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Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Nobody: 12:44pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Ok sir!!! CARRY ON!!! obontami: |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by drokiri(m): 12:54pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
ifymagik: IFYmagic.....Run for your dear life . what this means is that she will still threaten you in future to go to another man if you can satisfy her desire. its possible that she is into sex more than you know. |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Nobody: 12:57pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
mcpapillo: Ur maders-Cu.nt |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Boyooosa(m): 12:59pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
bet9jaguru:so its OP's fault if his bae decides to get sex outside their relationship even after they both agreed to "no sex" b4 marriage [/quote] He wasnt the cause and not supposed to be blamed but if he does not realise dat he might loose something valuable, he wouldnt have posted this requesting for advice. Hope am clear [/quote]what happened to "virtue and "value" the girl should be thankful dat op is willing to wait till dey get married b4 he starts "fetching water from her well" [/quote] 'Value' in this (my) context means: What made me cherish her after getting to know that she was V and what disappeared when I found out that she had (Bleep) it with one, two, probably three that am aware of... am a man not gay. and Virtue on the other part is what I consider for women when they are successful in business, family keeping and life generally. Her past might hunt her and deny her of all these if care is not taken, I know what am reflecting.... women been making men feel guilty for the mistakes they "women" make..... according to ur story...... the woman stands to loose more...... [/quote] I believe you and dats exactly the case, but as a man if you have a business venture, you cherish it and foresee good future in it, if you forfeit it becos of one of your staff's lapses (not able to manage such person or situation), even if you blame Buhari for it, Heaven knows dat u r d cause! |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by belcom10(m): 1:01pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
obontami:think bfore u comment, |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Endowed595(m): 1:01pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
AbuadStudent:look at ur big head! No body is going to hell with you oooh. God forgive ur imcombent soul. Remake principles smh |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by genjutsu(m): 1:04pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
You said, "I am strongly against Sex before marriage and so the relationship has been Sex-free." I believe that is your STANDARD PRINCIPLE. If that is truly your relationship principle, then uphold it & stop trying to convince yourself. Else, if you don't uphold your own standard, you'll fall for everything that looks like a relationship standard. |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Endowed595(m): 1:08pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
my brother God bless u. Good to know a brother in the faith, so there are still guys like this? First of all wetin carry u go meet disvirgined bitch? You even have plans of marrying her? My brother find a virgin who has passed thru thick and thick to retain her virtue. Its not easy in this generation to abstine from sex. U deserve someone better not a stained bitch... |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by donem: 1:37pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
obiorathesubtle: |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Nobody: 1:37pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
grad2012:sister are you a virgin |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by richiella(f): 1:59pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
ifymagik:that is his other way of exhibiting his ignorance(insult),just 4get abt him. |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Nobody: 2:02pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
I believe you and dats exactly the case, but as a man if you have a business venture, you cherish it and foresee good future in it, if you forfeit it becos of one of your staff's lapses (not able to manage such person or situation), even if you blame Buhari for it, Heaven knows dat u r d cause! oga as an employee my employer kept on ringing it in my ears that any one that does not agree with the vision and mission of the company he/she is free to leave at any fvcking tyme...... since OP's babe does not agree with the vision and mission of thier relationship should the OP be held responsible for any irresponsible behavior that his babe does outside thier relationship ...... i dont think so |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Duru009(m): 2:46pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
4get about all these saints telling don't do this or that..... its difficult to be in a matured real relationship without sex. its very very important u know ur sexual compactability of partner b4 u marriage. good sex enhances marriage n makes a woman happy all the time. |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Aarenasbaba(m): 2:53pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
It's simply because the weather is cold period |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by uruoneluv(f): 3:13pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
If u knw dat u luv her very much look for money nd pay her bride price. And if she is ur soul mate God will help. U out. |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by firstking01(m): 4:10pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
elantraceey:well said |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by kraftykc(m): 4:23pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
obiorathesubtle: That wasn't subtle. |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Chicagoesontop: 4:25pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
ifymagik: Few days ago, i read on this our blessed NAIRALAND on one of the reasons why you should taste your bride or groom to be before walking down the aisle with him/or her so that both of you can know how to handle your sexual lives when you enter into marriage, my brother if you think say your body na stick her own body no be firewood, don't ever try to blame her if you hear her moans from the neighbor next door's room because i can see that you are not even a born again christian, talk less of a pastor. EVEN pastors now dey wed their members with almost 9 months pregnancy !! what matters is a successful marriage without a break up. don't be naive religiously because the end of a thing is better than the beginning thereof !!! 1 Like |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by NathanielJande: 4:45pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Good day my dear brother. I am indeed happy that we still have some youths with integrity, moral values and fear of God. Let me be blunt with you, that is not some one you can marry. She does not have the values you have and that will pose s serious problem in future. It does not matter if you give it to her now or not. She will always have it when she needs it whether from you or else where. She has made known to you clearly who she is. She can't hold herself. If you marry a girl like that, she will break your heart. If she could tell you not to blame her if she get it somewhere else, then the message is clear. How do you know if she is not already getting it somewhere. My brother please in your own interest, run from Delilah. They always have this deceptive beauty and charm, but they are pits of sorrow, regret and death. Be warned! |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by cheyi(m): 5:22pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
DO HIV TEST,STD AND PREGNANCY TEST BEFORE YOU PROCEED.IF ALL ARE NEGATIVE,ITS A GREEN LIGHT.SHE MIGHT BE IN A HOT MOMENT WITH GENUINE MIND..OR ELSE,YOU WILL LOOSE HER FOR LIFE |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Adesewa19(f): 6:08pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Omg, see the kinda r/ship dat hv been praying for .. And som1 doesn't even know the value of it, Eni Lori oni fila |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Aminat508(f): 7:03pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Adesewa19:anty sewa 1 Like |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Nobody: 7:06pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Adesewa19:babe I'm telling you!!!!! I haven't given up on praying for such man. 1 Like |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by Okudiover(m): 8:01pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Are you for real bro? Oh please! |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by ifymagik(m): 10:13pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
NathanielJande:Thanks Bro. I appreciate |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by ifymagik(m): 10:15pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Duru009:Yea its Difficult but not impossible. Am a Living witness |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by ifymagik(m): 10:20pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
adellam16:You are wrong ma dear. I'v been responding to d comments dat I nid to. |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by itsmeurLady(f): 10:41pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
OP you are the man in the rship and I bliv Watever u say stands... TBH,most women dnt like soft men, I min men dat dey can easily convince to do anyfin, at a point, it bcums boring and she'd eventually leave u... And all of u condenming d lady shld stop it, she's only acting according to her senses, which is wrong buh that doesn't mean she cannot change... OP sit your lady down and talk to her... If u have to get her wat she likes,take her out , do it... Afterwards, talk to her, tell her your reasons.. Wld she prefer that after u guys get married, u'd start sleeping outside So talk sense into her!!! If after all these yarnings, she refuses or she's still insisting on it, give her time... When she realises that she's abt to lose a good man, she'll come back to her senses buh if not, a better woman who'd love u for who u are will cum ur way in no time |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by 3rdlegxxx(m): 11:40pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
Everything happens for a reason, talk to her and get to her why's, everyone loves pleasure, romance, head, sex, undderstand your lady and know those spots and hit it or let her let u in? |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by overboard(m): 12:17am On Jan 07, 2016 |
Boyooosa: Bro, I have laff tire! Bad boy... LoL! I know you sincerely want to help @op based on your experience o but the point I didn't elucidate on is the fact that sex before marriage is like stealing your own cake. It also IMO increases the affinity to look outside with the back-of-the-head thought that you had eaten the same pudding before the wedding and you're still eating same in marriage only formalizing it for the public. You see, sex is a very powerful tool in marriage. Even if the bride and groom were not virgins before tying the knot, there is a sense of a new experience if both parties abstain from c-o-i-t-u-s. This alone can in no small measure cement some marriages - in concert with other factors - for longer and for some, 'til death do them part. Imagine that fresh feeling + true love + fear of God - earthly utopia men! For instance, I have a friend that till today, perhaps the singular beautiful thing in his marriage is that he met his wife a virgin! Much else na tolerance o... I'm not saying that non-virgins are condemned o but rest the "faka fiki, faka fiki, you dey spoil your yansh" - thanks to Black Reverendz. You may think I'm being funny but do you know that I regret not being a virgin before marriage? I'm not even 40 yet and sex is greatly over-rated as they say for me! I love my beautiful wife but it's like the burning fire for copulation had been spent illegally. If I 'do' 5 times a month (even when freshly married), that's a good month but when we dey chop like say we no go see am again - though I still had great self control then and it was for a limited period in my growing up years - it was like 3 or 4 times a week. I even dey fear for some of the 'victims' husbys... @op, why not keep some for the deserving one? Another mama is on the way and believe me, that love you think you'll lose, you are capable of finding it for someone else. |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by SexyCeline(f): 9:36am On Jan 07, 2016 |
b0rn2fuck:b0rn2fuck you and sex sha. Pls try and change in 2016. Happy new year |
Re: What Do I Do? She Insists We Must Have Sex In Our Relationship by adellam16(f): 9:42am On Jan 07, 2016 |
ifymagik:okay I tot u were one of dose silent posters who copy people's topics from other sites. I pray u get a good solution. |
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