.

Don't even go there

In terms of everything, she senior you


Hustle hard


Get your money first


Every other things would follow

hmmmn interesting...

One Advice : set ur priorities right...

How will being with her aid ur future?..

she is probably looking to get married in less than 3 years and u are just a uni fresher..

A WORD ..............

Kiddo
Go to uni
You will meet your mates there
Heres my advice, hold your horses for now, go to FUTO for 6mnts and if you still feel the same, then go for it

##dont dial dat number!

OP, go and face your studies

*siddon here* to read good & impressive comments

op if u dont want her addressing u as one of her clueless suitors to another guy dnt try it

#save ur sef some embarasment

Op, if u really want to be like her, I mean a graduate... Face ur book and leave those lustful behavior of urs

Re u really 20 u talk 30

OP, I may not know the depth of feelings you have towards this lady, but from what you shared I could deduce your emotions are having the better of you. It's normal to be emotional, but emotions must be subjected to reality test.

You listed all the reasons why asking this lady out may not seem wise. It's good you had time to reflect rather than jumping into something you'd latter regret. Your a young adult and the desire for companionship especially from the opposite sex is understandable. However, there's an urgent need for you to set your priorities right.

Your first priority is to secure a future. And education is a sure way of doing that. Congrats on your admission by the way. Take a good look at your mum. Look at your siblings, I suppose you have one or two. What do you see? You must understand that the destinies of these family members and several others are tied to yours. If you fail today, they fail. If you succeed tomorrow, they succeed. Please let your education come first before anything or anyone else.

You said she's older, better educated, from a well to do background etc. Personally, all these have nothing to do with love. Any woman irrespective of status can be seduced, so pull down all those stumbling blocks you erected. However, don't tell her how you feel, nor ask her out. The odds that it will end well are extremely slim. Rather, cultivate a filial relationship with her. It's possible to be friends with the opposite sex without getting intimate. It's a thing of the mind. If you can't run!

Someday, you might recall how you felt towards this lady, and all the reasons you gave why you can't be with her. It does happen! Let that day be one of laughter rather than sadness. Let that day be one you will look back and be grateful to all those who advised you to take your education serious.. Let day be one you will look back and be grateful to your mum and all those who believed and supported your dream. Let that day be one you will look at all you have achieved and give God thanks. That day can only become a reality if you make the right choice. Education is a sure panacea for poverty. Thanks.

This would lead nowhere... Too many red flags @OP... Don't ever ignore red flags

Drfinn:
OP, I may not know the depth of feelings you have towards this lady, but from what you shared I could deduce your emotions are having the better of you. It's normal to be emotional, but emotions must be subjected to reality test.

You listed all the reasons why asking this lady out may not seem wise. It's good you had time to reflect rather than jumping into something you'd latter regret. Your a young adult and the desire for companionship especially from the opposite sex is understandable. However, there's an urgent need for you to set your priorities right.

Your first priority is to secure a future. And education is a sure way of doing that. Congrats on your admission by the way. Take a good look at your mum. Look at your siblings, I suppose you have one or two. What do you see? You must understand that the destinies of these family members and several others are tied to yours. If you fail today, they fail. If you succeed tomorrow, they succeed. Please let your education come first before anything or anyone else.

You said she's older, better educated, from a well to do background etc. Personally, all these have nothing to do with love. Any woman irrespective of status can be seduced, so pull down all those stumbling blocks you erected. However, don't tell her how you feel, nor ask her out. The odds that it will end well are extremely slim. Rather, cultivate a filial relationship with her. It's possible to be friends with the opposite sex without getting intimate. It's a thing of the mind. If you can't run!

Someday, you might recall how you felt towards this lady, and all the reasons you gave why you can't be with her. It does happen! Let that day be one of laughter rather than sadness. Let that day be one you will look back and be grateful to all those who advised you to take your education serious.. Let day be one you will look back and be grateful to your mum and all those who believed and supported your dream. Let that day be one you will look at all you have achieved and give God thanks. That day can only become a reality if you make the right choice. Education is a sure panacea for poverty. Thanks.

thank u so much big bro!

Drfinn:
OP, I may not know the depth of feelings you have towards this lady, but from what you shared I could deduce your emotions are having the better of you. It's normal to be emotional, but emotions must be subjected to reality test.

You listed all the reasons why asking this lady out may not seem wise. It's good you had time to reflect rather than jumping into something you'd latter regret. Your a young adult and the desire for companionship especially from the opposite sex is understandable. However, there's an urgent need for you to set your priorities right.

Your first priority is to secure a future. And education is a sure way of doing that. Congrats on your admission by the way. Take a good look at your mum. Look at your siblings, I suppose you have one or two. What do you see? You must understand that the destinies of these family members and several others are tied to yours. If you fail today, they fail. If you succeed tomorrow, they succeed. Please let your education come first before anything or anyone else.

You said she's older, better educated, from a well to do background etc. Personally, all these have nothing to do with love. Any woman irrespective of status can be seduced, so pull down all those stumbling blocks you erected. However, don't tell her how you feel, nor ask her out. The odds that it will end well are extremely slim. Rather, cultivate a filial relationship with her. It's possible to be friends with the opposite sex without getting intimate. It's a thing of the mind. If you can't run!

Someday, you might recall how you felt towards this lady, and all the reasons you gave why you can't be with her. It does happen! Let that day be one of laughter rather than sadness. Let that day be one you will look back and be grateful to all those who advised you to take your education serious.. Let day be one you will look back and be grateful to your mum and all those who believed and supported your dream. Let that day be one you will look at all you have achieved and give God thanks. That day can only become a reality if you make the right choice. Education is a sure panacea for poverty. Thanks.

so u mean i shud call öff d date right??