Hahahahaa which code of conduct


OP, it depends on d lady in question, if she is in d mood,a dude has no right to deprive a lady of s3x,it is against d code of conduct, but at d same time, I think he shouldn't demand for it....[/quote]

missKiffy:

I get ur point, her resistance level is key, at the same time it shouldn't be the sole determinant to determine whether she's a wife material or not

Yes, not d sole but part of. A woman who can't control her libido will definitely have extramarital affairs.

that is not good for the husband blood pressure.

lifeisabitch:
A woman u know is good enough to wife, will you respect her enough to resist the temptation to ask her for sex on first date?

I know for sure that side chicks are usuallly slept with on first date.

my question is how did we get here? fornication is almost becoming a normal thing.. my submission to your question OP, is, any man or woman who has not master self control over his/her sexual urge is capable of anything that can destroy a family, however you must understand it's not easy to tame the sexual urge, but it's attainable I have tame mine you also can if you want to while you want for marriage. my secrets is constant fellowship with the God by his spirit; for whenever the fellowship is broken for just minimum of two days to one week the urge sometimes burns but I have learnt to to always depend on God by his spirit in intense fellowshipping... I have won the fight over sex, you too can win. think about it and act upon it!!!

danbrowndmf:
she should be in her 20s...actually she's a friend to my friend girl so she just left her previous relationship for reasons unknown to me..so my friend was saying to her " i had like you to me my friend" & her reply suddenly goes like " can he take good care of me"? (in a money way she was stylishly refering to). I saw the whatsapp chat & i just laugh it up...

don't mind me been inquisitive,coz I c a guy helping a lady in a relationship has a personal thing,for instance I pinged u it didn't deliver n am like am out of airtime wen I get out wil buy,the next minute he send,its a freewill thing,my mentality thou.

3rdlegxxx:


maryhaam are u from this 2015 era or a different one cos i don't get this your underage question, a lot of girls in Lagos ask that all the time, questions like buy me recharge card na, pay for my bis na, i want to do my hair, can you take care of me, it's a norm with most girls, i am not saying all..

thought that era is over,bis people still beg for that, nextyme brother please get them a job,when they work they wil know ow to spend.

adeaks:
If she allows me sleep with her on the first date, in my books she aint wife material. Simple!

If u ask for sex on a first date, in my books, ur not a husband material

maryhaam:
don't mind me been inquisitive,coz I c a guy helping a lady in a relationship has a personal thing,for instance I pinged u it didn't deliver n am like am out of airtime wen I get out wil buy,the next minute he send,its a freewill thing,my mentality thou.

yeah..it a relationship we ought to help ourselves in one or two ways if we can...i simply do nt need to be dating you before i can help you...in my ND days there was this junior female colleague me & my guy do help cus she was not having much,not as if we had much too but we just don't want her to be sleeping around in other to feed her self & she was greatful about it & none of ous was even dating her..so helping one another should not be because you are dating someone..it should be on freewill

danbrowndmf:
yeah..it a relationship we ought to help ourselves in one or two ways if we can...i simply do nt need to be dating you before i can help you...in my ND days there was this junior female colleague me & my guy do help cus she was not having much,not as if we had much too but we just don't want her to be sleeping around in other to feed her self & she was greatful about it & none of ous was even dating her..so helping one another should not be because you are dating someone..it should be on freewill

I agree you know,that why some see sex has been reciprocated for good deeds,they need to change some mentality pertaining relationship,we wil get dere someday.

All u are just saying is the guy sleeping with the wife-material. You that is the wife-material nko, u also would have slept with a husband-material on the first date na

danbrowndmf:
yeah..it a relationship we ought to help ourselves in one or two ways if we can...i simply do nt need to be dating you before i can help you...in my ND days there was this junior female colleague me & my guy do help cus she was not having much,not as if we had much too but we just don't want her to be sleeping around in other to feed her self & she was greatful about it & none of ous was even dating her..so helping one another should not be because you are dating someone..it should be on freewill

that's why I like you

t2luv1:



Please come to California, Thousand Oaks to be exact. That aint happening. Know of a guy that met a girl on the strips in Vegas, two hours after meeting they were already doing the business. Eight hours later they got married at a drive through chapel for $75. Guess what they have been happily married for Nine years now. That is what I call real love.

U kno of a guy, not guys. Probably one in every thousand.

misspicy:
hmmmmmm,very deep kweshion







waiting for the guys comments

modified*****
My mum used to say something to me

'she said a man who wants to marry you,will not ask for, demand for, or pressure you for sex till after marriage"

well I guess this mentality does not hold water in our present generation

WRONG!
Your Mummy is still right but It is the mentality that abound on social media that the youths of this generation chooses to hold close to heart.

Imagine if the knowledge and the mentality of the Bible and Qur'an were to be strictly adhered to which is the part in which your Mummy's statement is pointing to *And may be she didn't have a deep knowledge of the Bible or Qur'an as the case may be*

I am sure You urself would never be teaching ur kids how to just be falling for every temptation of sex they might be facing, be it Male or Female

mzjayne:
Nicely Written dear!

Thanks dear

Abee79:

True! I like you jare!!!

same here..tanx

sweatlana:


You are so on point you deserve a medal!

Oh really! Am humbled

maryhaam:
I agree you know,that why some see sex has been reciprocated for good deeds,they need to change some mentality pertaining relationship,we wil get dere someday.

yeah.i can't wait to really see ous get there...hope say u nor be one of them.

Every girl is a potential wife material, depending on what the guy in question wants. Yes , most guys uses sex on the first date as a yard stick to determine if a girl is truly a wife material or not, but I think this set of guys needs to change their mentality. That a girl had sex with u on the first date doesn't in anyway mean she would end up an unfaithful wife, bad cook , bad mother to the kids, be materialistic or not enduring. Am sure a girl would never ask for sex on the first date, it is usually the guys that does. So why blame a girl that has already falling for u and also wishes to also satisfy her sexual urge.

lifeisabitch:
will you still marry her if you later find out she isn't a virgin?

I will marry her.
Because, her losing the virginity may be a Product of other things. Though I will be watchful.

misspicy:

that's why I like you

Thanks. This your siggy ehn... I even want to ask u sef.. Why did u walk out of your last relationship.

Monalisa185:
and how would you know she's a wife material on a first date?

I tire oooo. Refusing to have sex on first day doesn't even guarantee she is a wife material.

misspicy:
hmmmmmm,very deep kweshion







waiting for the guys comments

modified*****
My mum used to say something to me

'she said a man who wants to marry you,will not ask for, demand for, or pressure you for sex till after marriage"

well I guess this mentality does not hold water in our present generation

Girl, you have common sense in abundance. Three gbosas to you alone.

tosyne2much:
YES !! This is the thread I have been waiting for


God knows I will be present on a thread like this


Guys let's do a survey


Click LIKE if you think a lady who allows sex on the first date is not a wife material,

Click SHARE If you think she's a wife material.

Quote me if you think she's both a wife and non wife material

That she had sex on first date doesn't mean she ain't a good wife material

when a woman decides to have sex should not be a yardstick to measure if she is a wife material

danbrowndmf:
Thanks. This your siggy ehn... I even want to ask u sef.. Why did u walk out of your last relationship.

siggy is the truth bro


about relationships,its complicated bro

eminent007:

Girl, you have common sense in abundance. Three gbosas to you alone.

well I owe it to my mama

tosyne2much:
YES !! This is the thread I have been waiting for


God knows I will be present on a thread like this


Guys let's do a survey


Click LIKE if you think a lady who allows sex on the first date is not a wife material,

Click SHARE If you think she's a wife material.

Quote me if you think she's both a wife and non wife material

baba 10-10, pls tell me u r a statistican.... u r always interested in surveys like this... besides, u be my NL personality of the year

danbrowndmf:
yeah.i can't wait to really see ous get there...hope say u nor be one of them.

am expecting that,naaaa am not,only when in dire need,btw my friends are cool.

missKiffy:
Everybody is entitled to their own opinion but I just don't understand the way some pple reason at times, you go on a date with a girl, you as the guy initiated sex, lets assume she didn't give in immediately or she did give in immediately, doesn't matter but she did give in, and you now claim she's not or will not be a wife material? TF, who initiated d sex in the first place? Now you as a guy that had sex with a girl on the first date, i guess ur perfect and you consider urself an husband material. God help us with these sort of mentalities

u re one of the few girls that still reasons well in the midst of the plenty brainless and hopeless ones that roam around. Nne i wonder,just know that it is endtime generation,so people now reason and behave like animals..hold on tight, worse times are yet to come.

And if she say no sex till marriage now....all of una no go gree.....Wife material kor,wife coupon ni.....seh na sex alone dem dey use knw wife material ni

maryhaam:
am expecting that,naaaa am not,only when in dire need,btw my friends are cool.

huh.cool to know u are not among the "can you take good care of me crew"

aolumaxi:
baba 10-10, pls tell me u r a statistican.... u r always interested in surveys like this... besides, u be my NL personality of the year

Thanks jawe baba


I go drop one dis evening sef

misspicy:

siggy is the truth bro


about relationships,its complicated bro

complicated? Let ous know if u are single or taken...stop all dis complicated talk..jare.