Hello Everyone, I seriously need your advice on this issue because am very confused. Here is my Story. I am in love with this girl that I met during NYSC, although it took some time for her to accept me but she eventually did. I have studied her closely and I see the qualities that I want in a woman in her, and so I intend to settle with her but there is a challenge. I am strongly against Sex before marriage and so the relationship has been Sex-free. But recently she said she could no longer take it, she said she want us to hav sex or I should not blame her if she gets it elsewhere because according to her she has exceeded her endurance limit. I am Confused, I don't know what to do. I really love her and I don't wanna loose her but I can't go against my personal principle. Help a Brother plz I nid your advice.

God'll save you from the karishika

Desperate times calls for desperate measures. Judging from the nigeria system it should have been the other way round but here you are at the receiving end. Bro you have a STANDARD that shouldn't be altered by a mere potential gf. Be calm let her know the dangers of engaging in pre marital sex. I smell an iota of a depreciated TRUST. But if she still insist on her stand. Remember to close the door behind you and look out 4 someone that reasons the same way you do. I know if it is some other guys, how LUCKY they will term themselves smh. There are better things to worry about dude
#liveBYyourRULES.
#caLLmeBERG

Ask google nooowwww?

our women have gone mad again

This question would be good on Google but seriously your babe dey beg for sex u come dey ask us weda make u fvck am. Guy na wa for u o.

_Fuck her. What's hard about that?

Give her what she wants you idiot!

Common, clear dat spot

I think say na only guys na konji da catch wel wel. Tell her ur mind but if she still insist, well who knows she might hav been doing it even b4 u met her

Someone doesn't want to hear stories that touches after saying I DO. Many things are happening and she wants to test run the machine before making it permanently hers. I don't blame her. You either compromise your principle for her sake or stick to it and watch her go. In case you finally decide to give her what she wants just make sure you protect yourself.

Well, it's your principle, live by it..and don't break it..


Based on my church mind...I think you should fuccck her...

but the right thing to do is that you shouldn't do it....she even threatened you....

She's the kind of girl that'll fuckkkk other men u guys marry....run away fron the bit-che

Move on if she can't control herself, you'll get someone better who keeps same principle, she'll count her loss when she sees your wedding picture.

Good to know we still have men like you around.

Op give her wetin she wants now, body no b firewood ooo . wen she has been doing it b4 u met her what did u expert naa.

Shoroniyen

obiorathesubtle:
Give her what she wants you idiot!

there was no need for the insult bro

ifymagik:
Hello Everyone, I seriously need your advice on this issue because am very confused. Here is my Story. I am in love with this girl that I met during NYSC, although it took some time for her to accept me but she eventually did. I have studied her closely and I see the qualities that I want in a woman in her, and so I intend to settle with her but there is a challenge. I am strongly against Sex before marriage and so the relationship has been Sex-free. But recently she said she could no longer take it, she said she want us to hav sex or I should not blame her if she gets it elsewhere because according to her she has exceeded her endurance limit. I am Confused, I don't know what to do. I really love her and I don't wanna loose her but I can't go against my personal principle. Help a Brother plz I nid your advice.

Please send her number to obontami1@gmail.com so I can help you fccck her since your dick is not functioning


Gamaliel121 my nigga abi you no see this okpe ni sha

elantraceey:
Move on if she can't control herself, you'll get someone better who keeps same principle, she'll count her loss when she sees your wedding picture.

Good to know we still have men like you around.

. Thanks Dear I pray God help me on this

It is a ghen ghen

It is a ghen ghen something

obiorathesubtle:
Give her what she wants you idiot!

I'm suspecting that guy to be an impotent nicca



I swear, how person go want give you sara toto fcccck and you still dey do mumu-mumu


If the girl go fccck better big prick outside come dump am

The mumu go open thread like " WHY ARE LADIES SO HEARTLESS"


Smh

Please..this gurl is just an HOEloshi! Ignore her jare

AbuadStudent:
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Have sex bro! You can always re-make your principle, but you can't get the girl back

Talk with her about what your real concerns are, and about what you need -- if you do feel like she's someone you want to have sex with in time -- to address them. For instance, with your concerns about sexually transmitted infections, you may need to be sure you're both on the same page about safer sex practices, Talk about what you're worried you'll mess up, or what you're worried could get messed up in your relationship.
if after all these talk she's still not reasoning with you, let her use the exit door.

Op if you are still a virgin i'll pay it is because of it that is why you have not have sex with her. But if you are not a virgin and you decided not to have sex it her that means that you are a core principled man and violating it will be catastrophic. It is not in your nature don't do it . This is a big red flag

Op dont mind these guys above me.you should never give in to sex if you're not ready for it.t's got to happen when it's something
you strongly want, something that feels right,
and something you feel ready for at the time. It also has to be freely chosen, not something you do because you cave into what someone else needs or wants.
i'll advice you have a talk with her first..tell her your reasons for not wanting it yet.then if she insists,you have to move on bro.find someone else that shares the same beliefs as you.

Seriously I can't believe she's saying dat.well if she can't wait let her go cos dis one she is telling u that she will get it some where else, she sounds like a gal without self control and she might end up cheating on you.

obiorathesubtle:
Give her what she wants you idiot!

Wonder how u reason with yur feet atimes, Op solicited for ur advice , that doesnt giv u d right to cal him names...Haba

It's obvious she's already been bedded by another guy while you were shirking your responsibility. She just wants to do it with you so she can compare and contrast.

Donbabajay12:

Wonder how u reason with yur feet atimes, Op solicited for ur advice , that doesnt giv u d right to cal him names...Haba

drink water and mind your business today.. It'll do you a lot of good!