Vivly:
7. They've all watched Lord of the rings. Moral lesson is never to trust anything that wears jewelry.

including you

misspicy:
[b]Lovely and revealing piece by my sister in the Lord....sister Lanicky sexy

I with like to add something to this rightly speculated obstacles affecting single men from clinching a marriage worthy beautiful lady like me



1)They are materialistic....Some guys are so materialistic that all they spend the little money they earn on is cloths and shoes,you know that party taking place at Quilox they are the best dressed there


2)Laziness : this point will make me to forever remember my EX,jeeez dude is so lazy,some guys are so lazy they can't even wash their undies. you will see them wearing dirty cloths over and over again,waiting for their house maid girlfriend to come do the laundry for them

3)Unambitious habit : a poor unambitious dude is a very big turn off biko,this days some guys will just be roaming around the street,travelling up and down doing nothing...please how will a lady find them marriage worthy sef.

etc

Guys should try and make some positive changes in 2016 so that ladies can at least see them as husband worthy,because many Nigerian men are not even 1/2 yard husband material [/b]

This is more realistic and i believe in it. Op that your own no follow jooo. This is more like it

ronald4lif:


I feel indifferent about that though.

hehehe. That's true tho, Sermons don't work no more

Why would a young guy wanna marry in this bad economy? I've got to be financially secure to even THINK of marriage, as in I have my big house, 4 mad rides, a high position at an internationally renowned company, lucrative side businesses, 3 lands on the Island, 8 on the Mainland and a minimum of 100 milla in my account. Don't care about age.

lanicky:


I'm not searching sweet. You know that, don't you?

Sure I do...but incase

Laveda:
Sure I do...but incase

You need to trust me on this

lanicky:


Hehe..
Don't mind them jare..

dollyjoy

hi

lanicky:


You need to trust me on this

Okay I do

tommychow:
Why would a young guy wanna marry in this bad economy? I've got to be financially secure to even THINK of marriage, as in I have my big house, 4 mad rides, a high position at an internationally renowned company, lucrative side businesses, 3 lands on the Island, 8 on the Mainland and a minimum of 100 milla in my account. Don't care about age.

I've heard, time shall tell. Wishing you all the very best, but one thing; make sure you remain chaste till the aged time you would achieve the Lot's objectives. It's well.

ronald4lif:

I feel indifferent about that though.

They shouldn't get wiser?

jmoore:
No 1 obstacle is money

No 2 obstacle is money

No 3 obstacle is money
[img]http://www.auckland.ac.nz/theinsideword/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/money-gif.gif[/img]

money is nt evrytin. Most of our rich celebs ar single compared 2 d suposed poor guys. Most guys tink dat d grl is afta their money so hesitate wen it coms 2 commitmnt.

they were waiting far buhari's 5k stipend. #BrokeAsses

lanicky:
Okay this is a counter thread... Ion like it when Niggas try to make we single ladies feel bad.

Cc: emusmith. I doff my Okrika hat.


So..below are the obstacles that kept some men in the bachelors class throughout 2015.


Unrealistic Dreams:
His monthly allowance is 30k, he works as a Clark at Dangote cement store BT he doesn't want to marry anyhow girl, He prefer the likes of...Zara Buhari, Obama's daughter or Nelson Mandela's grand daughter..etc
Dude forgot there's a wide gap between unrealistic dream nd reality.

2• He thinks he can have it all:
He's that play boy who is always looking for something better. He wants to enjoy his life to the fullest when his still young before people start to tag him as *CREEPY OLD MAN*

3• He doesn't want to compromise his spiritual beliefs:
He knows women can be over spiritual therefore: he won't want to compromise his proffesed faith to placate hers. So maybe, he would consider marriage next year. *shrugs*
JollyJoy and misspicy pray for him abeg

4• He has confused and unrealistic expectations:

He's highly confused about the kind of girl he wants. He would love to marry a Beautiful, tall, light skinned, sexy, lively BUT not a talkative, have big nd sexy curves in the right places, hardworking, humble, God fearing, YORUBA girl
shoo na only you waka come?

5•He's selfish and immature:

He cares about himself only. His girlfriend cones second or third in every option. He can't give but he likes to take from his girlfriend instead. *dudes favorite song is: She no want designer by Davido
He forget or totally ignore things that matters most to his girlfriend but, you dare not forget his birthday.

Biko, how do you expect him to marry? :-/

6• Spiritual attack or cause:

He really wants to get married but, the Pharaoh nd Satanic agents from his father's house has been preventing him.

OR

Bros don rape a 6yr old Binta when he went for National youth service in ABAKALIKI and Mama Binta don swear for am with her left bwest. Abeg, how hr won take marry with that kain curse na?


Ooops! My battery. This BEDC guy no go bring light?

Don't mind my typographical error abeg, would modify later.

Real childish creating a counter thread did the original hurt you that much

Other reasons some guys are not married...

*They only focus on looking for ladies that are "wife materials" not looking inward to build themselves to be "husband materials" as well. You'll see a guy that consumes alchohol like a thirsty Carmel drinking water, only that they never stop. They only look for where street jamz or carnival is happening so they can attend. You'll see them at home in the morning, in their friends place during the day, at game house in the evening and back home in the night. Practically without a job and never with the aim of finding one. Most of them have daddy's and mummy's they ask for money. Then don't know HOW to talk, they are bossy and never say Please or sorry.

*Lack of contentment.
Your babe is walking beside you, yet you turn that your head to look at another lady's behind and boobs. Not only looking, but drooling with saliva "commoting" from your mouth and eyes wide open at someone else's body, and you want her to trust you. You are dating Princess, but sidelining Mariam, you were caught kissing Deola, and introduced Chichi to your friends as your babe. My brother, oyo lowa. She ends up breaking up with you and you start thinking there's a spirit wife following you cause 5girls have dumped you the same way. Look inward.

*Aka-gum-ness.
This is different from stingyness, its worse. Some guys are soooooooo stingy! Common! She's not asking you to buy her a car or buy her a house, but please, pick up the bills sometimes. She doesn't have to ask you before you give her. It doesn't have to be money all the time. You went out, see a nice book(if she reads), buy it for her. It shows you were thinking of her. I'm not saying guys should automatically become ATM's, No. But generally, the man in a relationship provides and protects while the lady submits and care. that's the way its been, even culturally.

I stop my fingers here.

Oliviaarims:



They shouldn't get wiser?

That would deprive myself and my goons a lot na, you suppose know that kind thing. I was betrayed by my loquaciousness when I wrote that lol.

Hehe, okay let's just say let the already wise ones get wiser and the dumb ones kontinuu. Fair play right?

ronald4lif:


That would deprive myself and my goons a lot na, you suppose know that kind thing. I was betrayed by my loquaciousness when I wrote that lol.

Hehe, okay let's just say let the already wise ones get wiser and the dumb ones kontinuu. Fair play right?

Okada stop me here. Tosyn2much, come and see o. Back to the matter, Not all your points are true. Though some are. I feel if a guy is ready to settle down, he will. If he's not, come rain, come shine, he won't take the bold step. But I believe, Most guys are not ready yet.

tommychow:
Why would a young guy wanna marry in this bad economy? I've got to be financially secure to even THINK of marriage, as in I have my big house, 4 mad rides, a high position at an internationally renowned company, lucrative side businesses, 3 lands on the Island, 8 on the Mainland and a minimum of 100 milla in my account. Don't care about age.

Bros you will never married

OEmperor:
Real childish creating a counter thread did the original hurt you that much

No, it didn't hurt at all..

*shrugs* ion care what you say, all I know is that I'm catching fun here

Oluboonmi:
Other reasons some guys are not married...

*They only focus on looking for ladies that are "wife materials" not looking inward to build themselves to be "husband materials" as well. You'll see a guy that consumes alchohol like a thirsty Carmel drinking water, only that they never stop. They only look for where street jamz or carnival is happening so they can attend. You'll see them at home in the morning, in their friends place during the day, at game house in the evening and back home in the night. Practically without a job and never with the aim of finding one. Most of them have daddy's and mummy's they ask for money. Then don't know HOW to talk, they are bossy and never say Please or sorry.

*Lack of contentment.
Your babe is walking beside you, yet you turn that your head to look at another lady's behind and boobs. Not only looking, but drooling with saliva "commoting" from your mouth and eyes wide open at someone else's body, and you want her to trust you. You are dating Princess, but sidelining Mariam, you were caught kissing Deola, and introduced Chichi to your friends as your babe. My brother, oyo lowa. She ends up breaking up with you and you start thinking there's a spirit wife following you cause 5girls have dumped you the same way. Look inward.

*Aka-gum-ness.
This is different from stingyness, its worse. Some guys are soooooooo stingy! Common! She's not asking you to buy her a car or buy her a house, but please, pick up the bills sometimes. She doesn't have to ask you before you give her. It doesn't have to be money all the time. You went out, see a nice book(if she reads), buy it for her. It shows you were thinking of her. I'm not saying guys should automatically become ATM's, No. But generally, the man in a relationship provides and protects while the lady submits and care. that's the way its been, even culturally.

I stop my fingers here.

you make sense dear

Monday suppose join too na

pinceprinz:


Yo brutal! Who ordered for this enlightenment or are u getting paid forit bro huh? ... I just pray the ladies don't listen to this admonition. That their hormones take over their reasoning.

kikiki...... he spoil show for u abi?

I want to remain a celibate

Kachisbarbie:
for guys of "marriageable" age, I think their major problem is usually finance and fear of commitment.

that is d main reason,Goodmorning.

[quote author=lanicky post=41485435]

He really wants to get married but, the Pharaoh nd Satanic agents from his father's house has been preventing him.

[/quote

ruffDiamond:
See reason abeg ..fuvked up analysis at best..who does not know that nearly every naija gal is an olosho by different names ..she does not have to take up a room in a red light district, they are all they same ..despite all their dreamy unrealistic wants and expectations, they usually got NOTHING to bring to the table in the long run except their useless over fuvk ed Toto that has seen better days rough handling and many sizes of dickks over long period of innumerable sexcapade if u ever had an Ex(that include sexual affair) ,u be olosho , olosho pure and simple and no guy wants an oversexed,longer throated gal as wife all we want is well mannered, cultured, chaste,intelligent and virtuous gal for wife I ain't talking abt beauty o ..that z all.. I know they won't learn ..so much for counter thread

because of this,i had vowed to never marry a nigerian girl because they all hv same mentality except some 0.000001% of them that are ok as wife.I plan to go to saner climes to study them and marry a sweet caribbean girl as my one and only good girl.Me i like cape verdean,dominican or soloman island girls.

misspicy:
[b]Lovely and revealing piece by my sister in the Lord....sister Lanicky sexy

I with like to add something to this rightly speculated obstacles affecting single men from clinching a marriage worthy beautiful lady like me



1)They are materialistic....Some guys are so materialistic that all they spend the little money they earn on is cloths and shoes,you know that party taking place at Quilox they are the best dressed there


2)Laziness : this point will make me to forever remember my EX,jeeez dude is so lazy,some guys are so lazy they can't even wash their undies. you will see them wearing dirty cloths over and over again,waiting for their house maid girlfriend to come do the laundry for them

3)Unambitious habit : a poor unambitious dude is a very big turn off biko,this days some guys will just be roaming around the street,travelling up and down doing nothing...please how will a lady find them marriage worthy sef.

etc

Guys should try and make some positive changes in 2016 so that ladies can at least see them as husband worthy,because many Nigerian men are not even 1/2 yard husband material [/b]

Chai misspicy. Nawa oh.
Alright we'll try and make changes in 2016
I hope after fullfilling all your laws stated here, you LADIES won't bring another ones and said we are NOT YET HUSBAND MATERIAL.
If that happen ehn, i go vex for you and the OP.

Oliviaarims:

Lol. No vex you hear, you're not on the league of the sheeple ones guys prey on. How you dey jare?

ronald4lif:


Lol. No vex you hear, you're not on the league of the sheeple ones guys prey on. How you dey jare?

I'm fine. How u, too?

Oliviaarims:


I'm fine. How u, too?

Haha, you can't be exactly fine with that emoji. Alright, all of you should get wiser. Fair deal now, init?

I'm good but not particularly fine. Not until you requite a gesture of mine. I trust you know what that means.

ronald4lif:


Haha, you can't be exactly fine with that emoji. Alright, all of you should get wiser. Fair deal now, init?

I'm good but not particularly fine. Not until you requite a gesture of mine. I trust you know what that means.

Lol.

NOTED ::: 2016 Will Be My Year, GOD Please Send My Wife To Me And Give Me The Wisdom, Finances, Resources And Strength To Marry Her Well IJN... Amen !!! Thanks Op.