This year 2016, the truth must be said in this section no matter who doesn't want to hear it.

The economy of youths is full of folks who like deceptive and fake lives, thus, dragging a majority of others alongside- little girls are picking from these destructive life patterns.

I think, we must call a spade a spade and not an implement of Agriculture.

I love ladies who truly(not in words), knows what being "classy" means. "Classy" has now been turned to "Trashy". Guys are often the victims of such anomaly. This is not good.

I've met and seen, not-a-few. Originally, Ladies were different from Peddlers. But today, the difference ain't much anymore. In fact, they're sometimes used interchangeably; you know, like synonyms, dark and black. Especially in college, some ladies "beef" their other girl friends are not into "RUNS" when they seek their help IN BID to luring them into their trade. True Ladies (few in number) are not afraid to stand out and NOT join this raid of "modernized" kind of peddling.

Let's see some Character Traits That Places A Lady In The Class Of A Peddler

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1. Demanding money before or after intimacy


Some call it, "Friendship with benefits". You see, that's an irony. A friend isn't really there for the benefits. So it's just a nickname for peddling. That's pros.ti.tu.tion in a modern economy. The euphemism fits perfectly. If you're a guy who keeps giving her that, just know, you're not the only one. You have other brothers-in-crime.


2. Breaking up with boyfriend just because he's temporarily broke and later returning when he's rich.


I recently ran into a thread on a girl who left her guy because he was broke. Yes. Now, she wants back. Such breaking news, I'm tired of hearing. If she wants to leave you now you're hustling, let her leave. Do your 'best' and when she insists on going, snub her and get to work. Recently heard of how some girls, in a certain bar, left their guys and almost going naked in front of these "Yahoo guys" as they were busy drinking. The hard truth is, if she leaves you when you can't afford a car or her jewelries. She never loved you. She ain't loyal- for the highest bidder kinda thing. Her deflated love is for sale. Snoopy, Tuface etc, all had faithful girls. If she returns again with pleas, you've just found an opportunist/gold digger.


3. Sleeping with his friends to get at him or for lustful pleasure


I was walking by one time and the things this guys were saying about ladies and what they've done with some even the seemingly "good" ones, with proofs, were disgusting. I doubted them in my mind. But who can doubt proofs? How can she be sleeping with his friends. Only dogs do that, seriously.


4. Dating married men (for money)


Another woman's husband. I know some women whose husbands sleep out and some how, they know that Karma is paying them back in pound sterlings. They pray, but with doubt. Change while you can!


5. Exposing body parts to entice another lady's man

While I'm not against "fashion" and I'm not against dressing to expose cleavage, I would also ask, "what was in her mind when she opened those sensitive spots knowing she is going to visit another girl's/woman's guy? Even interview sef, they're representing. The manager hires them, not because they're qualified but for sexual/ libido satisfaction. Using what you have to get what you want? In this scenario, that's the FIRST LAW OF A PEDDLER.


6. Going diabolical to snatch a guy


How pathetic! Yet, she is doing it out of love? Highest form of deception. Whatever you wash and put in his food; one day, his eyes will become clear. You'll be isolated, in the middle of nowhere.


7. Purposefully starving him of sex because he didn't meet your financial demands.


Especially for married folks; this is disheartening. When a woman comes screaming; My husband cheated on me. Ask her: What did you not give him? You've done it as a single so much so that you're now doing it in marriage. Well, someone else wants what you don't want, so he goes there.


8. Sex-chatting with guys for money or airtime.

This last point is the most common in Nigeria. A girl chats with you for two-three days and the next thing is, "can you send me airtime?" So appalling if not shameful. In her mind, she has a "maga". I believe honestly, only kids do this.


My Last Word

Being a lady isn't about doing things to be generally accepted by other ladies. It's leading the way. Ladies are like eagles; in terms of their strongest beliefs and principles, they are willing to fly alone with no regrets.

#letourgirlsgrowtobecomeladiesnotwhores#

Number one totally puts me off..... very very much..

How can I just meet u and d first thing u tell me is to ask me to take u out?


Deletes number mehn

5. Exposing body parts to entice another
lady's man

99.9% of them do this

7. Purposefully starving him of sex
because he didn't meet your financial
demands.

all girls do this, I repeat all of them!

what can we do? Is either you manage them or you get nothing.

TBH even if none of these is done boys will still be quick to tag one a love peddler

piercings and tattoos.: there is this girl in ma dpt that tattooed a butterfly on her boobs after first semester the butterfly turn vulture because of stretch marks due to ruffhandling from diff hands. believe it or not bae,no man in his right senses will take u serious or see u as a responsible person nor think of showing u to his mum talkless of marrying u when u body is filled with holes and tattoos.

irresponsible dressing :some ladies even in church dress half naked not minding what they wear. Then back up there act saying God needs the soul and not the body...if u can dress half naked to church then u can obviously go on a date naked.forming virging but dressing like amber rose!

braging about there sexcapades; even prostitutes are moral enough to hide there sex life. if as a lady u are proud talking and gisting in ur spare time abt sex while not married...then sister ur worst than an olosho.

Otherss include;
talking selfies in different hotel lobbies and bedrooms...oshey room services.

Taking selfies in different cars...shey u don turn mechanic

N.B:no be say i carry this matter for head like dandruff but the truth has to be said ghan!

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betsy96:
TBH even if none of these is done boys will still be quick to tag one a love peddler

u don't just have a point

I just see such girls as less privileged so pls let's just do that which we have power to do. Like keeping 1k aside monthly for all her demands even if e enter 50k, her budget na 1k.

I endorse this message

Preach it bro!

octopusfreaky:

Are you guilty?

Chanchit:
I just see such girls as less privileged so pls let's just do that which we have power to do. Like keeping 1k aside monthly for all her demands, even if e enter 50k, her budget na 1k.

haha, seriously

Number 2 is just so unfortunate!

betsy96:
TBH even if none of these is done boys will still be quick to tag one a love peddler

Not true. There are good girls who don't do these.

When you don't have money, Naija girls pick your calls after the fourth or fifth ring.


But when you make it, your missed calls list, inbox,and whatsapp go full with their messages. Smh

Cutehector:
Number one totally puts me off..... very very much..

How can I just meet u and d first thing u tell me is to ask me to take u out?


Deletes number mehn

It's heartbreaking!

LaurelP:
When you don't have money, Naija girls pick your calls after the fourth or fifth ring.


But when you make it, your missed calls list, inbox,and whatsapp go full with their messages. Smh

Haha, bro! This situation is appalling and funny.

PushMusic:
Preach it bro!



Are you guilty?

not at all,,i dont do guys any longer ,,,sick and tired of Nigerian guys ....a

emusmith:


It's heartbreaking!

and after dey complain we call dem cheap wen actually they be throwing demselves cheaply

emusmith:
haha, seriously

That's the minimum budget, but sometimes there are needs for urgent spendings apart from that even the 1k sef go enter the next month budget.

octopusfreaky:
not at all,,i dont do guys any longer ,,,sick and tired of Nigerian guys ....a

octopusfreaky:
not at all,,i dont do guys any longer ,,,sick and tired of Nigerian guys ....a

Don't tell me you are turning gay.

Cutehector:
and after dey complain we call dem cheap wen actually they be throwing demselves cheaply

It's not good. How can one fall the hand of a whole generation that way?

emusmith:


Haha, bro! This situation is appalling and funny.

I'm serious.
Just your facebook updates and pics and you your phone won't rest again

Chanchit:


That's the minimum budget, but sometimes there are needs for urgent spendings apart from that even the 1k sef go enter the next month budget.

Hmm, experience speaking!

refrain from Ajepaki girls

LaurelP:


I'm serious.
Just your facebook updates and pics and you your phone won't rest again

Hmm, I've personally witnessed that tho. And they can appear desperate in such situations enh, as if their lives depends on it...then, the guy needs to retreat.

PushMusic:

Don't tell me you are turning gay.

nope,,i will just wait and pray for my man or change location to meet better guys...

So PinkBarbie boo, How many Of those are you Guilty Of? All?.