hmmmmmm. jus my scenario here. he walked out on me cos I insisted NO SEX B4 MARRIAGE. not a virgin though but AM DEAD PRINCIPLED ON THIS. my dear, GOD HELP US IN THIS COUNTRY. let your principle and what you believ in guide you. patience is indeed a great virtue. #godbless

SexyCeline:

b0rn2fuck you and sex sha. Pls try and change in 2016. Happy new year

it is me and you, not sex.

If she can't accept u 4 who u are, don't bunder there are many fisher in de rive, Marriage is onec in a man life so be careful

ifymagik:
Hello Everyone, I seriously need your advice on this issue because am very confused. Here is my Story. I am in love with this girl that I met during NYSC, although it took some time for her to accept me but she eventually did. I have studied her closely and I see the qualities that I want in a woman in her, and so I intend to settle with her but there is a challenge. I am strongly against Sex before marriage and so the relationship has been Sex-free. But recently she said she could no longer take it, she said she want us to hav sex or I should not blame her if she gets it elsewhere because according to her she has exceeded her endurance limit. I am Confused, I don't know what to do. I really love her and I don't wanna loose her but I can't go against my personal principle. Help a Brother plz I nid your advice.

She shdnt threaten or blackmail you with sex.
if you truely love her though n see her as wife material, you shd let her know your personal conviction. Don't demonize the issue or make her feel bad DT she wants sex with the man she loves. This period might be her moment of weakness and you just need to help her be strong .

if she is a christian let her know the dangers, take her to your pastor or priests for counselling or both of you shd go. pray abt the issue, pray for her. don't just dump her ass as ppl are advicing, if you really love her. you know where the shoe pinches.

whatever the case don't giv in to her requests cos you'll end up hating her for breaking your personal/religious convictions. and lose both your love n virginity. why not get married to her quickly to prevent note temptation.

Good luck

Be very smart...I perceive her friends told her to do so, to know if you are impotent or not...let her know your stand

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[/quote]so its OP's fault if his bae decides to get sex outside their relationship even after they both agreed to "no sex" b4 marriage [/quote]

me: He wasnt the cause and not supposed to be blamed but if he does not realise dat he might loose something valuable, he wouldnt have posted this requesting for advice. Hope am clear

[/quote]what happened to "virtue and "value" the girl should be thankful dat op is willing to wait till dey get married b4 he starts "fetching water from her well" [/quote]

me: 'Value' in this (my) context means: What made me cherish her after getting to know that she was V and what disappeared when I found out that she had (Bleep) it with one, two, probably three that I might not be aware of... am a man not gay. and virtue

women been making men feel guilty for the mistakes they "women" make.....





according to ur story...... the woman stands to loose more...... [/quote]

Take time to reevaluate your decision of chastity and be firm with your result.

ifymagik:
Hello Everyone, I seriously need your advice on this issue because am very confused. Here is my Story. I am in love with this girl that I met during NYSC, although it took some time for her to accept me but she eventually did. I have studied her closely and I see the qualities that I want in a woman in her, and so I intend to settle with her but there is a challenge. I am strongly against Sex before marriage and so the relationship has been Sex-free. But recently she said she could no longer take it, she said she want us to hav sex or I should not blame her if she gets it elsewhere because according to her she has exceeded her endurance limit. I am Confused, I don't know what to do. I really love her and I don't wanna loose her but I can't go against my personal principle. Help a Brother plz I nid your advice.

obontami:
ehen ?? Person church mind no fit tell am make him fccck toto??



Cc joseph1832

Ori yin o pe sir

sisqonite:

Ori yin o pe sir

same to you