Their is this girl i love so much and i can't wait to hv her as my wife. She has all the required things a man need, but the problem is that we stayed in thesame compound. Maybe i might be sounding somehw akward, but some guys will understand that kind stuff. A situation where u see her everyday and she sees ur ups and down and u guys are just like frm dsame family. Pls can i stil marry such person?

Yes, you can. There is no taboo involved. Besides you will know everything about her first hand.

Why exactly re u asking?
You didn't infer dat u re related to her so Wats stopping u?

That is if you are not related to her.

Yes u can. As far as der is understanding btw u both.

No big deal

Kingsasian:
That is if you are not related to her.

dat 1 go b abomination o

Yes go on & marry her...don't mind all these yeye protocols pple set for thereself..you have intention of marriage not dating..then go on & let out your feeling...we should live like 2mao is not assure..whosoever you love let them no today not 2mao...tommorow is not promised.

No! Dont marry her, pack to Kaduna where she won't be seeing your ups and down. Mtcheeeeew

People should adive me on this situation. I have a sister who married legally to a guy, after two years of their marriage the mother in-law of my sister's husband caused serious problem between them and they separated. My main point of posting this is that, the guy is very comfortable and the child my sister had for him he does not take care of her even money for feeding he refused to carry his responsibility on his daughter. I need an advice which authority can i report him to. Pls don't mind my grammatical error. I need to report him pls.

Its ok guy. Nothing is wrong with it. Even if u think there cld be something abt u or ur family that cld make her say no, just increase ur friendship with her gradually and make her see why things are like that. I just pray she isn't too superficial to understand.

i cnt tho...but no biggie, jst as i cnt marry/date my colleague one of us have to leave the job same with compound folks one of us will pack out. abeg i jst cnt oooo

Sure you can.

I know someone that married his neighbour. She moved into the compound before him and they started dating. They got married and she moved in with him until his rent expired and they both moved out.

zaragal:
i cnt tho...but no biggie, jst as i cnt marry/date my colleague one of us have to leave the job same with compound folks one of us will pack out. abeg i jst cnt oooo

one of u will leave which job or compound?
u never see anything...