As in, I don't get it. I can be real to the core and free minded to an extent. As I prepare to engage in a courtship with a working class lady.

Gees I can be 70% logical...

How do partners cope with hide and seek ?

The blue cat walked on a green paper before midnight under the eiffel tower next to the lawn mower.

obiorathesubtle:
The blue cat walked on a green paper before midnight under the eiffel tower next to the lawn mower.

Blanko

charlie, you're not alone.

U can ask d guys here





Coz I can stay clean too

Op, the honest truth is that, most of us in relationships are more adept at hiding than seeking. The human race is well trained in hiding—we've been doing it since the beginning of time.
Adam and Eve played the first game of hide and seek. When they got into trouble in the Garden of Eden the first thing they did was to run and hide. First, they hid from one another—the notorious fig leaf cover-up. Then they tried to conceal their disobedience by hiding from God. It was God who sought them out and found them.
From that point on, man has worn a mask in his relationships with God and with other human beings. Hiding from one another became a natural fiber in the fabric of humanity.

It is within this most intimate of human associations that two people seek to know one another and be known. It is tragic that many people marry to stop being lonely, but soon find themselves lonelier than they were as singles.

I believe 95 percent of all marriages suffer from isolation, and few realize how desperately alone they really are. Often a husband and wife begin drifting apart so slowly that they hardly recognize it's happening. Then, after a few years of hiding and poor communication, they realize that their once romantic love life has grown stale. That's why many successful-looking marriages aren't much more than two successful people independently doing their own thing—they aren't friends and life-partners.

Charles4075:
Op, the honest truth is that, most of us in relationships are more adept at hiding than seeking. The human race is well trained in hiding—we've been doing it since the beginning of time.
Adam and Eve played the first game of hide and seek. When they got into trouble in the Garden of Eden the first thing they did was to run and hide. First, they hid from one another—the notorious fig leaf cover-up. Then they tried to conceal their disobedience by hiding from God. It was God who sought them out and found them.
From that point on, man has worn a mask in his relationships with God and with other human beings. Hiding from one another became a natural fiber in the fabric of humanity.

It is within this most intimate of human associations that two people seek to know one another and be known. It is tragic that many people marry to stop being lonely, but soon find themselves lonelier than they were as singles.

I believe 95 percent of all marriages suffer from isolation, and few realize how desperately alone they really are. Often a husband and wife begin drifting apart so slowly that they hardly recognize it's happening. Then, after a few years of hiding and poor communication, they realize that their once romantic love life has grown stale. That's why many successful-looking marriages aren't much more than two successful people independently doing their own thing—they aren't friends and life-partners.

You make a lot of sense. Actually, but Jesus Christ came and we are renewed. Why can't we be true to ourselves. I think we need God to manage such confusion.

Sex... Dats how they Cope... Sex

HAHAHA!!! Females like guys that play games. They're pretty straightforward about it. You hear them say how they hate "predictable" guys and how they're boring. They want "mystery" and "spontaneity" in relationships to create enough drama. Why do you think they find "bad boys" more appealing?

FACT, studies shows drama makes a woman more attached to a relationship, while it makes her man more detached from it.

Be a dramaless, peaceful, straighforward, completely understanding boyfriend...watch her get frustrated then finally dump your ass or cheat.

The only exceptions are the older, more desperate ladies who wanna marry asap.

CountDracula:
Sex... Dats how they Cope... Sex

He he, panks !

tommychow:
HAHAHA!!! Females like guys that play games. They're pretty straightforward about it. You hear them say how they hate "predictable" guys and how they're boring. They want "mystery" and "spontaneity" in relationships to create enough drama. Why do you think they find "bad boys" more appealing?

FACT, studies shows drama makes a woman more attached to a relationship, while it makes her man more detached from it.

Be a dramaless, peaceful, straighforward, completely understanding boyfriend...watch her get frustrated then finally dump your ass or cheat.

The only exceptions are the older, more desperate ladies who wanna marry asap.

Then, I will play chess with them . until they say checkmate.

digitite:


You make a lot of sense. Actually, but Jesus Christ came and we are renewed. Why can't we be true to ourselves. I think we need God to manage such confusion.

The solution is quite easy but hard to follow.

1. First,seek God by regularly praying together as a couple.Prayerlessness and selfishness are co-conspirators against oneness in your marriage. Nothing defeats hiding like seeking God together.

Second,seek one another, faithfully.Because we are related to our ancestors in the Garden, we naturally hide. We don't naturally seek. It is God Who empowers us to seek.
Like two magnets that repel one another, so two people in a marriage relationship have areas where they just don't automatically come together. The more you get to know a person, the more you become aware of weaknesses, habits, or personality traits which repel you.

Third,seek to defeat the enemy together.Your mate is not your enemy—don't be fooled by the enemy's tricks. He wants you and your mate hiding from one another. Satan wants Christians to have unresolved conflict. He wants us divided and weakened, fighting one another—not battling him. Our enemy is a liar, a deceiver, and when we're isolated he can break down our defenses and convince us of anything.

Huddling together

Playstation or xbox?

digitite:


Then, I will play chess with them . until they say checkmate.

Way forward! Play their game but with NO emotional attachment. Watch them give up and surrender to you at the end.

tommychow:
HAHAHA!!! Females like guys that play games. They're pretty straightforward about it. You hear them say how they hate "predictable" guys and how they're boring. They want "mystery" and "spontaneity" in relationships to create enough drama. Why do you think they find "bad boys" more appealing?

FACT, studies shows drama makes a woman more attached to a relationship, while it makes her man more detached from it.

Be a dramaless, peaceful, straighforward, completely understanding boyfriend...watch her get frustrated then finally dump your ass or cheat.

The only exceptions are the older, more desperate ladies who wanna marry asap.

100

tommychow:


Way forward! Play their game but with NO emotional attachment. Watch them give up and surrender to you at the end.

This is vital in getting hot chicks. If you are emotional, you're in trouble

tommychow:


Way forward! Play their game but with NO emotional attachment. Watch them give up and surrender to you at the end.

Hook, line and sinker

yinkeys:

This is vital in getting hot chicks. If you are emotional, you're in trouble

You sabi joor.