For me, it's about tauts nd d ideology about it, dat u slept with her the 1st day doesn't make her cheap, and dat she refuses doesn't guarantee marriage.. or make her a house wife material, there is more to it than sex, what happens to character, way of life, humility nd all....

maryhaam:
hmmm re u sure she's not underage*just curious*

she should be in her 20s...actually she's a friend to my friend girl so she just left her previous relationship for reasons unknown to me..so my friend was saying to her " i had like you to me my friend" & her reply suddenly goes like " can he take good care of me"? (in a money way she was stylishly refering to). I saw the whatsapp chat & i just laugh it up...

Oliviaarims:

Of course, not.

OK. But that didn't make u or that doesn't make you a wife material. Hope u are aware

tosyne2much:
God is watching u sha

God is watching you too

Wat gave u assurance dat she's a wife material on 1st date.

missKiffy:
Everybody is entitled to their own opinion but I just don't understand the way some pple reason at times, you go on a date with a girl, you as the guy initiated sex, lets assume she didn't give in immediately or she did give in immediately, doesn't matter but she did give in, and you now claim she's not or will not be a wife material? TF, who initiated d sex in the first place? Now you as a guy that had sex with a girl on the first date, i guess ur perfect and you consider urself an husband material. God help us with these sort of mentalities

I concur.

VickyRotex:


Yea!

Although, one might not be able to tell who a wife material is on a first date.

I guess so

jrerico1:
Op you're foolish. Is the side chick not going to be wife material to someone?? Stupid thread

Abi o, even the op sef

tosyne2much:
YES !! This is the thread I have been waiting for


God knows I will be present on a thread like this


Guys let's do a survey


Click LIKE if you think a lady who allows sex on the first date is not a wife material,

Click SHARE If you think she's a wife material.

Quote me if you think she's both a wife and non wife material

u get brain oooo,,,see as u collect all d 'LIKES'

GodblessNig247:


OK. But that didn't make u or that doesn't make you a wife material. Hope u are aware

Don't quote me again, pls.

Yes. Even if its after 2 hours.

There's nothing like husband or wife material. Every body is husband or wife material to someone that's what makes humans special.

DIVERSITY

Retarded Question.

missKiffy:
Everybody is entitled to their own opinion but I just don't understand the way some pple reason at times, you go on a date with a girl, you as the guy initiated sex, lets assume she didn't give in immediately or she did give in immediately, doesn't matter but she did give in, and you now claim she's not or will not be a wife material? TF, who initiated d sex in the first place? Now you as a guy that had sex with a girl on the first date, i guess ur perfect and you consider urself an husband material. God help us with these sort of mentalities

You r right but men has been programmed psychologically to initiate/advance/move sex/relationship/romance, while women to receive/resist/accept.

of what good is a man who lacks initiating power and of what good us a woman with zero resistance?
the safety and quality of a current lies in its resistance.

Since i grew up to know d diff btw a man and a woman, no one has pointed it out to me that there are other 2 classification of women too. But since the op is a woman, i'll just believe there are non wife material, but which lady will admit she's non wife material?

Back to op question, i cant say tho, until i see a wife material.

Monalisa185:
and how would you know she's a wife material on a first date?

Good Ques!

End time mentality...

I like dis topic cz lots of truth r bein revealed.. Let me add my own little personal xperienc, n anytime I com home frm school, I noticed dat dis babe is always greetin nd askin me various question abt school, gf etc. Bt I just tried to b as friendly as possible.. let open a thread in romance on this nd see wat am saying.

maryhaam:
lmao at am I a doctor, any lady asking that this day doesn't hv a life.

you do know so many ladies ask this questions right, like a lot of them

seunakin231:
For me, it's about tauts nd d ideology about it, dat u slept with her the 1st day doesn't make her cheap, and dat she refuses doesn't guarantee marriage.. or make her a house wife material, there is more to it than sex, what happens to character, way of life, humility nd all....

Niceeeeeee!

Mjshexy:
A husband material will not even think of having sex with a wife material on a 1st date..

Nicely Written dear!

maryhaam:
lmao at am I a doctor, any lady asking that this day doesn't hv a life.

You're right but about 65% of ladies still ask that question directly or indirectly... and I'm always like..

maryhaam:
hmmm re u sure she's not underage*just curious*

maryhaam are u from this 2015 era or a different one cos i don't get this your underage question, a lot of girls in Lagos ask that all the time, questions like buy me recharge card na, pay for my bis na, i want to do my hair, can you take care of me, it's a norm with most girls, i am not saying all..

tosyne2much:
YES !! This is the thread I have been waiting for


God knows I will be present on a thread like this


Guys let's do a survey


Click LIKE if you think a lady who allows sex on the first date is not a wife material,

Click SHARE If you think she's a wife material.

Quote me if you think she's both a wife and non wife material

my brother see ehn i pray make we never enter one chance o some girls pretend die infact they we not allow you to touch them and before you know it she be confim runs girl trying to do holy holy see ehn everything nah luck i swear

telad:


if she close her leg on first date.

dumbest answer so far, so a girl closes her legs to you on the 1st date automatically means she is wife material, dude are you 15?

Every girl is a wife material. The main fact is that we have 3 categories. The Good, The Bad and The Ugly.

telad:


You r right but men has been programmed psychologically to initiate/advance/move sex/relationship/romance, while women to receive/resist/accept.

of what good is a man who lacks initiating power and of what good us a woman with zero resistance?
the safety and quality of a current lies in its resistance.

I get ur point, her resistance level is key, at the same time it shouldn't be the sole determinant to determine whether she's a wife material or not

TheSonOfMark:



How easy for you to admit that. You conveniently evaded the fact that it took more than a little persuasion on your part before she agreed to tumble beneath the sheets with you.

It's a DATE for Pete's sake! You both are already in a relationship and having sex within the confines of a relationship isn't casual sex. She's not the _whore you're trying to paint her as. She isn't getting paid for it or in return for a favour.

The sex is consented. If you think a girl worths less for having sex in A RELATIONSHIP then you're worth less than you rate yourself.

God bless you plenty!

mickky88:



my brother see ehn i pray make we never enter one chance o some girls pretend die infact they we not allow you to touch them and before you know it she be confim runs girl trying to do holy holy see ehn everything nah luck i swear

Na only God just save us bro

Randy91:




u get brain oooo,,,see as u collect all d 'LIKES'

Na the scope be dat bro

my question is how did we get here? fornication is almost becoming a normal thing.. my submission to your question OP, is, any man or woman who has not master self control over his/her sexual urge is capable of anything that can destroy a family, however you must understand it's not easy to tame the sexual urge, but it's attainable I have tame mine you also can if you want to while you want for marriage. my secrets is constant fellowship with the God by his spirit; for whenever the fellowship is broken for just minimum of two days to one week the urge sometimes burns but I have learnt to to always depend on God by his spirit in intense fellowshipping... I have won the fight over sex, you too can win. think about it and act upon it!!!

The first date is not enough for me to know that i want her to be my wife, and i dont actually "ask" for sex, i use an excuse to get her to my house and then make my move.... so, on a first date, i would always try to get her to my place after the date.

lifeisabitch:
A woman u know is good enough to wife, will you respect her enough to resist the temptation to ask her for sex on first date?

I know for sure that side chicks are usuallly slept with on first date.

3rdlegxxx:


dumbest answer so far, so a girl closes her legs to you on the 1st date automatically means she is wife material, dude are you 15?

Lolsss if you have a brother that has 2 gfs, he brought d first one home d first time and u heard dem doing it, den d other like week before doing it.

if he asked you that aunt, pls which of dese 2 gals do u think is more descent?

what will be your response?

it means she has self control. ladies are at d receiving end, d more reason for dem to control their libido.