adewasco2k:


Now this is a girl with a brain!


My analysis is that.... Girls are generally weak and very emotional.

Most girls that have a serious reason not to have ever had sex (virgins) might be strong enough to stand firm above their emotions and not give it up.

Some good girls that give it up might be caught up in the emotions and dont want to turn the guy down becuase they have started having serious feelings for him. To them its like a way to show they want the guy.

Why most insecure low esteem guys feel such girls are no wife material is because they feel she was too easy and will fall for any other guy in same way.

Me I will take it as "I was special"

Dunno again ooo, is it how long you suffered to get her to say yes, got her to give up sex that qualify her as being a wife materia?

Hmmmmm

Exactly, I agree with ur points too, how long it took her to have sex with a guy shouldn't determine whether she's a wife material or not

Mjshexy:
A husband material will not even think of having sex with a wife material on a 1st date..

True! I like you jare!!!

missKiffy:
Everybody is entitled to their own opinion but I just don't understand the way some pple reason at times, you go on a date with a girl, you as the guy initiated sex, lets assume she didn't give in immediately or she did give in immediately, doesn't matter but she did give in, and you now claim she's not or will not be a wife material? TF, who initiated d sex in the first place? Now you as a guy that had sex with a girl on the first date, i guess ur perfect and you consider urself an husband material. God help us with these sort of mentalities

I really dont know what to say to u ryt now but chick u 're d bomb..... Abeg collect hug...... see all of dem running their mouth like taps won't be surprised if dey 're all a bunch of secondary school kids

Everybody is entitled to their own opinion but I just don't understand the way some pple reason at times, you go on a date with a girl, you as the guy initiated sex, lets assume she didn't give in immediately or she did give in immediately, doesn't matter but she did give in, and you now claim she's not or will not be a wife material? TF, who initiated d sex in the first place? Now you as a guy that had sex with a girl on the first date, i guess ur perfect and you consider urself an husband material. God help us with these sort of mentalities [/quote]

yeah anyone can make a mistake.

that she make a mistake is not enough to rub her of that *wiffy* materials

mind u, qualities of chastity don't make you a good wife

when u sleep with a woman doesn't determine whether she's wife material or not..
Although,it's normal to think that any woman who goes under the sheets on a first date possibly does the same with other guys but that also says a whole lot about the character of the man involved.
If u can't respect her enough to wait for some other time,then u're not husband material either..
There are always exceptions in every situation tho..

danbrowndmf:
ladies are lousy this days...also all these set of ladies that whenever u ask them out there question goes like this "can you take good care of me"?
I'm i a doctor? I ask you to date me not to Venture or something.

lmao at am I a doctor, any lady asking that this day doesn't hv a life.

Imoleayomi001:


Your view is well understood and makes logical sense. However, as much as am not trying to disrupt anyone's sexual preferences, we need to realize and understand this fact, (especially ladies); Introduction of early sex into any 'serious ' or 'committed' relationship , gives room for a lot of misconceptions and assumptions, more importantly , critical issues to sort or discuss are swept under the carpet under the heated passion of sex thereby laying foundations of errors and unbaked relationships.. this truth evades a lot of young people in our generation, but believe me this are trade secrets that strongly contributes to 'true and solid relationships'

I understand and agree with ur point at the same time I believe how long it took a girl to have sex with a guy shouldn't determine whether she's a wife material or not

plankton:
Everybody is entitled to their own opinion but I just don't understand the way some pple reason at times, you go on a date with a girl, you as the guy initiated sex, lets assume she didn't give in immediately or she did give in immediately, doesn't matter but she did give in, and you now claim she's not or will not be a wife material? TF, who initiated d sex in the first place? Now you as a guy that had sex with a girl on the first date, i guess ur perfect and you consider urself an husband material. God help us with these sort of mentalities

yeah anyone can make a mistake.

that she make a mistake is not enough to rub her of that *wiffy* materials

mind u, qualities of chastity don't make you a good wife

Thank you

missKiffy:
Everybody is entitled to their own opinion but I just don't understand the way some pple reason at times, you go on a date with a girl, you as the guy initiated sex, lets assume she didn't give in immediately or she did give in immediately, doesn't matter but she did give in, and you now claim she's not or will not be a wife material? TF, who initiated d sex in the first place? Now you as a guy that had sex with a girl on the first date, i guess ur perfect and you consider urself an husband material. God help us with these sort of mentalities

Thank you for this common sense.

Unfortunately it turns out that it is not common with the women folk who have responded to this topic.

The scary part is that the women are also bashing their fellow women and giving silly responses.

The guy initiates sex, and then turns round to call the girl names. Clearly a hypocritical world we live in.

This is one of the deeply rooted and underlying mentality why guys feel it is their right to sexually harass women.

It doesn't happen, unless she's not responsible. Meaning she's not a wife material.

t2luv1:


Preach my brotha. Like I always say you cant judge a book by its cover. The one that make you wait might just be a freak trying to con you out.

gbam.

dulux07:

Seriously, if she can easily giv it on d first date, it means she lacks self-control, wch is very important in marriage..

fa fa fa foul, according to Zebrudaya Okorigwe Nwogwu alias 4:30.

Who who who who told you that!

Monalisa185:
and how would you know she's a wife material on a first date?

Good question

MayflowerB:

I really dont know what to say to u ryt now but chick u 're d bomb..... Abeg collect hug...... see all of dem running their mouth like taps won't be surprised if dey 're all a bunch of secondary school kids

Abi, matured guys who have experienced life and the ups and downs of relationships won't think as such

misspicy:

wow

Yes. That's my story
It's a shame the men on NL are more like dogs than actual human beings.

If u sleep with her on the 1st date, then she has lost "wife material" status... gbam!

sweatlana:

Yes. That's my story
It's a shame the men on NL are more like dogs than actual human beings.

well I think they are not been realistic or lemme say they are a rare breed of men

because men I know outside NL still abide by things like that

simplisity:
Y would i sleep wit her, while i know that by God's grace we will be together forever. Sex calls for nothin but exibition of animalistic urge in us. I respect her for being a wife material bcs not all woman do.

stop lying jurr, respect what, how would you even know she is a wife material on the 1st date? and you that go on and initiate sex on the 1st date, what does that say about you hmmmm, a husband material right?

AnakinSkywalker:



Thank you for this common sense.

Unfortunately it turns out that it is not common with the women folk who have responded to this topic.

The scary part is that the women are also bashing their fellow women and giving silly responses.

The guy initiates sex, and then turns round to call the girl names. Clearly a hypocritical world we live in.

This is one of the deeply rooted and underlying mentality why guys feel it is their right to sexually harass women.

Exactly, we live in an hypocritical world, most people are hypocrites

maryhaam:
lmao at am I a doctor, any lady asking that this day doesn't hv a life.

mir...girls still ask "can you take good care of me" not too long i got such question...This are people who see relationship as a business venture...

lifeisabitch:
A woman u know is good enough to wife, will you respect her enough to resist the temptation to ask her for sex on first date?

I know for sure that side chicks are usuallly slept with on first date.

Sorry but men dont know if a lady is good enof to wed from just a first date

MayflowerB:

I really dont know what to say to u ryt now but chick u 're d bomb..... Abeg collect hug...... see all of dem running their mouth like taps won't be surprised if dey 're all a bunch of secondary school kids

ok, even tho i am a guy, i have to give you a thumbs up on this one, nicely said

chinkelly:
If u sleep with her on the 1st date, then she has lost "wife material" status... gbam!

and you have gained husband material status abi

Even whites pretend not to have sex with you on the first date,does it make them not to be whores? Same applies to someone having sex with you on the first date,it doesn't define who she is.

A wife material won't be that loose to do it on a first date. Except say na olosho

danbrowndmf:
mir...girls still ask "can you take good care of me" not too long i got such question...This are people who see relationship as a business venture...

hmmm re u sure she's not underage*just curious*

GodblessNig247:

did it happen to u?

Of course, not.

funny topic, crazy kids answers, you can't tell someone is a wife or husband material on the first date unless you are just living in denial, i mean lying to yourself; secondly a guy initiates the move for sex more times than the girl, i dunno why u are all hating on the girls, the guy is also irresponsible, i am too mature to look at things from the 1st time we meet and sex happens to conclude all about the person, sex is overrated still..

misspicy:
Tosyn I will beat you o

God is watching u sha

Monalisa185:
and how would you know she's a wife material on a first date?

U just read my mind... GOD bless you my dear.

Anything done on the first date can't be used to judge if a lady is wife material or not.

That day's activity is full of Pretence!

Sex on first date is wrong in all ramification, no matter how u all tried twist it. Many guys use this chance to sleep around with alot of gals.

Moreover, pre marital sex is wrongggggg

Monalisa185:
and how would you know she's a wife material on a first date?

if she close her leg on first date.