:28pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
StefanSalvatore: What are you implying what if the wife is sick What if she suffered miscarriage What if she has cramps, is dizzy and weak DO THEY NEED A BILLBOARD THAT SAYS sick wife FOR NOSY INLAWS who cannot mind their own business. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 7:31pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Miami11:She is not sick 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by edwife(f): 7:31pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Oyind17: Is it the first time you noticed that or it has been like that? Because if it's the first time,she was probably indisposed and your brother was aware of it. When you are a visitor,most of what we see in people's house are just a fraction of what truly happen.You can't really conclude that he is an errand boy based on that one incidence. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Miami11: 7:37pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Oyind17: Did they tell you, or just part of your investigation Not all sick people lay in bed, your brother does not have to disclose to you all that is going on in his home 7 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Onegai(f): 7:49pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Oyind17: Osolobua, truly women are other women's problems. One is complaining about one 18 year old female cousin instead of minding her pregnancy, this one is accusing her SiL of doing jazz because her brother has become a considerate person. Chai! 20 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Sh0llypopz: 7:50pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Oyind17: You mean the first son came to open the door for you and not your brother?? The wife's errand skills are slacking, I'm disappointed. 42 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Miami11: 7:54pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Onegai:I can excuse the pregnant woman because she is overwhelmed, every pregnant woman can appreciate a little help |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 7:55pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Onegai:I asked a question. I can't say everything here, itk 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Miami11: 7:58pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
And as a responsible sister in law, why did you not offer to help your brother, instead you walked out? 32 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Onegai(f): 8:02pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Miami11: I know what it is to be heavy but simple words can diffuse a small issue. Instead shes already reading meanings into stuff that hasn't happened and planning for war in the future (in her mind she's calling it "setting boundaries". Had she told that girl and she refused to help, ehen... Miami11: my dear... 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by zemaye: 8:06pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Onegai: 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Miami11: 8:08pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Onegai: maybe it's the pregnancy raging hormones lol, |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Mariecakes(f): 8:09pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
It is love 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by musicwriter(m): 8:15pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Oyind17: Maintain your lane 17 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 8:28pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
musicwriter:Hahaha ........you funny 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by musicwriter(m): 8:34pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Oyimd17: Your brother obviously love his wife. And the wife loves him. As long as they're happy together, that's all that matters. I personally don't like someone doing stuffs for me, I like doing my chores for and by myself. 10 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 8:36pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
SAMBARRY, abeg come help me tell this op say make she go find her own husband marry. 15 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 8:38pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Oyind17: Madam, go and find your own home and leave another woman's Ezi n'ulo alone! 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by praxisnetworks: 8:51pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
EggovinMma:No way! She should dig deeper.... 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Miami11: 9:03pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
praxisnetworks: What should she dig for, is she a skunk or raccoon to dig sand, This one is a potential trouble maker that needs to find a husband immediately to get busy Her brother is an adult and does not need a nosy watchman, who will let her come dig, she will be thrown out like a ball, then they will sit down condemn their daughter in law 14 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by praxisnetworks: 9:16pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Miami11:No way... Am giving her the benefit of doubt.... Please oyind17 dig well ... Dig deeper rescue your bro if need be |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 9:24pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
praxisnetworks:What can I do? |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 9:29pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
praxisnetworks: So she should go to another woman's home to dig? She know know say na visitor she be? The day her brother got wedded, his allegiance starts with his own family! She is just a common intruder. It's like me going to my brother's house to poke nose for another woman pot of soup. Shame no dey catch me? What I should be asking my in law is to teach me how to catch a husband The secret ingredients wey she use, and not to poke nose about 0 her business. Hian! !! 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by tpiar: 9:29pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
So after you break your brother's home, what next? Your friend wants to date him? you dont even seem to to consider his kids as family. be careful kie to gba oruko nile yin o. lord have mercy. 16 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Roliks09: 9:47pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Okay, so I ask my husband on several occasions to get us more food. I ask him to change the baby's diaper, I ask him to feed the baby, I ask him to bathe her. On several occasions, he has made dinner, served it, and washed the dishes after wards. All of the above mentioned he has done even while his mum was with us. Can we please move beyond seeing a man cross leg while the wife runs up and down? Is messenger written on the forehead of any woman? Dear OP, I don't think your brother in law is under any spell please. You can discuss this nice and considerate behaviour you observed with your hubby and mention to him that you wouldn't mind getting that kind of help from him. 35 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Nobody: 9:47pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
yvelchstores: Wow 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Like A Houseboy To His Wife by Karleb(m): 9:53pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Na him be say your brother own don done. |
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